Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[TomHansen]

Kids, this is how i met your mother....

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Question naman for married men out there, is it normal for a guy to feel horny for any random girl kahit they are very much in love and very much loyal to their wives? I mean wala lang daw bigla na lang pagnakakakita ng super sexy nakakahorny daw but d naman daw nila iniimagine na nagsesex sila wala lang as in nahorny lang. Normal ba un?

[j.adore]

Hmm, curious thing.. Ano ba definition ng nahorny?

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Ang hirap naman iexplain un question mo. I told my hubby dapat sa akin lang sya na hohorny sabi nya hirap naman ata un. D k matanggap e sabi nya normal lang un. I said why i dont feel anything naman when i see super cute guy as in cute lang ganun. Sabi nya nature na daw un

[kvandenhaak]

^Similar yan sa previous question. Ganon talaga mga lalake, kayang paghiwalayin ang puso at utak unlike us girls. And yes, they do get horny even with complete strangers. Sabi ko nga, if we can only read what's on their mind, maloloka tayo!

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Oh so it's normal pala. I felt kc he is cheating on me in a different way. Haha so at least now i know that it's their nature

[j.adore]

I asked kasi horny means sexually aroused so it would still need sex-related thoughts di ba?

Anyway, in the Filipino culture, yes, this is very normal. But as a wife, depende how she feels about it.

I know a couple na yung lalaki mahilig tumingin on a certain type of girls. Yung tamang sexy lang di naman super ang dami mo na nakita.
He's a kind guy and also very loving and very loyal.
The wife raised it as a concern na parang nakakabastos sa kanya na magasawa sila and yet tumitingin siya ng ganyan.
So, he stopped.
Whether tinatago na lang niya or not, nobody can know for certain pero given the personality of the guy (at busy siyang tao), I would say he's keeping his commitment to the wife to respect her more.

Meron din naman na yung wife pa mismo magtuturo ng mga sexy pag nasa labas sila or even photos online. Tapos they use it as material for later...

Kanya kanya lang

[piatos]

sisses guys, matuturn off ba kayo if malaman niyo na isang girl na akala niyong virgin e hindi pala haha. ganun kasi tingin sakin ng mga kaofficemates ko den tingin ko yung isang kaofficemate e nagkacrush sakin dahil doon haha tingin ko lang ito pero i'm not sure. 

[jtansanco]

^ It's true that being a virgin girl is a big "turn-on". But speaking for myself, I really don't care if a girl is virgin or not. Not being a virgin does not degrade your value at all in my eyes and perception towards you.

[TomHansen]

@piatos,
Matuturn-off ako if pinangangalandakan ng girl sa mga kaibigan niya na virgin pa siya pero hindi pala BUT if hindi niya naman bino-broadcast at nag-aassume lang yung mga tao sa paligid niya then kasalanan na nila yun hehe.. And some women have their reasons naman why they lie about their virginity. If you think nagccrush yung officemate mo sayo dahil LANG akala niya virgin ka then i don't think he's the right guy for you...

[piatos]

^They assumed lang talaga hahaha.  Kaya nga immatured yung taong tumitingin lang sa virginity and i'm scared masaktan pag nalaman niya yung totoo.  thanks.

^^scared din ako ma-fall sa kanya haha baka masasaktan lang ako pag nalaman niya yung totoo haha

[jtansanco]

^ Feeling ko lust ata habol sayo eh. Hahaha

[badw33d]

Question naman for married men out there, is it normal for a guy to feel horny for any random girl kahit they are very much in love and very much loyal to their wives? I mean wala lang daw bigla na lang pagnakakakita ng super sexy nakakahorny daw but d naman daw nila iniimagine na nagsesex sila wala lang as in nahorny lang. Normal ba un?

suppose NO.

pagka na horny kaming guys, that means may something na sa imagination (any scenario) with a girl hehe. so, kung na horny husband mo, yeah there's something in his brain. kung wala, and na horny lang siya, better check with a doctor or psychologist, baka may prob siya in some way.and usually when we guys get horny, we gotta have it. depende na yan sa lalaki kung pano niya i-satisfy pagiging horny, sa wifey sa gf or sa ibang babae (next topic na yun) hahaha.

sisses guys, matuturn off ba kayo if malaman niyo na isang girl na akala niyong virgin e hindi pala haha. ganun kasi tingin sakin ng mga kaofficemates ko den tingin ko yung isang kaofficemate e nagkacrush sakin dahil doon haha tingin ko lang ito pero i'm not sure. 

1. kung sex lang ang habol, hindi naman kailangan virgin eh, sex is sex so virgin or not, assuming virgin or not, sex pa rin yun and game kami hehe.

2. but if you're looking at it in a relationship way, si guy gusto ka kasi virgin ka pa, then he'll eventually find out that you're not, so kung sex lang yan, go back to #1.

3. if he's into serious relationship, then its not a turn off. unless may culture siya na dapat virgin ang girl na makakasama niya hehe.

[dismembered]

sisses guys, matuturn off ba kayo if malaman niyo na isang girl na akala niyong virgin e hindi pala haha. ganun kasi tingin sakin ng mga kaofficemates ko den tingin ko yung isang kaofficemate e nagkacrush sakin dahil doon haha tingin ko lang ito pero i'm not sure.

To be honest, akala ko hindi ako affected ng ganito. Akala ko lang pala hindi. As a guy, medyo bothersome, hindi ko alam if sa pride or ego na somebody out there touched you then iniwan ka lang na he doesn't deserve you and that. Nakakaaffect lang yung thought na makikita ko yung guy na yun at maiisip ko kung ano ang mga nasa isip nya. Kaya mga ganitong bagay, hindi na dapat tinatanong at hindi na dapat inaalam din ng guy. This is something I won't ask na and I won't like to know. Kung ano nangyari sa past, past na yun eh. May mga bagay lang talaga na hindi na dapat inaalam.

[Girltalker2]

Oh so it's normal pala. I felt kc he is cheating on me in a different way. Haha so at least now i know that it's their nature

It is normal siguro kasi normal ang guys na ganyan (mababaw?). I believe na may guys na normal (not gay) na Hindi ganyan mag isip or umasta.

Di ba nga may kasabihan, bihira na talaga ang matino at maayos na guy these days? Kung makahanap ka ng partner na matino at maayos, loyal, jackpot ka talaga at daig mo pa ang nanalo sa lotto.

[piatos]

To be honest, akala ko hindi ako affected ng ganito. Akala ko lang pala hindi. As a guy, medyo bothersome, hindi ko alam if sa pride or ego na somebody out there touched you then iniwan ka lang na he doesn't deserve you and that. Nakakaaffect lang yung thought na makikita ko yung guy na yun at maiisip ko kung ano ang mga nasa isip nya. Kaya mga ganitong bagay, hindi na dapat tinatanong at hindi na dapat inaalam din ng guy. This is something I won't ask na and I won't like to know. Kung ano nangyari sa past, past na yun eh. May mga bagay lang talaga na hindi na dapat inaalam.

same thoughts here bro.  For me, kung ano ang makakasakit sayo wag mo ng alamin pa. 

suppose NO.

pagka na horny kaming guys, that means may something na sa imagination (any scenario) with a girl hehe. so, kung na horny husband mo, yeah there's something in his brain. kung wala, and na horny lang siya, better check with a doctor or psychologist, baka may prob siya in some way.and usually when we guys get horny, we gotta have it. depende na yan sa lalaki kung pano niya i-satisfy pagiging horny, sa wifey sa gf or sa ibang babae (next topic na yun) hahaha.

1. kung sex lang ang habol, hindi naman kailangan virgin eh, sex is sex so virgin or not, assuming virgin or not, sex pa rin yun and game kami hehe.

2. but if you're looking at it in a relationship way, si guy gusto ka kasi virgin ka pa, then he'll eventually find out that you're not, so kung sex lang yan, go back to #1.

3. if he's into serious relationship, then its not a turn off. unless may culture siya na dapat virgin ang girl na makakasama niya hehe.

hahahaha! natawa naman ako sa game. ako unti-unti ako nafafall sa kanya madami din kasi siyang good qualities kaya lang medyo hesitant tuloy ako hehe

^ Feeling ko lust ata habol sayo eh. Hahaha

in other words, gusto makatikim ng virgin hahaha

[badw33d]

^thats a happy reality for man. :-) pero, it doesn't matter.

[argento]

Di ba nga may kasabihan, bihira na talaga ang matino at maayos na guy these days?

wala naman ganyan kasabihan eh.

[badw33d]

^ LoL, agree.

[keejac21]

Mga bro.. pa-tanong din.

My marriage fell apart 2 years ago dahil sa akin. I fell in love with a guy, we had an affair and nagkaalaman in the end. You can imagine yung galit ni hubby. Words are not enough. I was thrown out of the house and nagseparate kami. Kasalanan ko lahat, I admit it, I regret lahat ng ginawa ko which destroyed our family. Im not proud of what I did. Kaya kahit nahihirapan ako sa buhay (our son lives with me), tinatanggap ko kasi alam ko na ako ang pinagmulan ng lahat. So fast forward after 2 years.. Civil naman kami ni hubby unlike nung bago lang mangyari yun. Nakakapagkwentuhan na kami and even recall happy days in our marriage.

May mga times na naguusap kami if we could patch things up, lalo na from my side. Ako sobrang nahihiya sa nangyari that I don't want to go over sa mga details ng gulo namin. Humingi ako ng tawad sa kanya, inamin ko na ako ang may kasalanan between us.

Pero bakit ganon mga bro?  Gusto niya umamin ako sa mga details (that is, kung nag sex kami nung guy). Kelangan ba talaga madinig niya yun kahit humihingi na ako ng tawad? Di niya daw mabigay ang forgiveness if hindi ako magconfess nung tungkol diyan. Is it really necessary?

Hiyang-hiya lang talaga ako. I cant bring myself to say those things.

Your opinions are welcome.