You Do Not Like Celebrating Your Own Birthday

[blackgreen]

Hindi naman sa ayaw ko mag-celebrate pero ayoko rin center of attention pag birthday. Mas gusto ko pang i-travel. Di ko type yun may mga bisita and all.

[mysterioza_me]

^Same tayo sis mas gusto ko din magtravel. Nasasayangan ako sa pera panghanda kasi hindi ako nageenjoy sa party. Feeling ko ibang tao napasaya ko sa ganun pero ako empty deep inside lol. May naka-set na ako na out of town trip para sa bday ko sa 2017. Excited na ako 😍

[blackgreen]

^wow sis! Yes, mas gusto ko din mag travel.

Meron ako friend super opposite ko. Pag birthday niya may handa and painom. Super masaya naman siya.

[OfficeGirl]

Count me in! I hate everything about party planning. Kahit nung kasal ko simple church wedding lang. No gowns, flowers, no nothing. I had about 30 guests. I prefer going on a staycation. Pero pressured ako ngayon sa 1st birthday ng daughter ko. Hehe. To celebrate or not to celebrate?

[mysterioza_me]

^^may friend din ako na ganyan more more painom pag-bday niya and pag iba may bday more more kantyaw siya na magpainom naman daw pero ako dedma haha. Uminom at gumastos siya kung bet niya ako ayaw ko.

^Nung 1st bday ng son ko di rin ako nagpaparty. Kumain lang kami sa labas. Nung 2nd bday niya nagpa-party kami pero side ng dad niya ang nag-organize. Then yung mga sumunod kain lang sa labas and bibilhan ko siya ng toys. Pero sa 2017 bday ng son ko nagrequest siya na gusto niya magparty, pero ayaw ko sa bahay gawin. Most likely sa Jollibee na lang kami kung di magbabago isip ng anak ko.

[kvandenhaak]

Kung 1st bday pa lang, pwedeng family and close friends lang. Yung anak ko, 5 years old na ata nagkaroon ng party and it's a very minimalist bday party talaga. Yung iba halos buong barrio invited sa party...LOL! Pero yung celebrant di naman nya maa-appreciate ang party especially at a very young age. When my son turned 12, he invited the boys in his class for a laser tag game. Pizza at juice lang ang food. However, wala ako sa Pilipinas so that works. Iba kasi sa atin eh, kelangan bongga lahat...LOL! But you can definitely make it a trend.

[mysterioza_me]

^Agree sis na hindi pa ma-appreciate or maalala man lang ng bata yung pangyayari nung 1st bday niya. Mas masaya kasi kapag ma-appreciate na ng celebrant yung party and if makasali na siya sa activities or games.

[OfficeGirl]

Haha. uu nga mga sis, naaasar nga ako bakit ba need mag party for a 1 year old baby. Kaso nappressure ako sa in laws and parents ko, gusto pag partyhin si baby. What I'm doing now is planning for a pool party nalang. No games, just food at yung entertainment na eh yung swimming mismo. Haha.

[mysterioza_me]

^ok din yang pool party sis lalo na kung mahilig naman sa water si baby

[ohmygorjosh]

I'm turning 34 this May 4 and I am not planning to do any sort of celebration at all. I am just planning to go to church and stay home all day. Reason behind it is I have had celebrated my previous birthdays in a ''loud'' way, so I'd rather keep it simple this time.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

I don't, I just wanted to be left alone gusto ko ng me day as in tulog, chillax and all.

[DeathToMondays]

Birthday celebrations are overrated. Leave me alone.

[lonely_dad]

kasi there's nothing special about that day to celebrate

[scruffs]

Kain sa labas lang with the family. Not really a celebration per se where maginvite mga bisita.

[yellowminion]

Not that I don't really celebrate my birthday. It's just that nasasayangan ako sa handa. I mean, it is my birthday so I should make myself happy--yan lagi reasoning ko.

So everytime it's my birthday, my mom magpapadala ng money panghanda ko but I never buy food. I go out on shopping and splurging myself. Kaya di ako nag-iinvite ng mga friends pag birthday.

Na-experience ko lang maghanda talaga when I sartted working. Kasi sa office laging nagpapakain yung birthday celebrant eh nakakahiya naman pag nakikikain ako sa birthday nila then pag birthday ko walang food. Kaso ang gastos. Iniisip ko ang daming clothes and make-up na nun.

But most of the time pag sa house hindi ako naghahanda. Parang ordinary day for me lang.

Ang thinking ko kasi is that it's my special day. I should make myself happy this particular day and what makes me happy is hindi yung magpainom mg ibang tao kaya I slpurge on shopping instead.

[three8one]

kala koa ako lang may ayaw sa party.. normal pa pala ako.. mas gusto ko naman na ako lang mag celebrate ng bday ko. feeling ko kasi pag maghahanda ka, nakaka stress ano mga I prepare mo, na dapat magustuhan ng lahat ng iinvite mo. tsaka medjo alangan ako mag invite kasi nalulungkot ako pag yung ininvite ko di nakarating o kaya tatanggi kasi may ibang lakad sa araw ng birthday mo. hehe.

 

[foxyhauteur]

Di rin ako mahilig magcelebrate ng bday ko pero ang pinaka ayaw ko yung birthday greetings. Ang awkward lang for me. Basta may cake ako pwede na. 

[DeathToMondays]

To each their own, of course. Though I find it funny when people feel the need to say, gorge themselves at a lavish buffet or play the popular star for a day on their birthdays. Like it's overcompensation for knowing that you're another year closer to your death. Lol

[Gaysha]

Kaloka dito di ba? In the US, it is considered rude to throw your own bday party!

[cupcakejane]

It's not that I don't like to celebrate, but bad things happen on my birthday