Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)

[chinablue]

^parang nabasa ko sa kabilang thread sis na may third party involved kaya cancelled ang wedding.

[mysterioza_me]

^Oo nga sis e. Nauna ko nakapagcomment dito sa thread na to bago ko nabasa sa kabila na may third party palang involved. Akala ko talaga postponed lang dahil sa wedding jitters ni groom-to-be. Nakakaloka. Yan ang tanong paano nagagawa ni guy na itapon yung ilang taon na pinagsamahan para sa bagong kakilala lang?! Lalo na kung naka-plano na kasal.

[lalee888]

Sis @moonandstars -- I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. You dodged a bullet though. Mahirap matali Lalo na walang divorce.

No words can comfort you right now because of the heartache. Remember that this too shall pass and what does not kill you can only make you much stronger. Clich? but true.

Do what you need to do to heal yourself, allow yourself to mourn and be sad, to discover yourself better, and then later to be open to possibilities.

Big hugs and praying for positive light and love going your way!!

[chinablue]

naalala ko tuloy yung friend ko. 4 years na sila ng ex niya and nagpaplan na din ng kasal. my friend has a well-paying job abroad but she resigned to be with the guy. one day, nagulat na lang kami na break na sila. and ayun, may third party din na involved. nambabae na si guy while sila pa ng friend ko. tsk tsk. siguro totoo din talaga yung woman's intuition noh. kasi when we met the guy for the first time, mabigat yung feeling at hindi kami comfortable sa kanya. anyway, it's painful but there's always a silver lining in every hardships and problems we encounter. isipin mo sis na mas ok na ngayon ito nangyari kesa magcheat siya kung kelan mag asawa na kayo at meron ng mga anak. God saved you from him and is reserving you for someone better. I hope you're coping sis. Virtual hug to you.

[littlekinselle]

@moonandstars hug sis!  be thankful kasi mas maganda na di natuloy kasal niyo kysa kinasal na kayo saka niya sinabi yun. may kakilala ako ganyan  after nila ikasal in less than 3 months lang hiwalay na sila agad. reason may ibang lalaki si girl sa ibang  bansa.  kaya ang ginawa ni guy nag pa annulled talaga sila yun ang babae ang gumastos.

ngayon un guy friend ko na un kasal na at happy naman siya mas nakatagpo siya ng mas talaga mag mamahal sakanya..
sa una lang daw yan masakit, wala salitang move on sa broken hearted need mo lang tanggapin ang situation mo.. eventually masasanay ka din ng wala siya.. wag muna balikan un guy na yan worth it para pinag lalaban. 

[applexkiss]

Hi po! I'm newbie po.
Ask ko lang po kung ano ibig sabihin pag si guy, blinock ka sa messenger pero hindi ka iblinock sa mismong facebook. Paano ba i-decode yun sa isang guy?

[amethyst028]

^it means he doesn?t want to talk to  you, he doesn?t want to get a private message from you. I did that to  a guy. Ang kulit kulit kasi message ng message  sakin so i blocked him sa messenger. Fb friends pa din kame kasi high school schoolmate ko naman siya we have a hundred plus common friends. Only for that reason kaya hindi ko siya dinelete. 

[mysterioza_me]

^True. Hahaha! I did that to a friend na aya ng aya sa akin sumali sa networking. Blocked siya sa messenger pero fb friends pa din kami.

[applexkiss]

^
^^ Grabe po hindi naman ako istorbo sa kanya. Haha Actually po dati syang dumidiskarte sakin kaso never sya nagkachance.
Nung nagchat ako sa kanya nung isang araw, nagthank you sya sa akin, then same day block nya ko sa messenger.
Pero sa fb I can still view his profile, kahit magcomment at magpost sa timeline nya. Haha. Bakit di na lang nya nilubos. Dagdag number sa list? char po.

[simang]

^Ako tingin ko it's either napindot nya lang or girlfriend nya yung nagblock. I don't think any guy would take their time to block to send mixed signals. Lol. Unless the gf asked him to do so, or accidentally napindot nya lang.

[three8one]

^
^^ Grabe po hindi naman ako istorbo sa kanya. Haha Actually po dati syang dumidiskarte sakin kaso never sya nagkachance.
Nung nagchat ako sa kanya nung isang araw, nagthank you sya sa akin, then same day block nya ko sa messenger.
Pero sa fb I can still view his profile, kahit magcomment at magpost sa timeline nya. Haha. Bakit di na lang nya nilubos. Dagdag number sa list? char po.

for me the reason na blinock ka nya sa messenger nya is ayaw nya madagdadagan yung pain na naranasan nya nun time na sabi mo dumiskrte sya sayo then hindi naman nagkaron ng chance na maging kayo. siguro ikaw ang pers lab nya. blinock ka nya simply na hurt sya sayo but at the same time kaya fb friends pa rin kayo dahil he wanted to keep updated pa din sa mga pangyayari sa buhay mo thru pagsilip silip sa fb page mo.

ayaw ka nya kausap dahil may galit sya pero gusto nya palagi ka nakikita. hehe!

[Girltalker2]

Unless the gf asked him to do so,

This is very likely

But then may time nga na nagtataka ako yung friend ko Di ako nireply-an. Then hinahanap ko message nya sa Viber, at Di ko mahanap. Yun pala I accidentally blocked her. It happens. 😄

[applexkiss]

@simang parang imposible na napindot nya lang sis hehe kasi kelangan mo pa talaga diba puntahan yung profile nung tao na un sa messenger, para iclick yung Block button.

Send mixed signals? For what? Like what po?

Iniisip ko din, if gf nya nag utos (if meron man), why block lang sa messenger? Kung ako un dapat UNFRIEND na or matik BLOCKED na. Haha!

@three8one
hahaha pain talaga? hindi po ako ang first love nya. May exes na rin yun pero that was a decade ago pa. Nung immature pa sya (as if di pa mature eh) Haha!

Feeling ko nga yung last day na ng pagchat namin, huling paalam na nya yun. Hehe. Nabanggit nya din na happy sya sa kung ano na achieve ko. Biruin mo yun? Akala ko nga naka unfollow na siya since then, pero nakikita parin pala nya  yung mga posts ko sa timeline nya. But he never "liked" it, hindi katulad noon nung OK pa kami (though wala naman talagang kami lol).

@Girltalker
Baka naman sis nairita ka lang sa kanya before kaya mo nablocked accidentally. char!

[moonandstars]

Thank you sa advices. Right now, I?m trying to move on with my life. Slowly rebuilding myself and believing that everything happens for a reason.
Ang dami kong question as to why this happened pero I think in time I will better understand this. The guy confessed that he got afraid of commitment, turned out my hangups sya from his childhood. Coming from a broken family. Not only that, but he also hired a therapist that offers extra service. Yung girl na yun I think yung parang naging escape nya to get out of the situation. He admitted na nagkita sila nung girl several times. They went out on dates. He enjoyed daw the company of the girl. But they?re not doing any sexual acts. Sobrang traumatic experience for me. Nagdecide na din ako not to push through with the wedding. Then ngayon, i found out na sila na nung girl. Masakit but I know the situation could have been worst if we pushed through with the wedding.

[Bridgette*]

Nako Ate hayaan mo sila. Look at them, owning how cheap they are, mga walang delikadesa. Ganda ganda mo teh, move on then rumampa ka.

Huuugs for you.

[moonandstars]

Nako Ate hayaan mo sila. Look at them, owning how cheap they are, mga walang delikadesa. Ganda ganda mo teh, move on then rumampa ka.

Huuugs for you.

Yes true sis. Sobrang cheap i know. 😞

[TomHansen]

^ cut mo na communications niyo ha. Wag ka nang maging curious sa mga nangyayari  sa buhay niya. wag kang magreply sa texts, block his number. Block social media accnts, unfollow his family, if nahihirapan ka try mo munang mag-open ng accnts mo for a month.

[moonandstars]

That?s what I?ve been trying to do. Pero sometimes I still get tempted to look at their accounts and just end up hurting myself. It has been 3 months. Up to now still a part of me can believe na pinagpalit ako sa prostitute. Sobrang lala.

[Gabby11]

Guys, issue ba sa inyo kung may stretchmarks??? ano anong body issues nyo sa babae?? hahaha curious lang.

[AprilGal26]

^hahahahahaha, nice! hintayin natin answer nila