Hindi kaya masyado natin na-judge si trainer? Mahirap magbigay ng insight lalo na at hindi naman namin kilala si Trainer.
No. He is just judged based on his actions. He is definitely unprofessional. Alam nya walang bf so Doctora and he is taking advantage. Kung matinong trainer iyan, he won't flirt like that.
Di naman din natin kilala si doktora, patas lang.
At itong trainer, kapal ng mukha. Nagpapalibre pa.
Lagi pa doktora ang tawag nya sayo nightigale, anong akala nya, Maging Sino ka man? It only happens in the movies Noh.
I agree with you, if you're the trainer, dapat humanap nalang sya ng ka-level nya.
Sinasabi nya gustong gusto nya kasi ako physically, kya ayaw nya mag waste ng time, kung mangyayari, now na.
Ano sya aso?
Deep inside, alam kong di tama. I also don't want to go down to that level. Pero part of me, parang naiisip ko, ang ikli ng buhay, why not? Kesa I go through life wondering "what if""? Clearly, hindi long term. Di ko nga alam kung after ng isang date, masusundan pa.
Yeah maikli lang buhay, why waste time with a jerk like him? Anong akala nya sayo, easy? Parausan? Lokohin nya lelang nya.
I am 6 years older than him. Hindi na ako bata, kaya naiisip ko, bakit naman papakipot pa? Pero paano kung di nga talaga dapat? Sa iba siguro, klaro ang sagot. Pero when your emotions dictate gusto ko rin sya makasama, ang hirap labanan ng isip.
you're mature enough to not let your emotions rule you.
Treat this as a learning experience. It just proves that even if you're in your 30s, may 'asim' ka pa. Iyan lang Ang puede mong ipasalamat sa kanya. You're still capable of attracting guys. So go for the right ones, huwag iyan.
And Hindi naman sa nagpapakipot, you are just protecting yourself from harm by being wise. You see, di mo pa lubos kilala iyan, Kama na agad? How sure are you na sayo lang sya lumalandi? Think of the trouble you could be going into. You're in the medical field, alam mo siguro the risks of sleeping with someone na di mo partner or di lubos na kilala. Then if suddenly ayaw mo na sya sustentuhan, what if he blackmails You? Say may video kayo or goes around in the hospital telling about your sexcapades? Gusto mo ba yun? You see, these guys have nothing to lose, at ayaw pa mag invest ni isang kusing (if he is really interested). Kaya anytime he can walk out or gumawa ng trouble para it will benefit him, kasehodang madehado ka.
if he insists on calling you doktora, (like if i were in your shoes this way) eh iisipin ko :
Madrama version: it's a way for him to constantly remind himself na yun ang stature mo sa society (vs his). so that he'll not forget the big gap between you two.
Chill/happy version: he's just proud of your occupation kasi it's a noble job etc.
Haha
Para sakin, kasi he very well knows he is beneath you. Kaya he will serve you kahit anong gusto mo, so long as you can give him also what he needs. Ganun lang.
