Trying To Conceive Thread 20

[Scubadoobidoo]

@main dunno if it would help but ob namin prescribed daily clomid for me before and it worked. Have 1 kid and another on the way. If hubby smokes, tell him to stop. Switch to e cig if kaya. Accrding to our ob smoking plays a part.

[hael2011]

I am due tomorrow, but i dreamed last night that i got a  BFP na so i tested this morning and it was a sad BFN. 


Last day of my TTW tomorrow! Hay, negative or positive, I am glad that the torture will be over this cycle.


I hope it will be a successful first IUI. Still hoping! 

[Maein]

Hi scubadobidoo, Wala naman bisyo si hubby, yung result Nung addtl test na pinagawa mataas ang FSH nya.

Btw is it okay to ask you kung sino OB nyo and what hospital? Looking for another OB or fertility doc for second opinion.

[r0ckxann3]

Thanks Bro Scubadoobidoo, mga sis ask ko sana sino nakapagtake ng Visanne dito for endometriosis?how about GnRh?natatakot kasi ako sa side effects 😭

[Scubadoobidoo]

@maein our ob is dra elizabeth israel. Her clinic is at Fe del mundo hospital in banawe. Originally she was referred by a friend whose wife has apas. Ttc kami that time for more than a year and she was our second OB. 3 months under her care buntis si wifey. My friend also refuses to switch OB. Give her a try. I know some here consulted her preggy na. Her clinic is from mon to sat except thur. 11am to 3pm

[Maein]

^thank you Scubadoobidoo. will definitely consider Dr. Israel. . btw pm'ed you pala. 

[Scubadoobidoo]

Replied. Baby dust to everyone

[Racheluna]

Hi Sissies:

I'm new here. Ttc 2.5 years now, diagnosed mild pcos, hubby low count, motility and liquefaction rate.  We've had 3 iui's but no success. Now resting stage muna and trying naturally before we move on to ivf.

@maein fertilaid helped my hubby with his sperm count.  He took it for 3 months then when he tested again ang ganda na ng numbers nya.  He is also taking fertilaid motility boost now.  Your DH may want to try. bought them from Olx

[mommynin8]

Something I found in FB. 

It took me 10 years to have mine, I hope and pray that He grants your wishes soon.




By Rebekah Fox

I was painting in the garage, and she was drawing a rainbow on the cement floor with chalk when she said, ?I?m glad God gave you to me as my Mommy.?

I wasn?t ready for it. ?What?? I asked, making sure I heard her right. She tried to say it again, but her words came out a little more awkward this time, and she said something like, ?I?m happy you?re my mommy from God.?

Tears filled my eyes.

Then she prayed, ?God, thank you for giving my mommy to me. And thank you (I couldn?t understand this part.) And thank you, she makes me breakfast. And thank you we?re going to make pumpkin spagotti (biscotti). I hope it tastes good. Do you think it will taste good, God??

Then she opened her eyes, and went back to drawing her chalk mural?while my eyes blurred with tears, and a huge lump came to my throat. Where did that come from?

She?s three?and I didn?t know her little heart could hold such gratitude. Or that it would just burst out of her, during this subtle moment in the garage. Or that she would thank God, out loud, for me, right then.

Usually, she doesn?t even want to pray out loud?even with me encouraging her. But today she felt something inside her.

Something beautiful.

Her little heart can hold more love than I often know.

Her little mind?is not so little as I think it is. She thinks far beyond what I would expect.

?Thank you, Selah,? I said, smiling. ?I?m so glad God gave me you as my daughter.?

I would have hugged her right then, if my hands didn?t have white paint on them, and if there wasn?t so much junk between us on the floor. The drawers I was painting, and an old wooden chair.

?Did you have to wait a long time for me Mom?? she asked. (I have told her the story many times, but she wanted to hear it again.)

I stepped across the junk on the floor and came a little closer to her. ?Yes,? I said. ?I asked God for a baby over and over again. But He didn?t give me one for a long time.?

?And when me and Daddy found out you were in my tummy, we were so happy!? I told her.

?Do you know why God took so long to give you a baby?? she said.

?No, honey,? I said. ?I don?t know.?

?I know why,? she said.

?Why?? I asked.

?Because?He was making me,? she said.

He was making me.

I looked into her deep blue eyes, that seemed to know something from another world, and her blonde tossled hair russled in the breeze. And in that moment, she seemed a thousand years old.

He was making me.

And that answer was enough. And my heart resounded with the truth of it, ?Of course He was. Of course, that?s exactly what He was doing, Dear One.?

Because now that I know her, and know how special she is?it only makes sense, that it took so long. I don?t know what God was doing with her up there. There is just something about her, that seems as if she spent a long time on God?s chest before coming to mine. Almost as if heaven didn?t want to give her up.

Selah.

And I say this with tears, to you, barren ones?

Who are waiting for your baby prayers to be answered.

Who are praying every day for God to give you a baby. To give you life.

I don?t know why it?s taking so long.


I don?t know if He will give you a child through your womb, or through foster care, or adoption.

But either way?if you are waiting right now, and you don?t know why it?s taking so long.

Maybe it?s because God, the Maker and Giver of Life and every living thing?is still in the process of making your baby.

We can?t even begin to comprehend what is happening in the heavenlies, in the unseen, and what, or who, He is forming.

His ways are not like ours. His timing is not like ours.

And perhaps if He?s moving so slowly, and He?s taking so long?it?s because He?s forming something so breathtaking and beautiful?it cannot be rushed.

He is in the process of forming a masterpiece.

And maybe one day, a little masterpiece will stand before you and say, ?I know why God took so long to give you a baby.?

And you will say, ?Why??

And they will say,

?Because?

He was making me.?

**The post appeared originally on BarrenToBeautiful.com.

About the Author: Rebekah Fox struggled with infertility for several years before giving birth to her daughter, Selah, in 2013. She writes to give hope to women in the midst of infertility, motherhood, and marriage on her blog www.barrentobeautiful.com. Rebekah and her husband, Brandon, live in Pennsylvania and in their downtime like to sing, songwrite, and brew the darkest coffee possible. They are expecting their second miracle this December. Connect with her on her website, Facebook, or email.

[m_lim]

failed kami this Feb.. try ulit ng March. ayoko na isipin, mas nakaka stress.

[Chili1113]

^hugs sis!! =(  =( hang in there!!

[Scubadoobidoo]

Stress really plays a part. I remember when wife got pregnant on 3rd try wala talaga kami paki nun about everything. Our ob says kasi stress is a real factor daw. Good luck and hang in there.

[yannuh]

CD2 today. Nalulungkot talaga ako mga sis. Medyo kinarir ko kasi ang pagvisit sa OB last month and naka 4-5 balik ata ako during follicle monitoring. Mga 5 hrs ako naghihintay for a 5-10 min consultation with the doctor. Kahit sobrang pagod ako tyinatyaga ko talaga. Nung nagbigay sya ng contact dates, sinunod namin kahit medyo pagod for work. Di naman sa nagrereklamo ako, baka sabihin ni Papa God, nagstart pa lang yung TTC journey ko pinanghihinaan nako ng loob. Pero sobrang umiyak talaga ko kay hubby nung nagkaroon kahapon and yung mga last two days na nafifeel ko na magkakaroon na ko. Haiii:(

[barbillie]

^ Sis, stress has a really major factor. Ganyan din ako up to now whenever dumadating si period. Kasi you can't help assume you're pregnant when you have symptoms all over the place. Walang masama to feel bad, pero after a good cry, be back to being positive. A new cycle is a new hope.

[yannuh]

^thank you sis! Kala ko graduate na ko sa monthly na pag iyak kasi Previously,  nagtatawanan na lang kami ni hubby pag dumadating si AF. Pero honestly sobra akong nagexpect kasi nga nagpaalaga ako sa OB for this cycle. Pero sabi nga nila, ibibigay talaga si Bebi in His perfect time:) thankful din ako sa GT kasi isa talaga to sa support system na tumutulong sken not to lose hope:) and of course si hubby din na forever understanding.

[Shadow Angel]

^hug sis I feel you..alam mo un gusto sabihin sa sarili mong ok lang pero deep inside masakit pa rin na siempre excited at umaasa ka at asawa mo. Alam ko alam mo na stress malaki factor. Dati TTC din kami until sabi ni hubby let it go na lang if wala pa or wala talaga tuloy ang buhay. Enjoy na lang daw moment na magkasama kami. Na happy kami as a couple. Since then hindi na ako stress sa pag iisip na before or after making love namin isip ako sana makabuo. Until eto na nakabuo nga kami kung kelan hindi kami nag try na mag TTC muna.

[yannuh]

^thank you sis! Feeling ko nga stressed ako and sobrang napepressure sa mga tao sa paligid. Kahit anong dedma ko, di ko talaga kayang 100% magpretend na ok pa din ako e. Hai! Let go ko na lang siguro talaga and ipapasaDiyos ko na lang to.

[Shadow Angel]

^tama ka dyan pressure sa paligid na mas nagmamadali pang mabutis. Sino bang hindi may gusto. Take your time.. hindi naman talaga madali na 100% na ilet go muna lalo sure naman tayo sa kung ano gusto natin. Darating din ang time para sa inyo. Wag mawalan ng pagasa. Ang mahalaga ok kayo ng husband mo.

[yannuh]

^salamat ulit sis! Much appreciated!😘

[iamdettie]

@yannuh - ako din, looks like, AF is coming so soon. Nalulungkot tlaga ako. Kanina biniro ko pa si hubby that I might be pregnant and I could see the excitement in his eyes kaya am super sad now knowing na mukhang magkakaroon na ako anytime soon. Pero wala din namang magagawa but to wait and pray. Only God knows when is the right time.