is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[jaq_mi]

no it's not a big deal. just as long as i know that my hubby is on my side ok lang sa akin.  i don't care.  kung hindi e di bumalik na lang sya sa bahay nila.

[Scorpio0718]

it was... until my hubby & got married... he stood by me and was not lured by anything they say against me.

Since then, it is my in-laws who makes me feel part of the family now.

[Idealistic]

At first, I thought that its a big deal 'til I got married. It doesn't really matter pala. Knowing that there's a mutual respect and we both love their son/brother that's what's important.

[.:jenny:.]

it's a big deal coz i want my partner to be completely happy. how can he be completely happy kung yun mga mahal niya sa buhay hindi gusto ang isa't-isa?

[pinkpotato]

no it's not a big deal. just as long as i know that my hubby is on my side ok lang sa akin.  i don't care.  kung hindi e di bumalik na lang sya sa bahay nila.

nice... i like this.

[pinkpotato]

no it's not a big deal. just as long as i know that my hubby is on my side ok lang sa akin.  i don't care.  kung hindi e di bumalik na lang sya sa bahay nila.

[alifa]

its ok, ndi nman sila ang [textspeak!] ko sa pagtulog kundi ang anak nila! kng ayaw sa akin ng parents nya -- well, [textspeak!] akong magagawa, minahal ako ng anak nila... at kailangan nilang tanggapin yun!

[gorgeous_momma]

depends: if independent na bf mo, ok lang yan.. Kasi pwede naman kayo bumukod.. Kaso kung dependent, ay yari ka dyan kasi ikaw kawawa for sure.. mahirap po,

[paige matthews]

if close yun bf ko sa family nya malamang maapektuhan ako...

for my case, ok naman ako sa family ng bf ko and sya din ok sa family ko.. so walang talaga kame problem 

[tazfreak_19]

yes, to an extent.

[cosmochick]

mas ok if they like me but if not hindi ako magpapaka hero just to win their affection..

i don't care as long as wala akong ginagawang masama at hindi nila kami pakialamanan.

basta my hubby is akin and handa akong ipagtanggol always.. to hell with their kayamanan.. hehe

[maria_fides]

Big deal sakin un, kase yaw ko rin naman na maapektuhan si hubby if ever di kami magkaayos ng parents nya.. I will do my best to show that I respect them, kahit [textspeak!] ma-feel ko na di nila ako gusto, basta I'll do my part nalang to do my responsibility being thier daughter in-law.

[bmitch]

No.
Pero masuwerte ako because his mom liked me.

[baby_corey]

Noon, yes. Ngayon, a big no
...i don't care kung ano sabihin ng MIL ko about me...no problem ako kay [textspeak!] because love ako ng [textspeak!] ko, si MIL lang talaga ang mahirap pakisamahan...and i will not do anything just to win her affection, 'yokong magpaka bida para lang mahalin nya ako, nah! sabihin nya kung ano gusto nya sabihin as long as wala naman akong ginagawang masama sa kanya...in the end, ako pa rin ang mahal ng asawa ko dahil hindi ko pinapatulan ang nanay nya na mahilig gumawa ng issue

[mrs.BINLATEN]

nah! wa me care if they dont like me! kakain parin ako mabubuhay parin ako kung wala sila.. so anong bilang nila sakin... zero!

[Partymom]

for me..kung like or not ako ni MIL or my BIL's..i really don;t care..but i want to maintain the respect..not for my sake but for my husband's sake..kasi shempre he will be affected kahit papano.. as long as hindi ako pinakikialaman..that's just perfect for me..

[beach haven]

It depends, but i can't tolerate kayabangan, a trait that my in laws have.

[dec_girl]

not a big deal for me, di naman sa pagyayabang, swerte nga sila sa akin at mabait ako sa kanila kahit na mahilig sila sa mga favors (asking from my hubby) at may ugali silang di ko gusto, pinapagpasenshan ko na lang. alam ni hubby yung sentiments ko sa parents niya at agree naman sha sa akin, althought my mom tells me na wag naman daw ako magmaldita.

[chantilly]

sakin din, no big deal. Ayaw nila sakin, mas lalong ayaw ko sa kanila (bad*)

[binlaten]

not a big deal for me too, just that they shouldn't interfere/dictate in the decisions my wife makes.