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Resign or not:
« on: June 13, 2019, 09:06:22 am »
I hope I can make it as short as possible but please read on.

So 12 years na ko dito sa company, 34 years old na ako,31k sweldo, call center agent, never been promoted kahit TL or coach kasi nung una may offer pero di naman sa tinaggihan e hindi lang ako ganun ?kahayok? kasi feeling ko noon di pa ako ready, takot ako ihandle mga officmates ko na sa pagkakakilala ko e mga pasaway mga may ?sungay? na, pero now karamihan nagsialisan na.

Itong si company may pinagdadaanan daw need cost cutting, mag tatanggal daw last in first out or kung sino gusto mag resign, yung mga matatagal na like 4 years and up, may makukuha daw na severance pay. Nagsabi ako na magreresign na lang ako, my reason was ayaw ng asawa ko dito ako mag work kasi malayo, ortigas to south and vice versa. Pero nung ng meeting kami, na convince ako mag stay kasi forever am na daw ako, issue din kasi sakin na 24/7 kami so minsan morning, minsan mid, minsan night. So ayun na nga hindi ako naka resign.

Ngayon etong asawa ko sa tuwing mag aaway, magtatalo ganyan, lagi bukang bibig ayaw niya dito ako mag work.

Ako naman iniisip ko oo nga bukod sa malayo wala na ako growth pero ipagpapalit ko ba talaga to? Morning shift, calls ko less than 10 per day, pwede kumain sa station, pwede matulog(discreet), pwede mag tagalog, pwede mag cellphone,may small business din ako dito, tinda tinda and pautang pero small time lang din, and kumbaga close n close ko na lahat kasi since mag start to andito na ako. Natatakot ako mapunta sa toxic na account, toxic product, toxic people sa office, toxic sched ganun.

Yung offer about severance pay wala na lumipas na pero napapaisip pa din talaga ako dapat na ba ako mag resign? Feeling ko sobrang masalimuot ang mundo ng totoong call centers with all their metrics, team player ka dapat no absent/late para yung team niyo angat sa stats, dito kasi wlang ganun e, macuculture shock ako ng bongga, hindi kasi kami totally bpo, small inhouse company kami, yung website na sinusupport namin yun lang talaga account namin.

Advice naman oh thanks
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Re: Resign or not:
« Reply #1 on: June 13, 2019, 09:40:26 am »
Well..do you think worth it ba na mag stay ka dyan? ano ba gusto mo? Anong priority mo? Gusto mo ba ng career growth, mas mataas na salary or hanggang dyan na lang talaga? You have to know what you really want first. Ano ba gusto mo mangyari, in another 5 years san mo nakikita sarili mo? Anong future ang gusto mo para sa family nyo lalo na financially? Yan ang mga factors na kelangan mo isipin.

Pede ka din mag try to work from home. Marami na online jobs ngayon if ayaw mo sa ibang call centers. Pero kung talagang ok lang sayo na hanggang dyan ka na lang, and if you think worth it mag stay then do so

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Re: Resign or not:
« Reply #2 on: June 13, 2019, 10:20:02 am »
Ask yourself, are you ready to accept new challenges? Take on bigger role? Leave the flexibility and step out of your comfort zone? You don't have to resign. You just need to step out of the box and show them you're capable of taking on new responsibility. Give yourself 6 mos. and then if that doesn't improve your situation in your current company, then take your 'new you' to somewhere else. Going jobless will just worsen your situation since you will eventually pine for your financial freedom. Perhaps BPO is not for you. Find other career that will help you grow and you will truly enjoy.

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Re: Resign or not:
« Reply #3 on: June 13, 2019, 10:27:06 am »
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Ako naman iniisip ko oo nga bukod sa malayo wala na ako growth pero ipagpapalit ko ba talaga to? Morning shift, calls ko less than 10 per day, pwede kumain sa station, pwede matulog(discreet), pwede mag tagalog, pwede mag cellphone,may small business din ako dito, tinda tinda and pautang pero small time lang din, and kumbaga close n close ko na lahat kasi since mag start to andito na ako. Natatakot ako mapunta sa toxic na account, toxic product, toxic people sa office, toxic sched ganun.


Para sa isang call center employee this is like a paradise na, some kahit mas malalaki sweldo binabawi naman sa lack of benefits tulad ng ganito kaya napaparesign. Alam naman natin na maraming horror stories at mga employees na palipat lipat lang ng company kaya i think swerte ka sa company mo, valid rin ang reason mo na gusto mong umiwas sa toxicity kasi yun talaga ang nakakadrain sa lahat kahit sa anong industry. Para sakin wala naman akong nakikitang  mabigat na reasons para umalis ka unless maisipan mong magshift ng career or kung may makita kang mas magandang offer diyan sa south with the same benefits which is mahirap..

Pero be open nga rin sa wfh, browse browse ka ng trabaho online baka may skills na pasok sa iyo or willing kang matutunan kasi ok siya once makakita ka ng matinong employer.
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Re: Resign or not:
« Reply #4 on: June 13, 2019, 01:48:25 pm »
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So ayun na nga hindi ako naka resign.

sis what do you mean, ginusto mo na rin bang mag-stay dahil mas maganda na schedule mo ngayon unlike before? O napilitan ka lang mag-stay?

As you mentioned one con is wala kang career growth but you also identified many pros.

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Ngayon etong asawa ko sa tuwing mag aaway, magtatalo ganyan, lagi bukang bibig ayaw niya dito ako mag work. 

Ayaw nya sa work mo dahil malayo. Is it coming from the lack of quality time and bonding time between the two of you? Baka nakukulangan sya or he feels relationally empty because of that?

If that is the case then perhaps you can explain how the new schedule will benefit your relationship. Add to that, you can create a weekly routine/couple date with him kung sakaling relationship-based ang concern nya. Minsan kasi wala sa content ng pinag-aawayan yan eh, someone is just feeling less loved, so kinaiinisan yung pinagkaka-busy-han mo.

so parang ang dating ng post mo eh --
nice schedule/environment VS career growth VS husband (ayaw nya malayo work).

 


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