One Night Stand

[thea_girl]

Asko ko lang for males GTalkers.

What if you had a One Night Stand, then nalaman nyo na you got the girl pregnant? How you guys handle that? (as in no relationship or whatsoever with the girl)

[Girltalker2]

^ not a guy, Pero IMO, how stupid can you be to have a one night stand without protection?

mataas likelihood for you to get std.

Secondly, I heard marami Gawa Gawa ng reason na one night stand Pero ang totoo, third party yung girl. That's why nabuntis.

[j.adore]

"Malay ko kung akin nga yan"

[TomHansen]

^ yup ayun ang una kong iisipin.

thea_girl, i'll talk to the girl first, tatanungin ko kung sa akin ba talaga yung bata(kahit mag-lie siya) then ill tell her na ipapa-paternity test ko paglabas just to be sure. Sa expenses no choice but to help her kasi what if anak ko talaga and parusa ko sa sarili ko for not using protection(stupid). If sure na na anak ko wala nang magagawa but to support the kid. But if kamukha ni Angel Locsin or Bea Alonzo yung girl papakasalan ko na bago pa manganak...


(d)The problem with my answer is hindi ako nakikipag one night stand kaya baka di siya realistic?

[badw33d]

Asko ko lang for males GTalkers.

What if you had a One Night Stand, then nalaman nyo na you got the girl pregnant? How you guys handle that? (as in no relationship or whatsoever with the girl)

My experience of a one night stand is i dont have a connection with the girl personally, so i wouldn't know about it. If it happens that i knew, i wouldn't be sure if its mine, if she asked me to do it bare that means she asked other guys to do it bare too with her, so the probability? Thin.

But i never did it without a condom, that's the habit. So if i got her pregnant, there must be some deep connection in a way coz i did it bare with her

[dismembered]

Well. If ever mangyari ito sa akin, katumbas ng chance ko manalo sa lotto na hindi naman ako bumibili ng ticket... eh no questions asked siguro papakasalan ko at pananagutan na lang yung bata.

Whether gusto ko si girl or not... eh iisipin ko na lang na part ng consequences ko and I have to deal with it for the rest of my life. I have to man up. If it means living my life like hell... part pa rin ng consequences and I have to bear it.

[thea_girl]

My experience of a one night stand is i dont have a connection with the girl personally, so i wouldn't know about it. If it happens that i knew, i wouldn't be sure if its mine, if she asked me to do it bare that means she asked other guys to do it bare too with her, so the probability? Thin.

But i never did it without a condom, that's the habit. So if i got her pregnant, there must be some deep connection in a way coz i did it bare with her

What if he done that drunk? he can't recall exactly if he uses condom that time because nga he's drunk. How stupid di ba? Status kase now married na yung guy, sinabi ni cheap girl na pregnant sya. Ano ba tawag dun sa mga babae sa bar tapos pag gusto mo i-table after that open sila to have sex ganun. So ayun nga hindi naniniwala yung guy na sa kanya nga yung binibintang ni girl kase nga sa klase nung work nung babae. Sabi nung guy "hindi akin yan" sabi nung girl ikaw tatay nun kase ikaw yung huli? huh!? huling ano?? kaloka! May asawa at 2 anak na kase yung lalaki hindi nya alam if paano sasabihin sa wife nya because that happened 5 years ago pa. He wants to be honest this time.

 

[badw33d]

^doesn't matter. His worry should not be the pregnancy or something, its now more on the HIV / AIDS thing, he should get himself checked. I'm not saying this due to the nature of the girl's job, but due to the fact that its just an ONS and did it bare.

How to tell the wife? hmmmm  he's not sure about the baby right? so why tell the wife? if he pursue to tell his wife, then he already admits and takes responsibility. the best is do paternity test first, if the guy is confirmed to be the father of the child, then the guy has to tell the wife. And there is no other way of telling the wife "Honey, I got some girl pregnant", that's it hehe.. what happens after that, well, up to them.

[jtansanco]

At the top of my mind, since it's a one night stand, we will still live separate lives and I'll probably help with the finances. That's only an opinion though since an insight is one thing, experiencing it is another.

[thea_girl]

At the top of my mind, since it's a one night stand, we will still live separate lives and I'll probably help with the finances. That's only an opinion though since an insight is one thing, experiencing it is another.

While checking on the pictures nung bata hindi naman nya kamukha as in walang nakuha sa features nung lalaki, so nanindigan parin sya na hindi sa kanya yung bata at malamang napagbintangan sya. Ayaw nya narin magkaroon ng connection dun sa babae at sa bata kase lalo lang magugulo ang pamilya nya dahil hindi yun tanggap nung asawa once confirmed na anak nga nya yung bata. Yes may sariling family narin yung babae at may asawa at anak narin dun sa asawa nya.

[jtansanco]

^ Oh, true story pala... But yeah, that's common. It's an accident so no need for both parties to force each other to being together. Maraming single moms and dads sa Pinas and here in the US but it doesn't matter because some eventually find a lover who will accept the kid.

[dismembered]

part of the consequences of our past actions. One of the reasons not to have ONS. Ang sakit sa ulo isipin ng problema na ito.

[thea_girl]

part of the consequences of our past actions. One of the reasons not to have ONS. Ang sakit sa ulo isipin ng problema na ito.

The damage has been done, hindi na maibabalik pa yun. Sana lang talaga hindi nya anak yung bata, kase di ba responsibilidad yun at hindi dapat talikuran. Nagbabagong buhay na kuno yung guy. Nakalimot lang siguro sya that time at naging t***a.

[dismembered]

^ oo nga. Need panindigan I think kung talagang anak nya yun. Kailangan nya maging honest din sa asawa nya or else, lagi sya i-haunt ng thought na anytime pwede bumalik yung tao para mag claim sa anak nya.

[amethyst028]

get a paternity test for his peace of mind na rin. now kung na prove that it's his child mag sustento siya sa bata. simply because it is the right thing to do. hindi naman porket ganung klase ng babae yun e di-dismiss niya na agad na hindi kanya yung bata. dapat may solid proof kung hindi habang buhay siya sisingilin sa ginawa niya. karam is a bi*ch.

[dell]

...pwedeng masabing "fools rush in" ang ganitong storya

[thea_girl]

^ oo nga. Need panindigan I think kung talagang anak nya yun. Kailangan nya maging honest din sa asawa nya or else, lagi sya i-haunt ng thought na anytime pwede bumalik yung tao para mag claim sa anak nya.

Ang alam ko nkikipag hiwalay na yung asawa sa kanya dahil nga ayaw ng asawa or hindi matanggap na nagkaanak nga yung asawa nya sa ibang babae. Pinipilit parin nung babae na anak daw nya yung bata hindi na raw need ng paternity test sure na sure daw sya. Whoa!  Nakakatawa parang desperada na makakuha ng sustento sa lalaki eh hindi naman mayaman yung guy.

[thea_girl]

get a paternity test for his peace of mind na rin. now kung na prove that it's his child mag sustento siya sa bata. simply because it is the right thing to do. hindi naman porket ganung klase ng babae yun e di-dismiss niya na agad na hindi kanya yung bata. dapat may solid proof kung hindi habang buhay siya sisingilin sa ginawa niya. karam is a bi*ch.

yes karma will haunt him, if the child is his. kawawa naman yung bata walang kasalanan sa nangyari. Pero kung ako naman yung girl sa bar, wala na ako pakialam sa tatay ng anak ko if ayaw nya recognize bahala sya.

[her_shey]

Mahirap nga naman paniwalaan na kanya yun, sa ganung klase ng trabaho ni girl. Hindi porke sya ang huli, sya na ang nakabuntis 

OT, pero i just wanna ask males or guytalkers here, na why commit on a one night stand if you're in a relationship?  parang ang sakit kasi sa part ng mga girls yun na sasabihin nyong mahal nyo partners nyo, pero natutukso parin kayo. Just wondering! No Hugot for me hehe.

[TomHansen]

^ Because cheaters are awful human beings, they respect their penis more than their partners. Kapag may available na na babae nakakalimutan na nila gf nila. And also varierty, sasabihin nila nagsasawa na sila sa same vags kaya titikim ng iba..