Would you like the girl set up the date?

[ashonlush]

Just want to ask some questions GTers.

I'd like to know guys POV, pero pwede narin sa mga girls

1. How would you feel if someone you wanted to have a date with got a lot of excuses?
2.  If the girl is busy (kahit na alam mong hindi), would you like her to set the date (the day when she's already available) instead?

[TomHansen]

^It depends on what are her excuses, kung lame or wrong timing lang talaga ako mag-aya. Ibabased ko sa explanation niya(if meron) kung aayain ko ulit siyang mag-date. After 2 tries at ayaw pa rin I'll take it as a sign that she's not interested pero i'll tell her to just let me know when she's not busy pero di na ako mageexpect.

*kwento mo ts ang nangyari sayo.

[badw33d]

^^ yeah bring the real story on :-)

excuses... I can pass and maybe try again next time. Reasons, then it's okay, i'll ask her to pick on a date.

[ashonlush]

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[sweet.hann]

before.. i was given that option.. lagi kasing wrong timing talaga mag-aya yung guy.. somehow, yung pagiging wrong timing nya eh, lusot ko para makaiwasa sa kanya.. tapos binigyan nya ko ng option na ako na lang magsabi sa kanya kung kelan ako availble.. ayun.. ok naman..

ok lang naman.. kasi dun din malalaman kung umiiwas lang ba si girl na makipag-date o wrong timing lang talaga..

[badw33d]

^^ TS... you do know that this is a date with a sex right? hahaha. c'mon, boracay and one room? and nasa plans na diba. So i will state it as: you know what you are getting into, and you like too. :-) share with us how it goes, and i wish this as a good and smooth flow.

[j.adore]

Classic pakipot

I would make up a lot of excuses if I do not like the guy or I don't see any future for us.

I have set a date na din there was this one guy who was so persistent parang nag stand by siya when I'm free.


Lol badw33d sexy time din naisip ko diyan sa 1 room Boracay gala.

[red_yesha]

Same here.. sexy time rin ang gusto ng lalakeng yan sa bora. Haha!
Yung sa nood ng movie and kain bakit ang daming excuses TS? Gusto mo ba talaga o ayaw mo sa lalakeng yan?

Ako kasi kapag may free time, niyaya  at interesado naman ako, gora agad ako . Then it turned out na ayaw ko pala sakanya kasi feeling ko di kami compatible hahaha!

[ashonlush]

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[badw33d]

^well of course that;s the case, c'mon its simple. You go with this guy in a hotel, what to expect??? hahahah. but this can be a very good and unique thing... you never know.

You may be the breadwinner in the family but that doesnt mean you dont get to have a good or a fun time. if you can afford vacation, go for it. if it has to be with this guy, yeah why not, just be responsible.

o, parang Dad lang no? hahaha

[ashonlush]

^ ikaw talaga!!! Haha. I know pero I don't think naman may ganung mangyayari. Malay mo, friend lang pala tingin sa akin? I can't even imagine myself, kasama siya, sa isang kwarto. Parang ang awkward lang lalo na kapag changing outfit time. Lol.

what if ako nalang kaya sa accommodation? Hahaha! Para sure na hiwalay kame ng kwarto. 

Yes, I know naman eh. It's just mas ok sakin na sa bahay nalang whenever I have day off or kung meron man, lalabas kami ng family ko or friends. But this guy, never ko siya binigyan ng chance. Grabe, ang sama ko ba? Mukhang sa ginagawa kong ito, natetest siya e.

hi daddeeee! 

[badw33d]

^ well everything is a possibility.  and yeah could really be good friends with ____ hahha okay, that's it for the joke. and changing outfit time will never be an awkward moment, that's where it begins hehe. Yeah you can do accommodation, and isama mo na ako, or well... kami :-) i haven't been there anyway hehe.. makikiride na lang kami. or we'll do the score? dala kami scrore card? :-P again i'll try to stop.

so you think he's being tested,, hmmmmm good point, leaning on the positive side :-)

yeah... i now sound like im very old.

[kvandenhaak]

Gusto ni TS si guy pero daring masyado ang gusto especially kung first date lang. Pang couple na yun eh. The guy I am recently seeing (very new pa kami) wanted me to set up our dates. Okay lang, walang problema. Basta nilinaw ko lang na kung mas prefer nya na ako talaga ang set ng dates. Oo daw kasi ako yung taga dito sa city, I know where and what places to go. So, I said, "Well then let's go to Jasper!" Kasi gusto ko talaga pumunta doon matagal na kaso walang makasama. He said, "Sure, but we need to be closer before spending a weekend together". Take note, he is Canadian. So anyway, okay lang girl mag-set ng date. Pero TS dapat marunong ka rin magsalita at mag-set ng rules. Kung ayaw mo ng iisang room lang kayo then tell him. Wag mahiya sabihin ang gusto. However, gusto maka-score agad ni guy ha?

[amethyst028]

@TS kung gusto maraming paraan kung ayaw maraming dahilan. kung tingin mo hindi ka pa ready kasi once na mag date kayo and it went well masusundan siya and later on magiging relationship. kung tingin mo hindi ka pa ready sa ganon then don't keep him hanging. and what's with this guy saying na ilibre mo siya? ang awkward naman nun. ikaw pa gagastos ganern? sana joke lang yun kasi medyo makapal naman siya. ok lang manlibre ka kung barkada kayo or kung serious relationship na.

regarding boracay oo siyempre given na yun na pag sumama ka sa guy sa out of town trip something will happen. kahit sabihin mong separate rooms pa yan. lalake iyan no, gagawa at gagawa ng way yan to score. kung ayaw mo may mangyari wag na out of town. mag malling na lang kayo mas safe pa. hehe!

sakin kasi kung hindi ako pwede sinasabi ko yung other days na pwede ako. like pag sinabi ni guy na free ka tonight or tomorrow? at kung hindi ako pwede sasabihin ko this saturday or next tuesday. something like that. basta may definite day para hindi rin naman mapahiya yung tao. it take guts din kasi to ask someone out.

[j.adore]

Nothing happened.. I'm just really not into him.
But the good thing is that experience led me to my husband lol

[ashonlush]

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[mooncake and leaves]

Parang joke lang naman yung Boracay 😊

Why do you keep saying you're busy if hindi pala? What's behind the pagpapakipot?

[kvandenhaak]

@TS: So, are you into him or not? Dalawa lang naman yun. Kasi unfair din naman paghintayin mo sya kung wala naman syang aasahan. You like the attention pero di mo sya type? Kasi pag gusto mo gagawa at gagawa ka ng paraan. I don't quite get what you want to do.

[junetwentythree]

^^ Yeah, I'm really curious about that too. Perhaps I'm just not the beat around the bush kinda gal. Life's just too friggin' short you know? But that seems to be the Filipino kind of way and Filipino dudes are suckers for that, so whatevs. Interestingly though, they also seem to lose interest the minute they snag their prize. Just something to keep in mind.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Did you two meet online and have never met?

Kahit di ako lalaki mej di ko fee ang paasa moves haha. I think it's perfectly normal for you to set the time and date of your date sis. Ikaw naman ang siniseekout.

I remember being in this situation before, met him online and all the shizz and gusto na niya magmeet ng sobra and we'd talk everyday but i was so shy back then and have never done it. We just kinda grew apart and eventually stopped talking. I forgot the exact details na haha.