Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 9)

[kvandenhaak]

It's easy to tell if he is losing interest. Palaging busy at walang time to see you is one if it. Walang busy pag gusto ko.

[Shadow Angel]

Malalaman mo pag wala ng interest si bf kapag:
-Ikaw lang ang eeffort
-Ikaw lang lagi may time
-Daming alibi at lahat ng alibi nya justified kuno.
-konti galaw mo nakikita or puro mali lang nakikita sayo
-kung dati madalas kayo magkita baka now kung hindi mo pa awayin kita ka dadalawin
-etc.

[Ms. Undecided]

I see. Interested pa pala siya sakin. hahaha. Natanong ko lang kasi may nagtanong lang din sakin Salamat

[drharleyquinnmd]

Kung gusto siya ni guy before pa may mangyari sa kanila maaari ma-fall siya. Dami kasing factors like gaano na kayo katagal magkakilala, how is he ba bago pa may mangyari - manyak manyak ba siya/gusto napaguusapan sex? Some women kasi minsan ginagamit ang sex para magustuhan sila ng lalaki which is sobrang mali and yes magmumukhang easy yung girl. 10 years younger = 30% less chance na seryoso siya.

If ikaw yung girl and gusto mong malaman intentions niya sayo stop having sex and avoid sex talks na lang, dun mo malalaman if he is real or pakboi lang.

it's complicated na.  i see him with another girl from our office. kami, hanggang ngitian lang. i think he's ashamed of being seen with me coz i am a single mom. i don't know.

[KeyserSoze]

it's complicated na.  i see him with another girl from our office. kami, hanggang ngitian lang. i think he's ashamed of being seen with me coz i am a single mom. i don't know.

if he really likes you then kahit single mom ka it doesn't matter. for example i am friends with this single mom and  i even think she's super hot and very fun to be with. single moms can be very sexy you know and you'll be surprised how many men care less whether may anak na yung girl.

pero just a piece of advice, and i strongly feel that this is the correct advice (lol), I really think you should NOT exert effort para mabalik yung attention niya sayo. just focus on a being better version of yourself all the time. the more na habulin mo yan the more he'll feel in control sa situation. ika nga dun sa ad ni elen adarna, the best revenge is to be the prettiest version of yourself (something like that).

i repeat, let him be lang. mind your own business kahit mahirap. I know your situation sucks pero like i said it will worsen the situation if maramdaman niyang interested ka pa or maghahabol ka. believe me i'm a guy! he's currently in control and he knows it! don't make him feel na nanjan ka parin for him and that you still give a f*ck.

[kvandenhaak]

^Sobrang korek! And unless the guy actually professes his love to her, dapat me reserba. At least, that's what I learned in GT and from experience...lol! That way maiiwasan mo masyadong ma-attach. Bwiset kasi minsan yang mga lalake...lol!

[drharleyquinnmd]

^Sobrang korek! And unless the guy actually professes his love to her, dapat me reserba. At least, that's what I learned in GT and from experience...lol! That way maiiwasan mo masyadong ma-attach. Bwiset kasi minsan yang mga lalake...lol!

he told me ayaw nya pumasok sa relationship tas may ganung eksena with someone else. haha kainis lang. Guys paki explain why do you say na ayaw nyo pumasok sa relationship tas haharot kayo ng iba?

[simang]

^when guys say they don't want to be in a relationship, they usually mean they don't want to be in a relationship with you.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ so on point!

[TomHansen]

it's complicated na.  i see him with another girl from our office. kami, hanggang ngitian lang. i think he's ashamed of being seen with me coz i am a single mom. i don't know.

NO its not because he's ashamed because you're a single mom, sigurado he's just there for sex sa simula pa lang. And i'm sure ginagawa niya rin yan kahit sa mga hindi single moms kaya wag mong isipin na yun ang reason. Wag mo ring isipin na it's complicated because it's not, you like him he doesn't like you yun lang yun sis at gaya ng sabi nila dami pang lalaki diyan.

.. Guys paki explain why do you say na ayaw nyo pumasok sa relationship tas haharot kayo ng iba?

Para di magexpect ang babae na may mabubuong relationship kahit  may nangyayari na sa inyo. Ayaw niya sayo but if sex lang ang gusto mo pagbibigyan ka niya.

[kvandenhaak]

The question is why do we make men appear like they are complex individuals when the truth is they aren't? They are simple to read, you don't even need a clue. They are telling you, right in front of our faces their real intentions by their actions. They don't need to verbalize everything. Tayo lang mga babae madadrama. We make excuses for them, we tolerate their b******t. Simple lang. If they like you, you will know and it will show!

#hugot

LOL!  😂

[iwannabeasupermodel]

tama si tomhansen sis. NEVER ever be insecure because of your son/daughter. he/she is your greatest blessing in your life and no one should ever make you feel less (of a person) for being a mother.

[Girltalker2]

he told me ayaw nya pumasok sa relationship tas may ganung eksena with someone else. haha kainis lang. Guys paki explain why do you say na ayaw nyo pumasok sa relationship tas haharot kayo ng iba?

Kapag humaharot sa iba, it doesn't mean they want a relationship. In fact it's the opposite. Sige patuloy ang pag flirt nyan. They're enjoying their being single. Ganun lang naman. May K naman siguro sya mag enjoy at buhay nya Yun.

And he didn't promise you anything, or did he?

Wag mo ring isipin na it's complicated because it's not, you like him he doesn't like you yun lang yun sis at gaya ng sabi nila dami pang lalaki diyan.

Or puede mo rin isipin he likes you. Kaya nga nya ikaw naikama. But maybe not liking you enough to warrant him to commit himself.
But perhaps you like him more than just a fling/friend. Kaya ka na disappoint.

One of the basic lessons in relationships kasi, at least for me... always be careful, lalo na sa first few months of getting to know him. I always make sure I don't overtake his feelings for me. Or ayoko umabot sa situation na mas gusto ko sya kesa sa gusto nya ko. Let him chase you and not the other way around. Kung ayaw nya, eh di huwag. Hanap ka iba. As if naman sya nalang ba ang lalaki sa mundo?

Para di magexpect ang babae na may mabubuong relationship kahit  may nangyayari na sa inyo. Ayaw niya sayo but if sex lang ang gusto mo pagbibigyan ka niya.

Somehow aren't you thankful na iniiwasan ka na nya? At may iba na syang ginagamit?
If ikaw parin kasi ang habol nya while not wanting to commit, eh di kaya hanggang fubu nalang abot nyo?

Buti he changed agad so You can move on agad and not be stuck there with nothing.

[drharleyquinnmd]

thanks sa inyo. nagexpect lang ako masyado and binigyan ko meaning lahat ng mga ginawa nya, lahat ng pagpplano nya. wala lang pala talaga lahat. hehe ouch lang.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ that's just okay. lahat naman tayo naging t**** when it comes to dating and relationship and most especially when it comes to love (count me in! maybe asa top 5 ako ng mga nagpakatanga sa pag-ibig lels). what's important is that we move on and that we get the lessons we needed in life to find the best one there is for us. yung nakatadhana talaga sa atin, ika nga nila. i bet you've experienced na when you looked back sa mga previous relationships mo, naisip mo shunga shunga mo bakit ka nagsayang ng luha and all sa taong yun etc etc. haha.

[kvandenhaak]

What actually is muscle control? I am wondering if I can do this. I was told kasi that I am grabbing his wiener so tight pero masarap daw.

[mysterioza_me]

^Kegels ba sis? Masarap nga daw yan hehe. Parang iniipit mo lang yung pototoy nila, para kang nagpipigil ng wiwi.

[kvandenhaak]

^I don't know what kegel is..lol! I can flex my muscle down there but I didn't know my inside can do it too. So, yun ba yon...you flex it on purpose or kusa lang sya gumaganon?

[KeyserSoze]

he told me ayaw nya pumasok sa relationship tas may ganung eksena with someone else. haha kainis lang. Guys paki explain why do you say na ayaw nyo pumasok sa relationship tas haharot kayo ng iba?

it could be kasi na he'll feel bad kung direchuhin ka niya. it's not a good feeling to reject someone dahil siyempre sino ba namang gustong makasakit ng tao. kaya nga yung iba meron pang mga "hahanapin ko lang ang sarili ko etc etc" which sounds very cringey. it's very awkward rin kaya minsan parang read between the lines nalang. personally i still think may attraction naman considering na may nangyari and stuff. pero hindi naman enough yun at times. baka walang spark talaga, i dunno. i believe na tama yung mga advice sayo ng mga tao dito and it's best to leave him alone. kung gusto ka niya talaga then susuyuin ka rin nun. kung wala then move on.

don't be ashamed na single mom ka. mahiya ka lang siguro kung pabaya kang magulang. pero if you're very responsible then that can be attractive for men, kasi at the end of the day ang guys naman gusto mapakasalan yung responsableng girl.

[KeyserSoze]

Bwiset kasi minsan yang mga lalake...lol!

What?? Guys are more loyal than girls noh!
















































































































































HAHA i'm joking okay.