Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[kwang sun]

May friend kasi ako bago lang nabroken hearted , then comes this guy who looks like a f*ckboi.. magaling sa jamming etc nice body ,, I think she is falling or starting to like him but she will leave pinas in about 4 days nameet nya si guy dito sa pinas

[jtansanco]

^ Syempre... Girl is broken hearted so she is very vulnerable. Certain things come to mind like will she ever find true love again after what happened? Will she grow up alone forever? She was in a relationship but suddenly, she's single again. Now, she misses having a companion which is why there's the term, "rebound". She may fall or be close to some guy but you're saying she's leaving the country in 4 days. Give it time and reality will kick in. She'll say masaya na siyang single. Haha

^^ Si Canadian sweetheart ba to? How was the Oilers game? Haha

[kwang sun]

^ in the first place nung nabroken hearted siya di sila nung guy haha na sister-zoned siya kaya hayun I was giving her advice to just chill and be cool about it but she is somewhat chasing after the guy lol ..haaai..ganito ang nagyari na sister-zoned siya una but!!! That guy attempted to touch her what a douche right?!??? I swear nakakalito mga guys


Anyway, yesterday I was sleeping sa may lap ng guy friend ko, friends lang talaga kami and I was a bit tipsy and sleepy na , so while I was sleeping sa may lap niya parang may nagthuthump dun sa may crotch nya omg haha is that even normaaaal??? (So the side of my head was on his lap)Nawala yung pagkahilo ko sa drink ...anyway this  guy friend is touchy , caring but I just find him as a friend..

[TomHansen]

Ang mga lalake ba normal na ayaw maging emotionally attached to anyone? Takot ma-in love?

1. Hindi normal sa lalake pero normal sa mga playboy.

2. Yung takot ma-inlove lahat naman sinasabi yan pero kapag nameet na nila yung girl na type nila wala na yang takot takot na yan.. Baka takot mabusted pwede pa. Sinasabi rin nila yan kapag ayaw nila sa girl na pin-pair/reto sa kanila. Kapag ayaw maraming dahilan kapag gusto maraming paraan hehe. 

Bakit ba malandi talaga ang mga lalaki?? Like from one girl na friends with another girl na lumalandi yung guy type of thing

Maybe sa ganong bagay sila naexposed habang lumalaki? Dad is a womanizer/sister is a whore/brother is a chickboy/mother has kabit. Kaya ganun ang trato nila sa babae, objects na pwedeng paglaruan at palitan anytime.

[orangetabby]

Why do men stare but do not approach ( kung single naman siya)?

Do you guys hate or like it if we catch you staring at us girls?

[kvandenhaak]

^^ Si Canadian sweetheart ba to? How was the Oilers game? Haha

Yep, kinda heart to heart talk the other day. He didn't really say he is scared but he doesn't want to be too emotionally attached to anyone right now and he said it really hasn't happened yet. I said, "Not even with Christine? (the ex wife)". He said, "Yes, but that is a long time ago!". They just got divorced in 2014. They were together since he was 15. They were married for 12 years so 25 years in total. Sayang di ba? You know what the weird thing is? I am now FB friends with Christine and she seems to be a smart and nice lady. Naloka nga ako nung kinwento nya yung last day nila as married couple. Parang sa movie...lol

The Oilers game and the deer meat is probably not gonna happen. Pero di ko muna sasabihin kung baket. Mas matindi sa televola ang script nyan...lol!

[jtansanco]

^ Make sure you bring a GoPro next meeting. You need to record this for all the viewers out there! Haha. Divorce is probably more common than marriage in North America. It seems people out west can easily turn on/off the switch when it comes to love. Kaya relax ka lang.. Western mentality taught me that I don't really need to get married. Lifelong companion is acceptable although getting married is better for tax purposes. Haha

[kvandenhaak]

^The date is probably not gonna happen anymore. You will know why, later...lol! They are really different when it comes to relationships. They have this attitude of "keeping an open mind until the right one comes along". Meaning, they will settle for someone while waiting for the right one. Even our receptionist before was like that. She was dating someone that she didn't really like. I'm like what the heck, why bother then? I used to have a co-worker na Australian naman ang naging asawa. That took decades to progress. When she told him she loves him, deadma lang daw...lol!

But my assumption is also because he's still hurt with how the last day of their marriage unfolded. I was telling him that Christine told me what happened that last day they were together. He suddenly become defensive and told me that he doesn't want to hear it and be reminded of it anymore.

I am relaxed. But I need more popcorn! 

[argento]

Bakit ba malandi talaga ang mga lalaki?

to score siempre. its up to you kung papatol.

I was sleeping sa may lap ng guy friend ko , so while I was sleeping sa may lap niya parang may nagthuthump dun sa may crotch nya omg haha is that even normaaaal?

why would you sleep on a guy's lap? siempre normal na tigasan yun. lalake yun eh.

[kwang sun]

^ i was sleeping on his lap kasi po he offered me to sleep with my head on his lap kasi tipsy na ako , eh ako naman comfortable naman ako sa kanya kaya hayun natulog ako pero narinig ko yung thump hahhahahh na parang nashock omg. Haya napabalikwas ako ng bangon and parang nawala na hilo ko.. haai kaloka...

[kvandenhaak]

Someone's balls got busted BIG TIME!!!

[kvandenhaak]

Bakit kayong mga lalake bukung-buko na talagang deny pa rin? What gives?

[gleek]

guys, i need your honest opinion.

my situation:

i read a conversation between my bf and her girl friend. for some reason i had the urge to check his FB messages, and magback read. lo and behold, nakita ko may crush si bf ko dun sa friend nung kausap niya. at ginawan pa ni bf ng collage, him with the girl. i saw 2 pics, yung isa pa, pic pa namin ni bf, ipinatong niya yung face ng girl s mukha ko.

bf said he doesn't know the girl personally, he hasn't made any effort to contact her as well, he only saw her during her friend's birthday party 2 weeks ago. he was just merely admiring her beauty. i also found out na bf posted these collage pics to their fb group chat, kasi daw natatawa yung mga friends niya when he's posting it. but eventually, naumay na daw yung friends niya at hindi na pinansin ginagawa niya (posting of collage pics)

so i confronted bf,and sabi niya, "wala lang daw yun". Yeah sure, I said. reason niya, wala kasi siya work, bored and depressed so since natutuwa ang mga friends niya sa ginagawa niya,natutuwa din daw siya.

long term na kami, bf/gf since high school. although we broke up a few times. 1st instance na nangyari yung ganito, i learned he kept solo pics of a girl (his classmate in HS) and i read an email of him asking another friend, to also invite the girl to their house to hang out. i only found out about this nung college kami.syempre we broke up. then he tried to win me back, hence nagkabalikan kami.

sorry long post na. i'm just bothered.
guys, please make/help me believe na wala lang talaga yun.

[kvandenhaak]

^It's brighter than a tropical sun, something is going on. You deserve someone better!

[TomHansen]

^^ Sorry pero di yun "wala lang", cheater yang bf mo buti nakita mo agad bago kayo umabot sa kasalan. Imagine mo na lang di man lang siya nahihiya sa girl friend at fb group niya na ipakitang ginagago ka niya? Pinatong pa yung mukha ng girl sa face mo, di pa ba gaguhan yun? tanggap mo bang ginago at gagaguhin ka pa niya sa future? Wake up, daming lalaki diyan at wag kang manghinayang sa tagal niyo..

[red_yesha]

^^^nakakainsulto naman yang bf mo, Hindi yan normal 
dun ka dapat sa matino.

[shinies]

Alam mo na ang sagot. Pansinin mo mga red flag habang BF GF pa lang.

- walang trabaho
- nagiinteres sa ibang babae habang may GF
- walang respeto sa GF

Hiwalayan mo na!

[Claireclaire757]

Oo nga sis nakakatawa naman yung bf mo. Wala na ngang trabaho ang lakas pa ng luob na mangloko. Hiwalayan mo na sis. He doesnt deserve you. Look for someone who will respect you as a person n a gf.

[kvandenhaak]

LOL...this actually answers my question. Why do men lie even when the proof speaks so loud? It's because women are willing to turn a blind eye and ignore the glaring proof that they are lying. Like this girl, gusto i-convince ka namin na wala lang yon. Kalurkey!

Parang etong guy that I dated. Sobrang buko na nga, sobrang tanggi pa.  Buti na lang I knew what he is all about from almost the beginning. Nakapag-prepare kahit papano.  Otherwise, umiiyak din sana ako katulad ng kanyang GF.

[mysterioza_me]

sorry long post na. i'm just bothered.
guys, please make/help me believe na wala lang talaga yun.

Wala lang yun sis, promise. Sa salita lang ni boyfie ka maniwala.

O ayan sinabi ko ang gusto mo marinig but deep inside your heart naniniwala ka ba talaga na wala lang? If you are bothered then it must be something na tama ang instinct mo. Sa totoo lang naman sino naman loyal na lalake ang magpapatong ng pic ng ibang babae sa pic ng gf niya tapos ise-send sa group chat para pagtawanan at pagtripan ng friends niya?! Respeto man lang sana sa iyo pinairal niya. Kung bored siya maglaba siya at maglinis siya ng bahay. Punta siya dito sa bahay namin maraming trabahong bahay dito. Hindi porke sinusuyo ka para bumalik ka mahal ka, kung mahal ka talaga ng guy di siya gagawa ng bagay na pwede mo ikaduda sa kanya at ikasakit ng loob mo. May guy na ayaw lang nababakante lalo na kung may napapala ang guy kay gf. Kung lagi mo lang siya patatawarin at palalampasin mali niya eventually lahat ng respect niya sa iyo mawawala. Yung pambababoy nga lang niya sa pic mo kawalan na ng respeto yun. Baka sa susunod magpic na siya na magkatabi kayo sa kama tapos patungan niya ng pic ng ibang girl mukha mo.