Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[bellalestrange90]

so how should we handle it bukod sa bugbugin kayo?

[badw33d]

Not sure if this was asked before but curious lang, a girl who talks dirty during sexy time, turn off or turn on?

When I say dirty talking, un meron naman "class" at hindi parang palengkera 

hmmmmm yeah hehe

Anong ibig sabihin kapag lagi nababanggit ni bf mga ex niya kapag for example, pumunta sa isang lugar, kumakain ng specific food. Naaalala o namimiss nya?

still with the ex :-) nothing good can come yet.

[jtansanco]

^^ First of all, does he know you're not cool with it? Have you told him about this beforehand? Is this the first time he did it or it's been a usual occurrence? Did you catch him in the act or you found out secretly and aren't doing anything about it? Have a serious conversation with him. If getting a girl's number is okay while you two are in a relationship, does that mean he's okay with you flirting with other guys who you find cute? Make him think about his actions. Be a strong woman. Don't be under him. Be his equal.

[argento]

a girl who talks dirty during sexy time, turn off or turn on?

turn off.

you're in a relationship, kumuha ka ng number ng babae, wala lang ba talaga?

wala lang.

[bellalestrange90]

what's the purpose?

[Girltalker2]

^ makipag landian

[marlo]

Not sure if this was asked before but curious lang, a girl who talks dirty during sexy time, turn off or turn on?

When I say dirty talking, un meron naman "class" at hindi parang palengkera 

To me, off sa akin pag nagmumura na. Nakakatakot hehe. (ang sarap moohh, pu**mooh!) 

Pero kung light lang naman,  like...oh, you're so good..suck me harder...ayos lang!

[junetwentythree]

Ladies and gents, I need assistance on how to respond to this guy who had messaged me on my LinkedIn. Background on him -- he's a friend of my ex. But I was with my ex for 5 years so I hung out with this guy for a long time as well. In any case, he touched base with me, talked about his struggle to get his career going (our careers are unrelated BTW) and such and we bantered for a bit. Then he said that we should get together some time to reminisce old times. This was a few days ago and I haven't responded. Meanwhile I've updated my profile and he's liked my latest update -- so he's checking in.

So yeah I'm not sure it's actually quite kosher to meet up with this fella...for several reasons I think. Help craft a good response to him without sounding standofish? My guy friends were no help and they came up with the most inane answers. My best friend said I should go since she's not the biggest fan of my beau.

[jtansanco]

^ You said it yourself. You're not that into him so all you need to do is reject him. You seem to have an American mindset so the best way is to tell him directly that you don't see any reason to meet him in person. If he wants to chat, you're only a message away from him. Other than that, you have other priorities you have to attend to. Save him the hassle and tell him you're not interested. Reminisce the old times... I've used that line before in trying to meet someone... Haha.

[kwang sun]

Buhay pa ba tong thread na to? Lol so I stumbled upon this while looking for the lbc sshipping cart thread. Anyway , problem ko kasi , kelan ba pwede mag assume ang girl na gusto talaga siya ni guy? Ako kaso yung tipong di assumera pero may mafifeel naman lol .. nung college I have a huge crush on this guy but he was presko , gwapo etc. He was flirting with me pero I did not want to think that he likes me indeed kasi nga presko siya. I can sense naman na " parang" may something pero nagtataka ako bakit walang improvement/ nanligaw etc. Tapos boom biglang may gf [textspeak!]. Haha. So I assumed na he just wants to flirt lang . Next guy comes along di naging kami but we were acting like gf bf then biglang may iba na siya... ano ba talaga problem?? Huhu is it me or them??

[Girltalker2]

^ sis you know perfectly the answer to that, right? It's them. That's why never assume. Kahit pa sinabi nila he likes you. Kasi so what if he likes you, eh di naman sya mag c commit.

The only way na worth patulan mo iyan is if sure sya he wants a life long commitment with you, at sayo lang.

Of course everything naman kasi starts with flirting and getting to know each other. The danger kasi during this time, Mas madali mahulog loob ng babae kesa sa guy. So kahit na nagd date palang kayo, puedeng crush mo na sya pero sya dating parin ang status (dating you and other girls). So once he decides he likes one of his other girls na he dated, dapat handa ka na umalis sya anytime kasi wala naman kayong commitment.

[kwang sun]

^ ah ok sis hehe .. i thought ako yung may problem kasi ako di rin ako expressive sa nafifeel ko... But thanks for the pov sis hehe atleast malinaw

[badw33d]

^not really ... but this guy is happy, so thats cause and effect. best is hide him in your FB or DC your FB, or just unfriend or bock them.

[simang]

Ganon ba talaga kadali makalimot ang isang guy ? We broke up 3 months ago (3rd Party issue). Since March,  sobra sobra silang magpost nun girl ng picture sa FB. We have almost 200+ atang mutual friends kasi since high school pa kami. Parang sana wag muna sila magpost diba, out of respect man lang.

Hmm, people move on. Mabilis man or matagal sila makamove on, but they do. Babae man or lalaki, they move on. If you're offended and you feel disrespected na nagpopost ang ex mo with his new girl, it's not his fault. It's your sensitive ego. You can never ever control kung ano man gusto nilang gawin with their relationship, but you can control your reaction. You have control over your emotions. At isa pa, not everything is about you. Baka kasi iniisip mo na intent nya talaga to disrespect you kaya pinapangalandakan nya yung bagong girl. For all you know, you are the last thing on his mind. So make him the last thing on yours too. Wag ka magpaapekto sa ginagawa nya and just go on with your life.

[TomHansen]

^ i understand kung ano nafe-feel mo, yes may right si ex mo na magpost tungkol sa masayang buhay niya pero kahit papaano may respect pa rin dapat sayo. Pero dahil kups siya wala ka nang magagawa, be happy na lang na hiwalay na kayo kasi ngayon nakikita mo na totoong ugali niya plus nagcheat pa siya sayo. Wala ka ngang bf ngayon pero panalo ka pa rin in our eyes and someday ikaw naman ang magpopost ng mga pics niyo ng bago mong bf...

ok lang ba sayo ldr? may irereto kami sayo hehe..




bago mo makalimutan... kups ex mo..

[j.adore]

Yung mga ganyan dapat erased from your life. Why bother asking for respect when you broke up due to lack of it?

Unfriend from FB and block him too.

[j.adore]

Don't encourage them to report to you. Di naman nakakayaman yun haha nainis ka lang tuloy.

Say thank you and announce you don't care anymore. Choose to move on 

Seriously sayang sa oras mga ganyang tao.

[jtansanco]

Ganon ba talaga kadali makalimot ang isang guy ? We broke up 3 months ago (3rd Party issue). Since March,  sobra sobra silang magpost nun girl ng picture sa FB. We have almost 200+ atang mutual friends kasi since high school pa kami. Parang sana wag muna sila magpost diba, out of respect man lang.

I think he's doing that to fast track the process of forgetting you. But yeah, to forget, you must delete the person in your life. Whenever I want to erase a good memory of a girl, I erase her from my social media and her number. In your case, you get hurt seeing those posts so all you have to do is delete. If you don't want to delete him, then just block him on your feed so you won't see him happy with another girl.

[junetwentythree]

@jtsanco meet @ember_sky

 

[jtansanco]

^ and ^^ - That escalated quickly... Haha. If you need to rent a boyfriend, I'm here and my service is  free of charge for the meantime. HAHAHAHA!