Online Dating (Thread 2)

[eischied_21]

Hello, let's continue our online dating adventures here

Old thread link:
https://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php?topic=257132.600

[kvandenhaak]

I enrolled in a Single and Parenting class. Guess what? The facilitator is the guy I met online who I blocked...LMAO! I think he recognized me. Kaloka! 🤣

[angeljolie]

^^Thanks for creating a new thread!

^Kaloka ka sis hahaha! Ilang taon na nga si my boy Eric?

[angeljolie]

^Nagmeet ba kayo in person ni facilitator before you blocked him?

Ang bata pa to pala ni Eric! Sayang. Chos!

[Apple1230]

^why would you think he is doung some monkey business?

Just an update too. I met up with the italian guy, my friends and i felt comfortable with him right away. I was pairing him with my friend but he said he likes her as a friend. Met up with him again last night. It was fun. He said he is so comofortable with me right away like we?ve know each other a long time.

Sabi daw ng boss niya yung owner ng team meet as many women as you can here in the phils. para madami daw siya choices pero ayaw niya ng ganun. Gusto niya isa lang and have a real connection with her. Boss niya da baw babaero iba ibang babae ang kasama depende sa mood pinoy yung boss niya. And mostl of them women 20years younger than his boss. Yung head coach nila german faithful daw may long time girlfriend na. Hay naku mga pinoy talaga oh. k

[angeljolie]

Yay happy for your sisses at mukhang maganda ang pasok ng 2018 sa lovelife tee hee!.

Sis Apple, same sentiment? mga Pinoy talaga!!!

Sis kvandenhaak, what?s ?crystal ball?? Is it your stalking skills? LOL! Ang bagets bagets naman ni Eric. Sayang. Chos!

Saka na ako magkukwento hehe.

[kvandenhaak]

^Uy, mukhang nadiligan ng mabuti... LOL! I will wait for you juicy Chika.

Sariwa masyado si Eric, yes! Tahimik ulit the past week or so. Sabi ko, "ay salamat naman. Siguro masaya na ulit sya!" 😁 I honestly want him to find the girl he deserves.

[angeljolie]

^Lol wala pa nga!

Natawa ako sa crystal ball kasi ang galing talaga natin sa ganyan. Dati tuwing iveverify ko ang claims nya, lagi akong kinakabahan. Iniisip ko kung ready ba ako sa makikita ko. Wala naman sysng inconsistencies so far. Pero always talaga I get clammy hands lol. Sabi nya bakit daw ba kasi I?m always thinking of the worst hehe.

Baka naman friends na lang ang turingan nila athlete and ex. Otherwise siguro ita-tag nya pa sa posts nya si athlete. I-add mo kaya si ex as friend? Lol

[angeljolie]

^Whaaaaat? Anong nangyari bakit natuloy ang inis mo?

[angeljolie]

^Ang bilis naman ng mga pangyayari! Siguro by this time ok na kayo ulit. Ano nangyari sa planong chill? Relax sis!

[sk8rboyswife]

Uu nga, wala ba kayong mga ganap mga mamsh?

[angeljolie]

^^Naks ang sweet! So teka, yan bang text nya ay after a long period of silence? Or have you been in touch and did not tellus? Lol!

Kakabalik ko lang din from France kasama si papa P pero mukhang we?re going downhill from there. Magkasama kami for 2 weeks and the last 2 days medyo nagkakaasaran na kami. Actually ako yung unang nainis kasi na out of place na ako. Wala na akong kausap kasi yung paborito nyang kapatid na lang ang kasama namin, sila na lang ang naguusap. Ok lang sana pero pati ba naman sa strangers (uber driver, saleslady, etc) mas nakikipagusap pa sya kesa saken. So hindi ko na natiis, sinita ko na. Sabi nya hindi daw nya naramdaman na hindi nya ako kinakausap. Feeling nya he attended to me naman daw. Anyway, long story short, isang tanong isang sagot ang pagtetext namin ngayon. Feeling ko nasusulsulan nung kapatid na may pagka maldita. Pwes, magsama sila! Minsan naiisip ko nakakapagod na din.

[kvandenhaak]

^We were talking before prior to that, di ko lang naikwento. But there's about almost two weeks of silence. He didn't even know I was pissed...lol!

Bakit kasama sa eksena si sister sa date nyo?

[angeljolie]

^Normal lang sa inyo yung ganung kahabang silence? Feeling ko alam nyang nabwisit ka pero di ka pinatulan hehe.

Every year umuuwi sya sa France to be with his mom and sisters. Ako actually ang sabit.

[angeljolie]

^Ganyan din si papa P minsan. Ayaw nya na pagusapan yung tantrums ko hehe. Pero kung normal sa inyo na matagal yung silence, baka nga di nya alam.

Eh kahit ako ang sabit, bisita nya kaya ako. At foreigner ako dun, sa kanya lang ako naka depend. At hindi din naman kami madalas magkita kaya sana man lang equal ang treatment. Hindi naman ako nagpumilit sumama, sya naman nag imbita. But anyway, kebs na lang lol!

[angeljolie]

^Ewan ko naman ba kasi sa atin bakit big deal pag iniignore tayo. At ewan naman din sa kanila kung bakit wala lang yung hindi sila attentive masyado. I guess yan ang malaking pagkakaiba talaga ng babae at lalake. At kahit akala natin lalake na tayo mag isip, lalabas at lalabas pa din ang pagkababae hehe. Ako naiinis sa sarili ko kasi I don?t know what ?love? (?) does to me. Pag hindi ko pa love, super confident ako. Pag love ko na, parang nagiging dudera ako. I don?t like it.

Nakakaintindi ako ng French but since hindi sya natural saken, I have to listen hard para maintindihan ko. Nung una impressive kasi nakakasagot ako sa mga tanong nila at nakakareact sa usapan. Saka sinusupplement nya din kasi ng translation. Nung huli napagod nako, hindi nako natutuwa. I just wanted to relax. Tapos sya hindi na din nagtatranslate. Siguro pagod na din.

[angeljolie]

^Kaya ko pa naman mag hold on. I just need to refocus. Masyado na akong naka focus sa kanya, I need to zoom out. Honestly, pinagdadasal ko pa na sana ma-handle ko ang situation without the drama.

Iba talaga sila mag isip kesa sa babae, pero mukhang common sa kanila yung maikli ang attention span. I was chatting separately with 2 guy friends today and omg pareho silang hindi magaling makinig. Yung isa, nagkukwento ako that I got scammed kasi he is venturing into a business partnership remotely. Never nya pa nameet yung partners, never nya napuntahan yung project sites. So habang naglilitanya ako, sabi ba naman ?I have friends who are in Boracay right now and I?m very jealous.? Sabi ko ?don?t men really know how to listen?? He said sorry while laughing. American guy. Yung isa ganun din. Pero pinoy naman. Hay naku baka nga masyado ko sila inaanalyze.

Creative ka din ba mag isip kaya ka nagdududa? hehe. Ako kasi nasabihan na na very creative, dami ko daw nagagawang stories sa isip ko. Actually minsan naiisip ko I?m too shallow. I need to grow up.

[angeljolie]

^Oo lahat ng scenarios naiisip hehe. Katulad ngayon, napapansin ko, the past week, consistent syang maagang mag good night. Pero feeling ko hindi naman talaga natutulog agad. Feeling ko tuloy may ibang ka chat. Hay naku ayoko naaaaaa! Ayoko nang ganitong feeling. I guess I?m not really my best self when I?m in a relationship. Baka destined talaga akong tumanda mag isa.

Teka, hindi pa kayo seriously dating?

[Apple1230]

^well always listen to your intuition but keep an open mind rin baka naman pagod lang yung tao. i do that too before kahit hindi pa ako matutulog nag gu-goodnight na ako kasi tamad na ko makipag usap i want to be left alone to do other things like read a book, watch my favorite series, etc. those are harmless naman.

need advice mga sis. i'm seeing the italian guy, we've been out 6 times already usually with other people sometimes it's just the 2 of us. hang out lang talaga pag magkasama kame parang barkada. he says he likes me and malinis ang intention niya. the thing is i am not physically attracted to him. gwapo naman siya kaya lang 51yrs. old na, malaking tao 6'1", malaki rin yung built, parang mapapanot na hehe. it's like i can't see myself holding hands with him or kissing him. stuff like that.

i enjoy his company masaya naman at hindi kame nauubusan ng pag uusapan, mabait siya, gentleman, he respects me and my physical boundaries. pag nagku-kwentuhan kame sinasabi niya pag nagka gf siya he will always be all over her, mag shower together etc. nandidiri ako pag naiisip ko kung sakaling ako yun.

i really can't mga sis. am i being shallow? feeling ko i should stop seeing him kasi parang ang bad ko dahil sumasama ako sa kanya, lumalabas kame pero para sa akin friendship lang talaga ang ma-offer ko sa kanya. his face is ok gwapo talaga pero yung other parts of him di ko type. huhu ang bad ko no? but what can i do?

[angeljolie]

^I am trying to be open-minded about it. Ang hirap lang talaga. Hindi ko sya sinisita pero the truth is kung ano ano pa din naiisip ko. Pero tama ka, minsan ako din even after mag good night may gusto pa akong ibang gawin. I just hope harmless din ang ginagawa nya. Sa umaga pagkagising nya sweet naman sya. Pag nag greet sya, greet ko lang din sya. Sya na yung nagfo-follow up question kasi iniisip ko baka naman napipilitan lang sya makipagusap dahil ako yung tanong nang tanong. He tries to keep the convo going naman. So naiisip ko, posible ba na ok kami sa umaga pero sa gabi hindi? Lol ang weird!

About your Italian guy, hehe nakakatawa pero ganyan din ako. Mabait ka pa nga kasi nakaka 6 na labas na kayo. I met a Canadian guy before who?s 55 naman, maganda ang physique, masarap kausap. But he looks much older than his age, dresses too casually, and panot na din but the hair left on his head was unruly na medyo mahaba pa. After one date, ang sama ko I ignored him na. Hindi ko talaga maimagine sarili ko with him. My guy now is turning 51 na soon and everyone is saying he looks so much older than his age. Panot na sya talaga but he shaves his head so hindi halata masyado and he always wears a cap when he can. Maganda din physique though malaki tyan nya ngayon than before. His face is wrinkled, pero the rest of his body bata pa. His hands and feet are so pretty nakakahiyang itabi ang kamay at paa ko. He dresses casually din but so much neater than the Canadian. Sabi ng friends ko mukha daw kami magtatay hehe. I think yung face nya sobrang tanda kasi he has been living and working by the beach since he was in his 20s and he never used sunblock. Anyway, he has a great personality. Kinda weird, eclectic but I know he is a nice guy. So what am I saying here? It is probably not the age or the looks na hindi mo type (not yet?). It could be an older guy pero magugustuhan mo.  Is he neat? Haha sorry saken kasi big factor ang neatness. If you do not mind, how old are you na?