Would you like the girl set up the date?

[ashonlush]

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[iwannabeasupermodel]

^alam mo naman na sasabihin namin, pag gusto gagawa at gagawa ng paraan. Kung ako nga from duty after 30 hrs sa ospital and most of the time 1-2hrs of sleep lang but i am able to manage to go on a date still. Haha!

[mooncake and leaves]

But you said that you're not ready to see him, which is why you kept making excuses.

Like what june23 said, life is too short. Kung nagpapakipot ka because you think that works, because you think that will sustain his interest--goodluck. Anyone in this guy's situation will just think that you're playing games.

To be fair to you, the guy doesn't seem too into you either. People who are invested in getting to know someone are not going to be casual about the fact that hey, it's been what? 4 to 5 months and you're still pretty much just textmates. He's not angry that you've been wasting his time because he doesn't care. So I guess you're off the hook.

Stick to your job and responsibilities. If you can not manage one date, you can not manage a string of dates and  a relationship at this point. That's not a bad thing. But if that's where your priorities lie, then that's just where you need to be.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ haaay i love love the hard slap of reality!! 😄😄

[ashonlush]

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[mooncake and leaves]

^i've upset you. sorry, i really didn't mean to.  but again, goodluck. i'm really of the opinion though that if you can not devote time to this blossoming relationship, you shouldn't waste each other's time. sayang kasi. the time he's spending on you could have gone to someone who matches his priorities better. and for you as well. relationships require honesty, time & commitment and if you're not there yet, you shouldn't force it.

[macaroonz]

1. How would you feel if someone you wanted to have a date with got a lot of excuses?

I'll definitely stop. waste of time. ika nga nila, there are plenty of fish in the sea.


2.  If the girl is busy (kahit na alam mong hindi), would you like her to set the date (the day when she's already available) instead?
 
What is with (kahit na alam mong hindi)? i think, these are girls na mahilig sa mind games (maarte, feeling know it all, at feeling chicks) no offense meant. harhar. back to the topic, maganda yung mutual na usapan. both are available. no one's left behind. walang pafall. kasi iba na ngayon, yeah, you got the looks at all, also achievements like you're in grad school, career driven, or in short medyo intimidating. pero ate girl! mataas ang competition ngayon even if you're manila girl. haha. madaming mas empowered woman diyan na longing magkadate or love-life, JUST CHOOSE girl! career or romance. mas masaya both. but base on your story, mas gusto mo magwork. ^^ choose wise girl, and bawasan ang drama like busy ako sa work or business, proper time management kung gusto mong magkajowa.  

[iwannabeasupermodel]

To be fair to you, the guy doesn't seem too into you either. People who are invested in getting to know someone are not going to be casual about the fact that hey, it's been what? 4 to 5 months and you're still pretty much just textmates. He's not angry that you've been wasting his time because he doesn't care. So I guess you're off the hook.

Totoo to. Yes he likes you , but he has other options on the sides.