is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[dys_realbeauty]

hehe la lang.. thanks in advance!

[Mai]

Hmm...Yes
if your husband is not on your side ...(decision making, etc)
if your husband works in the family business, somehow, you're affected too if the in-laws doesn't like you.
If you live in the same house with the in-laws...

But if your husband can stand on his own...then I don't think there'll be any problem at all..It's not your fault if they don't like you, it doesn't mean you are "WRONG" for your husband. Sometimes parents have personal reasons for disliking a certain daughter-in-law.

[Idealistic]

If ever... YES

I want my (future) husband's family to be my family too and vice versa.

[bettiney]

Of course.  I think, people in general want to be liked by people around them.  My in laws are important to my husband.  They are his family.  My husband is important to me so it matters to me that they like me and i like them.  If my in-laws do not like me, then that's a really big deal.

[berrybear]

no as long as my hubby's not taking sides with them it's fine 'coz i don't like them either...

[arella_b]

it's not a big deal since we don't live with them nor near them. but i try to be at peace with everyone of them if possible. i wouldn't want my husband to be not in good terms with my parents of course; nakakaapekto sa relationship yun kahit paano. and it hurts when you hear something bad being said against your husband, vice versa. syempre, i don't want them to have anything against me but sometimes, no matter how hard you try, me masasabi at masasabi pa din sila.

tsaka like it or not, kasama sila sa package when you married your husband. they're there in your husband's life before you kaya respetuhan na lang siguro.

[bluekaren780]

YES! dahil sa ayaw at sa gusto mo darating at darating ang oras na magkikita kayo or magkakasama sa isang okasyon... kahit pa ba nakabukod kayo eh..

kung yung hindi mo nga in-laws, ang hirap ng feeling ng may iniiwasan ka eh... para na ring lumiliit ang mundo mo... what more pag family ng husband mo?

[jasleen]

  YUP! kase mahihirapan si hubby pag may okasyon sa kanila diba.. kung isasama ka ba nya don o pareho kayon di pupunta??? syempre maiipit si hubby sa gitna... Thank God love ako ng in laws ko...

[equine]

at first, YES! but when i found out that almost everyone in the family (including their mum) hates them, parang ok lang sakin that they dislike me! well, they dislike everyone naman talaga. hehe
(i'm talking about the sisters of my hubby)

[blackpearl304]

Yes, if it will affect my relationship with my husband. But if I only see them once in a blue moon, then who cares? 

[pookie]

yes, cause i live w/ them 
siguro if my husband and i had our own house then it wouldn't matter so much

[grumpybear]

i think it would be a big deal if you live near each other lalong lalo na if you live with them.  one could go, "i don't care, ayoko din naman sila" but mahirap pa din because there will always be friction.
in fact, with me, it's the other way around. my in-laws like me a lot, ako naman, hindi ko masyadong like yung M-I-L ko. buti na lang we live in different states kaya tolerable.

[beach_babe20]

nope, i married my husband not my in-laws! and honestly, i may be a bit harsh, but i dont really give a damn if they life me or not. as long as kampi si husband sa akin.

[Rita_23]

But of course! It would be really nice if they like me and vice versa. I don't want to complicate my relationship more by having an in-laws who doesn't like me. Though, I can live with it, in case that they don't like me but let's just say I prefer an in-laws (since they are my parents as well through marriage) whom I get along with, it's easier & less complicated, aside from being respected and treated as their own daughter. People who have this kind of situation in their married life would understand what I mean. :-)

[gelai]

Ok lang sa kin if they don't like me.. pero wag naman sana hate.  At least we should live harmoniously lang (as in walang pakialamanan) ok na yun.

[burgundy]

Nope, as long as I dont live with them and my hubby is not a mama's boy. So I dont care.

[Ielle]

at first, i thought i wouldnt care... after all, ive heard those horror stories of in-laws not liking each other... but thinking as a mother, i would really like my son to find a wife that i would like, and not one i'll have problems with... i still believe that by setting an example between me and my in-laws, my son will realize how his choice of wife can affect the harmony of our family...

[happy04]

big deal nung una...pero ngaun di na, though i've done my part to like by them. nakakailang din kapag may okasyon & we can't avoid to see each other (sister-in-laws), pero deadma na lang ako...afterall matatapos din naman [textspeak!] okasyon & mag-uuwian din kami..so konting tiis na lang.

[cOi]

in the future if ever this happens to me.. yeah it is a big deal for me.
ayaw ko kase [textspeak!] feeling na may mga taong ayaw saken lalo na kung relatives
or in-laws mo un..

[dys_realbeauty]

in the future if ever this happens to me.. yeah it is a big deal for me.
ayaw ko kase [textspeak!] feeling na may mga taong ayaw saken lalo na kung relatives
or in-laws mo un..

sa bagay..ako din eh..i hate the feeling of this kasi parang lumiit yung mundo mo or what hehe..pero i dont know if it should bother you that much if you cant please them... hay...ang gulo.. hehe..wala lang