Mr Turko, matanong kita... ikaw ba may history ng pambababae? Be it with your current gf or past gf?
Kung ako gf mo, di naman siguro ako iiyak pero magagalit ako. Una una, di ka ba nahihiya na mahal Yung binibili ng Friend mo (other than your gf) for you? Alangan naman walang kapalit yun?
Sabi mo wala kang Budget, how would you feel if a guy friend gives your GF a Prada bag worth 20k? Since you cannot give her one branded bag?
Hindi ba awkward para sabihin friends lang sila at wala Yun?
Secondly, nung tumawag Yung Friend mo while gf is in the other line, did you somehow 'recognise' your GF? Did you tell this friend of yours na may GF ka? Since nakikinig din naman GF mo sa conversation, ano ba naman Yung sabihin mo sa Friend mo - sige, I have to go kasi my gf is waiting on the other line. Hindi eh. Parang pina inggit mo lang gf mo na may ibang Babae na nagbibigay ng attention Sayo and possibly may gusto pa.
And the fact you cannot see your mistake, kapag ako gf mo, lalo talaga akong magagalit. In fact, I would start thinking if you're really ready for a relationship. Financially, you can't afford a speaker. Secondly, dami Mong ka close na ibang girls. Last but not the least, you cannot see through situations like these from a committed guy's point of view.
para sakin, whether tanggapin mo O Hindi, the fact remains di mo ma distinguish ano dapat ang asta mo around the opposite gender. Given Ito alam ng gf mo nagalit na sya, what more Pag di nya alam, lalo pa na ldr kayo.
Tapos Hindi mo nga tatanggapin, malulungkot ka naman at manghihinayang na parang nawalan ka. Natural maiinis Talaga gf mo. Kahit ano pa Gawin mo.
And you know why I decided to be with my BF? Nung courtship days namin, may babae na nagbibigay din sa kanya ng gifts. He doesn't open them and just puts them aside. He was in fact planning to leave them in the office once he starts work sa ibang company. But when I helped him move his stuff, he told me just leave it there as some lady gave it to him. Then in another time, may Another ofcmate from a different office na binigyan sya ng food, he makes it a point to let me know. Sinoli nya kasi natakot sya Baka may gayuma, at Buong box lang naman binigay sa kanya samantalang sa ibang staff, shared yung 1 box. Then naalala ko one time parang may pasalubong din sya from a girl, he gave it to me. Sabi nya he won't use it. And I can give it to whoever can use it kasi sayang. I Guess the point I'm making is be careful with these things when it comes to the opposite gender. Puedeng malinis konsyensya mo, and it could be fun to receive such an attention. Pero before you know it, baka unti unti na nahuhulog loob mo sa iba nang di mo namamalayan.
Anyway, bf/gf palang naman kayo. Technically you're still free.
