Online Dating (Thread 2)

[nerddict]

Hindi ba nakakatakot itong mga online dating sites mga sis?

[Apple1230]

Just enjoy the course and establish contacts. Good luck sis! I know a couple of profs there.
As for the students, hindi naman purkit they can afford, ok na. Kasi nasa sa tao parin yun. Baka kasi sinend Lang sila dyan ng rich parents. Or sometimes spoiled din at laki sa layaw. So I really can?t say that the quality of men going to an expensive school is better. Though puede Ma rule out mo one factor, may moolah sila   in fact mas careful ako if they?re rich, kasi without their money, what can they do? .

Yeah i know sis. Thank you! wala naman ako expectations na may ma meet sa class pwede for network pero so for hanggang dun lang. kailangan kasi buhayin ko parents ko since matanda na sila they cannot afford to start over then yung sis ko and pamangkin parents ko ang bumubuhay so now i have to help all of them.

Hindi ba nakakatakot itong mga online dating sites mga sis?

Nasa iyo naman iyan kaya dapat screen mo mabuti. Huwag ka makipag meet kung sa chat pa lang mukhang hindi na ok yung tao. Or pag nag meet sa resto or public place like a mall. Kung medyo nagpapa haging ng sexual and hindi ka game e di deadma na lang huwag mo na kausapin and do not give your personal info kung bago mo pa lang kilala.

Yung mga IBANG naloloko desperate kasi sila they ignore the red flags kasi gusto na talaga nila magkaroon ng bf or lovelife. I repeat yung IBA. And do not be gullible na lahat ng sabihin ng guy paniwalaan. Walang manloloko kung walang nagpapaloko. Be smart about it and you will be alright.

[Girltalker2]

^^^Hindi ko pa na try yung hindi masyadong seryoso. Hindi ako marunong. Teka, pano ba gawin yun? A friend told me, bakit daw hindi ko bigyan ng chance yung guys na hindi ko type. Kasi pag daw type ko yung guy sa simula pa lang, I always end up luhaan.

Sakin din. More of not serious, kasi we are just friends. No intimacy. And Di lang sya ang ka-date ko, kaya hindi serious.
Pero if serious, can consider exclusive dating.
Hindi ko Ma-mix together if hindi serious pero sya lang ng sya ang ka-date ko. Tendency is I will definitely fall for him, then in the end, Pag Hindi serious, definitely I will be hurt.

Hindi ba nakakatakot itong mga online dating sites mga sis?

Question ko din iyan. But like meeting anyone new, people should take precautions.

Andito ako sa thread coz I find it very interesting to see people from totally different backgrounds, sa online nagkakatuluyan.

[nerddict]

most of you po ba is nasa abroad?

[angeljolie]

Kahit naman face-to-face dating nakakatakot eh. Actually mas safe nga ang online dating because you have enough time to do background checks. Madaming scams online pero madami din sa face-to-face dating. You need to be smart either way.

[nerddict]

yung mga namention po na mga dating sites, does it work if you're in the Philippines, or okay lang sya if you're in the US or Canada for example?

[Girltalker2]

Kahit naman face-to-face dating nakakatakot eh. Actually mas safe nga ang online dating because you have enough time to do background checks. Madaming scams online pero madami din sa face-to-face dating. You need to be smart either way.

Yup! Be wiser! Don?t always use your heart. Don?t fall easily.

[angeljolie]

yung mga namention po na mga dating sites, does it work if you're in the Philippines, or okay lang sya if you're in the US or Canada for example?

Most of the sites mentioned here are available to anyone anywhere. May iba, like yung Plenty of Fish (?), parang hindi available dito.

^Girltalker2, true! Yan ang number one rule dapat sa dating in general: don't fall easily. Lesson learned the hard way for me! LOL!

[Girltalker2]

^Girltalker2, true! Yan ang number one rule dapat sa dating in general: don't fall easily. Lesson learned the hard way for me! LOL!

And for me, the only way for me not to fall for a guy is to go multiple dating. Para yung attention ko Di lang sa isang guy. Kasi if 1 guy (na gusto ko) ang lagi ko nakikita, most likely mahulog loob ko sa kanya, pero di ko alam if he is really into me or not.

[nerddict]

parang dapat may kasama ka ding swerte pala sa online dating, aside from being a cautious.

[angeljolie]

And for me, the only way for me not to fall for a guy is to go multiple dating. Para yung attention ko Di lang sa isang guy. Kasi if 1 guy (na gusto ko) ang lagi ko nakikita, most likely mahulog loob ko sa kanya, pero di ko alam if he is really into me or not.

Will do this next time too!

^^kvandenhaak hehe ang tapang mo. Pero I'm sure you did the required due diligence.

[Girltalker2]

parang dapat may kasama ka ding swerte pala sa online dating, aside from being a cautious.

As many have said, online man o hindi. You really need luck and God?s grace!

For me looking for the right guy is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Marami Kung sa marami but Hindi madali to find the right one for you. I still see this as a slimmer chance than winning a Lotto.

[Shadow Angel]

Tama un multiple chatting ganyan din ako noon. Alam naman ng mga kachat ko na may iba pa ako kachat at sila ganun din hehe. Kaya madali ako nakamove on dun sa isang nagustuhan ko. Ang isa pa dyan kapag makipag meet up aside sa public be sure din na may isa or dalawa friend ka na alam na may kameet up ka at alam ang background ng guy kung saan at what time kayo magkikita.

[angeljolie]

nerddict dami mo na nakukuhang tips from the veterans here haha! Go for gold!

As many have said, online man o hindi. You really need luck and God?s grace!

For me looking for the right guy is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Marami Kung sa marami but Hindi madali to find the right one for you. I still see this as a slimmer chance than winning a Lotto.

Wala nang mas tototoo pa dito! LOL!

[nerddict]

^oo nga sis. kaya nga basa basa muna at tanong tanong ako sa mga GT dito about their experiences. hehe. Kumbaga student pa lang ako. hehe

[Girltalker2]

Tama un multiple chatting ganyan din ako noon. Alam naman ng mga kachat ko na may iba pa ako kachat at sila ganun din hehe. Kaya madali ako nakamove on dun sa isang nagustuhan ko.

Yup! Pag nakakaasar ang Isa, you don?t spend time overthinking things. Just move on to the next, look for a new crush haha

Another basic rule I keep handy also is never ever sleep with them. Una una, Hindi mo sure Kung serious sila or user. Based on my personality, I?m not the easy go lucky type and I?m a bit of a worrier. So I can just imagine if I?m with someone intimate, kahit pa sabihin kong fling, para sakin May investment nako doon. And just like any other investment, may expectations ako. Which di ako dapat mag expect kasi nga fling lang dapat. So I can?t, it?s not in my personality. Minsan kasi your rules/strategy eh dapat akma din sa personality mo for you to be able to come out successful in the dating game.

Ang isa pa dyan kapag makipag meet up aside sa public be sure din na may isa or dalawa friend ka na alam na may kameet up ka at alam ang background ng guy kung saan at what time kayo magkikita.

Yes, someone close to you is aware and ideally character reference din nung Guy - may ka kilala ka na kilala din sya! Haha
When my colleague asked me out, natural di ko pinapaalam sa officemates namin. But I did fish some info and alam ko dapat where ko sya hahanapin if ever I need to look for him. As to agreeing to have dinner with him, heto nishare ko muna sa friend ko so someone somehow knows.

[nerddict]

I did it! I signed up for Ok Cupid! hehe. Question lang po, is it okay if hindi muna ako maglagay ng pictures ko? hehe

[Shadow Angel]

^tama ka dyan regarding sleep or sex with them hindi mo naman mamaya may sakit pala. Be extra careful lalo na kung foreigner ang kadate mo. May iba sa kanila pupunta ng pinas pero dami ka meet up na babae or before ka idate nakakuha na ng babae sa bar/club. Kahit pa gaano ka hunk ang kachat mo wag basta bumigay. Mula sa umpisa sinasabi ko sa mga kachat ko na hindi ako for hook up or something. Isa pa pag marami kachat dun mo makikita kung ano ang redflag sa kanila kasi mapagkukumpara mo.

[nerddict]

It's interesting, reading their profiles and viewing their photos. Parang may vibes kung sino yung hindi mo makakasundo based on photos and profile. Kayo din po ba ganun? Or ako lang ganun? hehe

[nerddict]

Just don't believe everything that you see and read. I have never encountered anyone like that yet but I have stories that they post pictures na hindi sila.

natakot ako bigla dito! hahaha! baka nga poser lang pala. hahaha! is it normal sis na uncomfortable ako maglagay ng picture ko na showing my face? and do you message a guy first na feeling mo okay?