What's your non-negotiable in a romantic relationship?

[KeyserSoze]

@Keyserzone no offense meant sa INC dito ah but I will never date someone na INC member. Non-negotiable ko yan. Agnostic or atheist ok lang, wag lang nagpapractice ng demonic rituals lol.

that escalated quickly, hahahha.

pero I understand where you're coming from. they have some pretty "unique" traditions.

anyway thanks for answering my question ladies. Open minded rin pala kayong girls somehow to those na hindi super religious which i find cool.

[plumpolka]

Add ko pa pala,


dealbreaker sakin if hindi kami okay ng pamilya nya. most especially if may ugali yung mom nya sakin. they say na lalaki naman ang pakikisamahan mo, but its not true. unless you'll stay far away from them then siguradong hindi mo sila pakikisamahan. but if not, they will always be there sa binyag, bday, at kung ano pang event sa buhay nyong mag-asawa and kung masama ugali ng pamilya nya sakin, forever na yun for sure.

[mysterioza_me]

^True yan. Maski anong layo or bukod niya sa pamilya napakadali nalang ng communication ngayon kaya maipaparamdam pa din nila ang pag-ayaw sa iyo. Saka isa pa kahit anong maganda ang gawin mo may masasabi pa din silang masama kasi nga hindi ka nila gusto. No matter how hard you try na makipag makeup balewala yan.

[Miss Taken]

Deal breaker for me is when a guy doesn't have goals or has no idea what he wants to do with his life. I have to think of the future and be realistic. I can't be with someone who's lazy since I know it will be a huge problem and can eventually be the cause of our breakup.

Also, if a guy obviously disrespects his mom or any member of his family. That's a huge no-no for me.

[three8one]

what if he promises that he'll make sure to teach your kids to worship God naman if the time comes na magka-anak kayo? does this make the "religion" category a negotiable one? does it change anything?

follow up question lang, medyo nalito lang ako dito. pano mag pa promise ang isang atheist na magturo ng isang bagay na hindi naman nya pinaniniwalaan? specially about God existence?