Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)

[amethyst028]

it's complicated na.  i see him with another girl from our office. kami, hanggang ngitian lang. i think he's ashamed of being seen with me coz i am a single mom. i don't know.

I'm a single mom too and there is nothing shameful about it. I had ex bf's who introduced me to their  family and alam nila na may anak nako and i'm treated like one of their own. I dated guys na sa first date pa lang sinabi ko na agad na may anak ako and they still kept asking me out sadly hindi lang talaga kame compatible or timing is not on our side. I noticed there's no difference yung treatment nila sakin kung sinabi ko na may anak ako kasi minsan hindi ko sinasabi agad just to see kung may difference ba. Wala naman same lang.

It's all in the mindset and how you carry yourself. Guys like happy, positive, easy going, no drama, no baggage, non crazy type of women. Focus on being the best version of yourself and enjoy your life now. You will notice that guys will gravitate towards kahit hindi ka naghahanap. That's what happened to me the happier i am just being with myself the more guys want to be with me. I'm in my late 30's and i don't run out of suitors. Energy and aura kasi yan it's not something you say or do. It's just the way you are.

[luckysiete]

kegel exercise is also done to tighten the vagina.

[drharleyquinnmd]

It's all in the mindset and how you carry yourself. Guys like happy, positive, easy going, no drama, no baggage, non crazy type of women. Focus on being the best version of yourself and enjoy your life now. You will notice that guys will gravitate towards kahit hindi ka naghahanap. That's what happened to me the happier i am just being with myself the more guys want to be with me. I'm in my late 30's and i don't run out of suitors. Energy and aura kasi yan it's not something you say or do. It's just the way you are.

nainspire naman ako dun sis. hehe i had ex bfs din naman who accepted me for me kaso the problem was me, not them nung time namen. thanks sa mga payo

[ArfMeow0101]

Guys, ano usually yung naiisip nyo pag di na kayo pinapansin nung girl na dating nagpakatanga sa inyo? Yung tipong 1 month pa lang, nakamove on na agad sya sayo haha.

[Girltalker2]

^ im not a guy pero tingin ko wala lang
Most of them are oblivious naman to these things. Mababaw.

[TomHansen]

^^ yes wala lang and mabuti na yun maaga siyang nakapagmove on si girl life niya.

[Shadow Angel]

Guys gusto ko lang malaman pov nyo. My husband give me a suprise or gift dahil suprise sya un reaction ko sa gift so so lang. Before pa nya ako ibili ng suprise ask nyo ako if gusto ko ng "item" na un. Ang sagot ko ok lang pero sabi ko hindi ko pag aaksayahan ng pera. Then ito na binili ji hubby un item. My husband though na matutuwa ako kasi ang sagot ko ok lang. Nagtataka kasi ako bakit may gift so sabi nya buksan ko lang pag open ko alam ko nag register sa face ko ang disappointment. So si hubby dahil kilala naman nya ako. Alam nya hindi ko nagustuhan so nang mag ask sya if gusto ko un suprise nya. I tell him the truth kasi no choice din naman ako nasabihin ang totoo instead na magsinungaling ako kahit na iba naman naging reaction ko. Nakita ko hurt sa face nya hindi sya kumibo ng ilang minutes tapos pumunta sya sa veranda nagpahangin then nag siesta alam ko para mawala badtrip or inis. Hindi ko muna sya inamo or anything kasi gusto ko lipas muna inis. I feel so guilty kasi after nya gumisiung un nasira nya na lagayan ko ng accessories inayos pa nya. So nun mag gabi na nag sorry na ako. Sa kanya naman ok na although sabi nya nahurt sya. Kung kayo ba ano exactly nafefeel nyo if alam nyo hindi type ng gf/wife nyo binigay nyo?

[lonely_dad]

gaano katagal na kayong kasal? kasi parang di ka ganun kakilala ng asawa mo at hindi niya alam ang mga gusto mong bagay
and may i ask kung ano yung item na binigay niya sayo?

[Shadow Angel]

^mag more than 2 years na kami kasal. Alam naman nya hindi ko gusto un hindi ko alam kung ano naisipan nya at binili pa rin nya. Actually concert ticket ni Katy Perry. We used to watch concert before but I realized na hindi na practical na manood ng concret lalo na sobrang mahal. Since last concert na nawatch namin sinabihan ko sya na last watch na namin un. Lalo ngayon may pinagiipunan kami.

[lonely_dad]

mapapansin naman namin kung di gusto ng gf/wife namin yung binigay
kung gamit/damit siyempre di namin makikitang suot niya yun

[shinies]

Pag hindi type, di na uulit. Wala nang surprise in the future.

[Girltalker2]

^ di Kaya partly he likes to watch concerts? And syempre ikaw ang gusto nyang kasama

Minsan may mga things na hilig nila but para satin not worth paggastusan. Hayaan mo nalang this time and I think the best you could do is still go kasi mukhang gusto nya pumunta. Wala ka naman siguro balak ibenta yung tickets di ba?

[Shadow Angel]

@lonely dad so anong nasaisip ng guy kapag alam mo hindi gusto ng wife mo ang binigay mo?

@shinies ang hilig pa naman sa suprises ni hubby.

@girltalker2 hindi na namin magagamit ang ticket kasi pinarefund na nya. Sabi nya kasi reward daw nya ang concert ticket for me kasi masaya with us ni baby and nakikita nya effort ko sa pag aasikaso sa kanilang mag ama. I feel so guilty nag iisip ako ngayon ng pambawi.

[lonely_dad]

siyempre masama loob kasi sayang lang
halimbawa na lang kung damit tapos di mo nakikita sinusuot ano maiisip mo kung baligtarin natin? 

[Shadow Angel]

^sabagay tama ka dyan. Babawi na lang ako.

[lonely_dad]

^sabagay tama ka dyan. Babawi na lang ako.

bibili ka rin ng concert ticket tapos bigay mo sa kanya? 

[Shadow Angel]

^buti na lang madali bumawi sa asawa ko ipagluto ko lang sya na may kasama masahe at lambing ok na sya dun.

[lonely_dad]

^buti na lang madali bumawi sa asawa ko ipagluto ko lang sya na may kasama masahe at lambing ok na sya dun.

madali naman talaga kami suyuin eh 

[mysterioza_me]

^Totoo yan. Basta mahal ka ng guy napakadali nilang suyuin.

[lonely_dad]

^Totoo yan. Basta mahal ka ng guy napakadali nilang suyuin.

ang problema mapride masyado eh