Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[young_maiden]

Bro, kuha ko naman no. Maiintindihan ko ang pag-iwas niya dahil nasaktan ko siya. Pero 4 years na ang nakalipas. I am sure naman nakamove on na siya. May gf na nga eh. Miss ko lang friendship namin. Kung ayaw niya bumalik pa kami sa dati, tanggap ko naman.

[triciaaamaldita]

May question lang ako for guys. Here's the situation.

You're in a bar, ihing ihi na kayo, and super haba ng pila. 2nd kayo sa pila and medyo may tama na.

Normal or accepted ba sainyo na makishare na ng banyo dahil lang super ihing ihi na kayo? With a complete stranger ha. Hahaaha.  Like sabay kayo iihi.

Syempre pag babae kasi hindi sya normal. Mag aantay talaga na ma vacate ang banyo kahit ihing ihi na. E sa guys ba?

[jtansanco]

^ LOL! There's an unwritten rule in the men's urinal. Let's say there are 5 urinals and 3 guys will take a piss. It's automatic that urinals 1, 3, and 5 will be used. We don't pee on adjacent urinals unless it's too crowded. Also, I don't think 2 guys will be able to fit in 1 urinal... It was and never will be constructed that way. Haha

^^ Young Maiden - the answer is it will never happen again. The reason why he was so nice to you was because he was inlove with you. He'd rather lose you than to be friends with you and be crushed seeing you happy with someone else. He will never accept the fact that you rejected him.

Guys tanong ko lang kayo...paano kung:
1. mabait naman kayong anak - sumusunod sa magulang
2. Mabait na tito - nagpa-aral ng mga pamangkin
3. Breadwinner sa pamilya
4. mabait na kaibigan - laging anjan para tumulong
5. mabait na katrabaho - very helpful sa colleagues

pero sabay-sabay kayo kung mag-gf, masamang tao na ba kayo nun?

ma-jujustify ba ang reasoning na 'wala naman akong sinasaktang tao' para masabing HINDI ka masamang tao?

I can't blame the guy if he has a lot of girlfriends at the same time. You describe a very nice guy. There's one problem. A guy like that is dying to have a girlfriend who will treat him the way he treats others. Unfortunately, no matter how nice he is, it will be difficult for him to find the one which is why he has a lot of prospects. By the way, di ko sure if tama pagkaintindi ko sa question. Haha

[young_maiden]

^ Siguro nga iyong friendship na iyon strategy niya na lang para mapalapit sa akin. Nung kami pa nung ex ko, hindi naman kami masyado close ni Mr. Friendzoned Guy. Nung single na ako, saka niya ako kinaibigan at inamin feelings niya sa akin. Accept and move on na lang sa nawalang friendship. Salamat, bro.

[triciaaamaldita]

^ LOL! There's an unwritten rule in the men's urinal. Let's say there are 5 urinals and 3 guys will take a piss. It's automatic that urinals 1, 3, and 5 will be used. We don't pee on adjacent urinals unless it's too crowded. Also, I don't think 2 guys will be able to fit in 1 urinal... It was and never will be constructed that way. Haha

If hindi urinal ha. Yung bowl talaga. Ginawa kasi to ng guy friend namin. Nandiri lang ako. Or is it just me. Talikuran naman daw sila umihi nung isang guy kasi may empty space in the cr. Pero gets. Haha ew basta ewan ko ba 

[TomHansen]

"talikuran"?

triciaaamaldita, never!! haha and compared sa babae mabilis lang namang umihi mga lalaki kaya ano ba naman yung maghintay pa ng ilang minuto, nakakailang at hindi magandang experience iyon sa aming dalawa..

young_maiden, hmmm bakit bigla mo siyang naisip?

[triciaaamaldita]

"talikuran"?

triciaaamaldita, never!! haha and compared sa babae mabilis lang namang umihi mga lalaki kaya ano ba naman yung maghintay pa ng ilang minuto, nakakailang at hindi magandang experience iyon sa aming dalawa..

Exactly!!! Kadiri talaga yun. Hahaha. Anyway, thanks for answering. Nalaman kong tama pala reasoning ko. Hahaha

[young_maiden]

Sa totoo lang bihira ko lang siya maisip. Hindi kasi talaga ako nagsisisi na inayawan ko siya. Naisip ko lang siya lately dahil active siya now sa fb. Mahilig magpost sa mga nangyayari sa kanya. Saka kahit hindi na kami speaking terms, paminsan-minsan nagla-like iyon pag may new status o profile pic ako. Bigla ko tuloy naalala iyong mga panahong close kami. Wala na siguro next chapter iyon.

[chinablue]

^i understand where you're coming from sis. ang sakit kaya mawalan ng friend. pero trying to look at it from his point of view, it's been 4 years na kasi sis, siguro nasanay na lang din siya na hindi na kayo friends. hindi ka na part ng daily life niya.  we lose friends, c'est la vie. saka parang awkward nga din naman na close close kayo parang dati eh my gf na siya ngayon. lalo na at may pagsintang pururot siya noon sa iyo.

An ex told me that I'm his the one that got away, is there a chance that he'll forget about me? Cause I want him to completely move on. He already has a girlfriend now but when we last talked, he said again that he has so many regrets.

We've been together for more than 7 years and broke up three years ago.

sis, hindi natin kontrolado ang feelings ng ibang tao. pero kontrolado natin kung paano tayo magrereact towards them. forgetting a person you once loved is impossible. unless nabagok ang ulo niya sa semento at nagkaamnesia siya o kaya may senile dementia siya, hehe. actually sis, nakarelate ako sa iyo. may ganyan ding akong ex eh, hahaha. but sis simang is right. if you really want to help him, cut the communication. until makamove on siya totally.

Guys tanong ko lang kayo...paano kung:
1. mabait naman kayong anak - sumusunod sa magulang
2. Mabait na tito - nagpa-aral ng mga pamangkin
3. Breadwinner sa pamilya
4. mabait na kaibigan - laging anjan para tumulong
5. mabait na katrabaho - very helpful sa colleagues

pero sabay-sabay kayo kung mag-gf, masamang tao na ba kayo nun?

ma-jujustify ba ang reasoning na 'wala naman akong sinasaktang tao' para masabing HINDI ka masamang tao?   

bakit walang sinasaktang tao? lokohan lang ba ang relationships niya? no strings attached? alam ng mga gf niya na sabay-sabay sila at payag naman sila?

[young_maiden]

^ Salamat, sis. Let go na lang talaga. Isipin ko na lang na madami pa akong friends bukod sa kanya para hindi na ako manghinayang.

[lyrahs]

I can't blame the guy if he has a lot of girlfriends at the same time. You describe a very nice guy. There's one problem. A guy like that is dying to have a girlfriend who will treat him the way he treats others. Unfortunately, no matter how nice he is, it will be difficult for him to find the one which is why he has a lot of prospects. By the way, di ko sure if tama pagkaintindi ko sa question. Haha

Meaning babae na marami ding dine-date na lalaki para pareho sila?

bakit walang sinasaktang tao? lokohan lang ba ang relationships niya? no strings attached? alam ng mga gf niya na sabay-sabay sila at payag naman sila?

Parang lumalabas na no strings attached, walang patutunguhan. Ayaw ng commitment kaya sabay-sabay kung mag-gf. Yung ibang gf nya alam na may iba pa sya but still chose to stay.

[lyrahs]

Siguro motto nya din yung 'What you don't know won't hurt you'.
E kaso nga yung ibang babae alam na meron din syang iba. Syrempre yung nakakaalam, nasasaktan yun. Pero tinanggap na lang at namanhid na ata. 

[jtansanco]

^^ No you got it wrong (or maybe I misinterpreted your post?). He's a nice guy who "treats" people well. Question is, does any of the girl he's dating treat him well? (female version of the 5 bullet points you highlighted)

[argento]

Accept and move on na lang sa nawalang friendship.

tingin ko ikaw ang di makapag move on. yung binasted mo nakapag move on na. baka may feelings ka na ngayon sa friend mo kaya gusto mo maging close uli kayo.

[young_maiden]

^ Hahahaha. Natawa naman ako sa post mo, bro. Bahala ka kung iyan ang gusto mo paniwalaan. Basta ako no regrets na nireject ko siya. I just value friendships very much.

[bellalestrange90]

you're in a relationship, kumuha ka ng number ng babae, wala lang ba talaga?

[lovely_carrot]

Not sure if this was asked before but curious lang, a girl who talks dirty during sexy time, turn off or turn on?

When I say dirty talking, un meron naman "class" at hindi parang palengkera 

[TomHansen]

^ turn on yun so wag kang mag-alala sa partner mo..
 
bellalestrange90, big deal yun sis, for me that's already cheating kahit di niya pa tinatawagan/text yung girl..

[j.adore]

Naku di pa over yan.

[jtansanco]

^^ He's not over the ex and that's a bad thing for you because he will compare his experience with you with the ex.

you're in a relationship, kumuha ka ng number ng babae, wala lang ba talaga?

NOPE.

Not sure if this was asked before but curious lang, a girl who talks dirty during sexy time, turn off or turn on?

When I say dirty talking, un meron naman "class" at hindi parang palengkera 

Tough question to answer because we don't know what's being said. Lovely_carrot, sample nga?