Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 20)

[CityHunter]

Hi, super_julz40.

Its okay as ang critical ay pay attention kung may difference those make - having warm lights in certain areas.  You can always opt to use something else for those areas na hindi nagamitan nun like cleansing, decluttering, etc. 

Balancing the energy of a place kasi is not easy but it can be done even by an ordinary person.  Remember lang just as how luck is made of 3 things ay so too ang approach in fixing the luck of our place.

OT: We just won that arbitration filed back then.  Let's hope this development is put into good use.

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

This may sound weird but its a fact.  Wearing the same clothes for days kahit pa swerte kasi iyan is BAD.  Kahit pa daanin mo sa cologne o perfume para hindi bumaho ay its still not pwede.  Not just because hindi siya healthy but also the luck changes from period to period. 

[itt]

^^ hehe naalala ko galing kami cemetery tas I was so tired when we got home na nakatulugan ko yung suot ko na damit. ayun nagkanightmare ako hehe

[patchiislove]

Hello, Sir CH.

Tama po kayo what really important is yung present and focus with my family, but I’m not dwelling po on the what if’s in life kahit na nakaka-paranoid yung dream ko or sometimes mahirap maipaliwanag kung bakit nangyayari sa akin ito. Sana nga po matigil na itong pag papanaginip.

Thank you po sa pag reply at advice 

[super_julz40]

Sir Ch,

Thanks po. I'll observe and check the changes. hehe opo, hirap ngang magbalance especially sa place for decluttering.

Salamat sa Diyos at nanalo tayo sa WPS. Hoping for protection from other countries sa implementation nito especially UN, US and new ties for our new administration to Russia inspite na kaalyado nito ang China. They should respect the outcome of the ruling.

[liveandlove]

Hi Sir CH! Hindi po nasagot yung question ko sa page 14 repost ko na lang po para po kasi sayo at kay sir akthung yung tanong ko. Nasagot na po yung iba yung iba ni Sir Akthung pero need ko pa rin po input nyo lala na yung sa feng shui side like yung pag upo nya sa kabisera ito po yung post ko:

May tanong lang po ako tungkol doon sa vows of chastity paano ba makakawala? Saan ba siya puwedeng mag tithe? Yung sister ko kasi nasa mid thirties na wala pang asawa naisip ko noong nabasa ko yung post ni akthung na  baka nag vow of chastity siya nung past life niya o kaya baka may spiritual husband siya. May nabasa kasi ako na yung iba daw na hindi nakakapag asawa may spiritual husband. Yun bang may parang ghost na in love sa kanya kaya hindi nag pa prosper mga relationship niya. Ano po sa tingin nyo? Isa pa pala itong sister ko ang hilig umupo sa kabisera nang hapagkainan. Yung parents kasi namin hindi naman mahilig umupo sa kabisera.  pinagsabihan ko na nga na wag na say doon umupo ganun pa rin. May epekto kaya yung pagupo nya doon sa lovelife nya?

Nabanggit rin ni Sir akthung na in case may entity nga na attracted sa sis ko kailangan nya nang healer. Pero parang ang hirap po sabihin nyan sa kapatid ko kasi siguradong hindi sya sasama sa healer kaya need po namin nang ibang remedy.

[handlewithcare]

Hi Sir CH,
 
Thanks again for always responding to our questions.
 
Sir yung tanong ko po ay related sa tanong ni auburn regarding sa sunod sunod na pagkamatay sa relatives nya. Yung sa kin naman po ay yung sunod sunod na pagkamatay ng dating magkakapitbahay doon sa dati naming tinitirhan.
 
2014 po kami umalis doon sa dati naming tinitirhan kasi ibinenta na po ng may-ari yung lupa. Yung iba po naming kapitbahay early 2015 naman po umalis. Sa ngayon po ginawang parking lot na yung area. Pero yung ibang kapitbahay namin sa kabilang compound, andon pa kasi sila po ang may-ari ng lupa nila.
 
Napansin ko lang po na mula September 2015, halos sunod-sunod na ang pagkamatay ng dating magkakapitbahay (yung iba mula sa pamilya na nakatira pa rin doon, yung iba naman mula sa pamilya ng mga lumipat na ng bahay). More than 25 years po kasi kaming tumira doon kaya magkakakilala po talaga ang mga magkakapitbahay kaya pag may namatay, parang may reunion ang mga taga-compound.
 
Pansin ko po every 1-2 months may namamatay. Since September 2015, anim na po ang namatay (Nov 2015 po yung tito ko). Karamihan cancer ang dahilan pero hindi naman po sila magkakamag-anak. Yung latest po kahapon namatay. Sa tingin ko may susunod pa kasi yung isa pang dati naming kapitbahay, may stage 3 cancer naman.
 
Naniniwala po ako na walang coincidence. Naalala ko po nung doon pa kami nakatira, isang hatinggabi sunod-sunod na umalulong nang malakas yung mga aso. Una muna yung mga aso dun sa bahay sa unahan ng compound then sunod sunod hanggang dun sa mga aso sa dulo ng compound na para bang may nakikita sila na nakakatakot. The next day, napag-usapan yun sa lugar at yung iba nagjo-joke na baka daw may enggrandeng mangyayari. Akala ko din that time may masamang mangyayari sa lugar namin pero wala naman. Pero sobrang tagal na po nung nangyari yon (10 years ago na siguro).
 
Eto po Sir CH ang questions ko:
1. Posible po ba na yung kakaibang nangyari sa lugar namin tungkol sa pag-alulong ng mga aso ay connected sa sunod sunod na pagkamatay ng mga nakatira doon kahit malayo ang gap?
2. Bukod po sa prayers, ano pa po ang ibang mas mabilis na paraan para matigil ang sunod sunod na pagkamatay? Natatakot po kasi ako na baka yung susunod ay kamag-anak ko uli. 
3. Mali po ba na dumirecho sa mall o sa simbahan na same pa rin ang suot pagkagaling sa burol? Ganon po kasi ginagawa ko para "magpagpag". Dapat po ba umuwi muna sa bahay at magpalit ng damit?
 
Thanks in advance at pasensya na po sa mahabang post.🙂

[CityHunter]

Hi, itt (and mga sis).

Yes, residual energy especially from yin events, places and even people can affect us for days.  This is why it is important one cleanses regularly.  Minsan rin too much of a good thing can be bad.  Dahil such would have to be balanced by bad luck.  By cleansing and realizing one has to sacrifice may it be for blessings or tests ay mas may chance tayo to overcome or improve upon the situation - whichever is applicable.


Hi, patchiislove.

Suggestion ko for you (and those in a similar situation): starting today to Saturday ay relax.  Cleanse (and declutter) if possible.  Come Sunday morning either attend early morning mass o pray - dawn ang best time.  Relax and tune in to whom you feel can help you.  As this is about dreams ay usually I would guide one to connect kay Uriel o Gabriel.  But as this week is different hence simply feel out then tune in for divine assistance.

Maari rin kasi itong dream mo is simply to put a closure to the past na unfinished.  For sure may iba pa who has such similar dreams.


Hi, super_julz40.

If one has noticed this Fire year has really been weird.  Deadpool ang so far weird na superhero na pinakilala sa movies - I found it better than the others so far.  Take note na ang Deadpool movie is not the typical hero you want kids to like.  Then we have the first president from Mindanao who is introducing very radical changes.  Changes na long overdue - and the narco-state program by bad people is just the tip of the iceberg.  Its a David vs Goliath yun ruling ng tribunal sa complaint natin with China.  And I have to agree na good move yun to pause and study first mga next moves after this ruling.  Balance is the key to survival and growth - just as what we have learned in this thread.  Most of all ay so far its either a Clinton or Trump for US.  And with how things are sa MidEast maybe makita natin soon na mas i-focus ang renewable clean energy.  Has anyone who has travelled sa provinces and Manila na ibang iba yun stamina mo when you try the same activities here sa Manila as what you do sa provinces.

Try mo to start with what you could.  With the rainy season here ay walang masama to trim and fix things up para less lamok, daga, etc.  


Hi, liveandlove.

Sa chastity ay iba kasi ang approach I use here.  Usually for a better answer its a pro reading ng life chart mo.  But generally it can be connected nga - as akthung clued us in - sa past.  Karma rin ika nga.

In some situations ang delays ay for a good reason.  I was studying my chart - ha ha, mas kabisado ko chart ng iba than mine - and realized nga na kapag sudden gains ay mawala rin agad   Pero kapag matagal bago ko makamit ay mas better and mas fulfilling o successful   Kay wifey its different.  More of sa point that all seems lost then biglang sudden reversal of that. 

Iyong Cleansing of the Family Tree ang best generic bet na maibigay mo as advise without pa karmic repercussions o costs. 

kabisera
n. 1. principal position at a table; 2. capital city

Does she o kayo pray before and after meals?

Now, sa tithing angle.  It can be like sa St. Jude but usually I go for more where stronger yun connection - for me.  Like whenever I need answers o feel I am at my limit na to help someone o a case ay sa Quiapo Church na ako pupunta.  That's where I do my sacrifice for Him.  Offer my works in His name, share what blessings I could - usually not pera but something pinag-isipan and bought with such, mass - here is where I use money.  Though as its your sibling ang may problem ay you are limited to what you can do for her.  Dapat siya rin maging active to make things happen. 

Spiritual husband.  Alam ko yun cases wherein a dead na walang asawa pinakakasal sa buhay o kapwa patay.  Mga cases na mga supernatural na nag-like sa living is also true.  But iyong spiritual husband angle hindi ko masyado na-explore iyan admittedly.  It is possible as it can be yun dapat mapangasawa niya died or has yet to be born.  However, sa turo rin sa akin it doesn't have to be the perfect man o woman you will end up with in life.  I would opine na its more na related sa karma than anything else.

Going back sa kabisera position ay true na ang pwesto na ito can influence one.  More so depende sa environment - arrangement, placement, etc.  But that factor is just one of many.

Sa remedy siguro naman confession and iyong cleansing of teh family tree is not going to be viewed negatively by her.  Yes, some have expressed horror stories during their confession experiences - manyak na pari - pero bago na ang leadership natin.  We have a pope who is vastly for the people as well as a president who is.  I would really suggest maging least option iyang mga quack healers muna.  The amount one would spend on those mas better pa gamitin on a pilgrimage for cleansing.

FYI.  There is a reason why the way of the cross is encouraged during holy week and even visiting several places to do that.  Na reflect on the past and magbago ang theme for lenten season.  Same sa situation ng many so that better days be realized.


Hi, handlewithcare.

Events happen nga for a reason.  One possible answer to your question ay dahil ang chi ninyo ay in sync with each other in the community hence yun deaths ay also close to each other.  Napapansin lang kasi mostly ang mga negatives.  Example, for sure maalala ninyo what are the bad points raised sa panahon ni PNoy, Arroyo, etc.  But the good points pahirapan makabuo hindi ba.  Same thing here.  Its also why sa supernatural ay mas madalas mo mabasa mga scary ones o negative ang i-share than angels, etc. 

And dahil rin nagbago ang place due to changes made - naging parking lot what used to be a residential area - ay it affects many including former occupants.  This is due to residual energy.  Now you know bakit ako makulit masyado to cleanse the place prior, during and annually. 

With regards to dogs howling ay may link iyon as that also happens sa area namin.  But its more of they see something unusual.  So depende pa rin sa chi.

Ha ha.  Walang mabilis na paraan kasi.  Why is it a lot want a fast food answer.  Its going to be half baked ang labas kapag ganun na nagsayang ka lang ng oras at resources and even earn karmic bad points.  The easiest way is to have mass said with everyone in the community in attendance plus have a general blessing not just for all in attendance but also for each home and sa entire community. 

FYI.  Just as how good luck is to be tapped so too when countering ill luck.  3 things make up luck so those 3 have to be addressed to solve this problem.

Sometimes pwede na iyong simple methods like what you mentioned kapag galing sa burol.  In some situations naman hindi.  It really a case-to-case basis.

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Let's do a quick review.  Luck is made up of 3 things: God Luck, Man Luck and Nature Luck.  God Luck is what you get since birth.  Man Luck is what you get by your interaction with others.  Nature Luck ay hindi lang sa surroundings mo na non-living but also living things like animals and plants.

Feng shui is about changes.  Changes that are influenced by chi o energy.  Energy can be strong, weak o stagnant.  And luck can be good or bad. 

And its about creating balance - yin and yang.  Hindi pwede na puro yin na walang yang and vice-versa.  Hence walang tao na malas or swerte lang. 

I-expand natin ito as this way some who are new here can understand bakit minsan medyo OT na ang usapan.  Nature Luck speaks of surroundings.  So kasama diyan yun influence ng natural and supernatural (preternatural yun correct term though). 

Most tend to simply focus sa environment lang.  Yes, it can influence one's luck but that is not maximizing things.  Paano kung walang harmony among the workers or there is no leadership?  Kahit pa office iyan where a successful company began and grew out of ay it will not be enough to help the current occupants.  This is why I usually do not have folks focus on fixing the place but themselves muna.

Man Luck is something you can carry with you anywhere.   Depende sa timpla mo which would either make you vulnerable or strong.  Sa strong aspect ay it can be in a negative or positive way as depende on how you use your strength.

God Luck.  Some would connect this with rituals.  In a way ay that is correct such as mass.  Pero what about those who subscribe to the dark arts to find the answer they want? 

Then when you combine these 3 plus the effect of the past (ancestral luck) ay it can produce unexpected results - either good o bad.  This is where pumapasok yun sinasabi ko learn the difference ng wealth sa prosperity.  To learn your wants from your needs.  When can you realize real happiness. 

As you have noticed it is not an easy task to create balance.  So there is NO quick solution - not unless you want to bargain with the devil.  And believe me masahol pa iyan sa politico corrupto who is nothing but a minion of it. 

One has to work on each aspect bit by bit.  Kung may agimat o charm that works to provide instant solution ay I would not be spending time to share these points here and I would already be filthy rich.

[CityHunter]

Let's continue. 

Ang dreams and signs ay clues.  Its like hearing sa radio o watching sa TV ng program you tuned to.  So what are prayers, meditations and such?  Its your mode to transmit naman. 

And when they say action speaks louder than words ay this so holds true.  This is where sacrifices, fasting, etc. comes in. 

When you combine all these ay its the remedy.  For example yun simple na salt solution.  May Level 1 to 3 ako nai-share.  So to use that you need to identify ano ang problem and where that problem is rooted on or accumulates.  This is where you place it sa main door, bedroom, CR, etc.  And when you take it a level higher ay you use blessed salt and water pa.  And when you do your prayers regularly ay its to help the salt solution be more effective.

Sa plants naman ay its to infuse them with your energy so mag-sync kayo.  This happens sa selection and caring for them.  Science has proven that plants can communicate with each other kahit malayo.  And if you've noticed ay plants have figured in many of the world's religion and culture.  Isa na iyong burning bush. 

Going sa God Luck.  Here it can be one is not blessed much sa umpisa but through effort and skill ay maging successful.  Pwede rin born rich but ends poor.  What about the non-material things like luck in marriage?  Karma rin iyan which is energy that resonates through generations.  It can be stuck sa place too.  Like sa ilang cases ko wherein the place used to be a nightclub.  Or a cemetery.  Or a place where tragedy has happened.  Why do you think those in power so want to avoid Malacanang? 

FYI.  I am happy that the oath taking was not done pa rin sa Quirino Grandstand. 

To influence positive changes dapat parang detective ka.  Figure out ano ba yun mga clues.  And act upon those that you can act on now.  This is why it may seem I limit anong scope of things I share - iyong sinasabi ko within the scope of freebie category.  Its really to make you realize na simple things are the best.

Minamalas ka sa work.  So why do you need a charm o agimat?  Hindi kaya it can be your current chi that makes you vulnerable at work?  Pwede rin karma mo na kasi now to suffer.  So anong magagawa ng charm o agimat for that?  Wala.

You remedy the situation by figuring out muna ano ba ang cause why you are experiencing that sa work.  Is it because you lack character and seen as someone everyone bullies?  Or is it because some co-worker is simply a bully. 

[super_julz40]

Sir Ch,

Thanks po, i'll start paunti unti para mabawasan, hehe.

Tama po ang mga nabanggit nyo, each year ay its getting more weird especially sa present. Tamang tama rin na napapag-usapan ang tithing or better if its almsgiving to the poor. Its a right call for the public also regarding almsgiving to the poor, kasi mostly nagpapractice nito ay kung sino ang nag-aaral ng esoteric teachings. But for most major religions this is taught to be practice by all pero ito ang katangi-tanging ipinauutos ng Diyos sa tao na hindi na nagagawa ng nakararami. It is time to practice almsgiving not just tithing, but almsgiving to the poor.

Matthew 25:40
"The King will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.'

least of these brothers and sisters - the poorest of your people


Proverbs 14:31
He who oppresses the poor taunts his Maker, But he who is gracious to the needy honors Him.

Proverbs 19:17
One who is gracious to a poor man LENDS to the LORD, And He will repay him for his good deed.


Pasensiya na po, sharing ko lang po ito, for those who are looking for references na iniuutos nga ito, para mawala ang pagdududa nyo. This is very important din to evolve our God luck. And meron ding corresponding teachings sa almsgiving o giving to the poor like Buddhism, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism & Christianity. Hindi ko na lang babanggitin iyong sa ibang religion baka pagalitan ako ng moderator hehe, unless if you need it and with others permission ay ipost ko rin.

[sweet_cherry]

konting kwento lang. may nakasabay ako sa jeep binigyan ako ng st benedict medal nabless daw ng monks and nabili niya sa st. scho's college. tinanong ko lang kung san niya nabili at napabless binigyan nya ako ng isa. and when I received it it felt so light.

[handlewithcare]

Salamat po uli sa reply nyo sa mga tanong sir CH!😀
 
Magpapamisa po ako at sana matigil na talaga ang sunod-sunod na death sa community namin.

[Arielle_Luoise]

Hi po Good Morning Sir Ch

May I ask hanggang kailan po pwedeng mag donate ng Bigas?

hindi ko po kasi alam kung saan magdodonate dito sa Marikina.

Sa mga orphanage po ba pwede?

Please reply po Thank you po

and God bless

[myjourney88]

Hi, myjourney88.

Usually ang rice sa dream means bad luck.  So having you dream to spit it out is good as it means countering reversals of fortune.  Just pay attention really well muna sa mga major decisions ninyong mag-asawa.

Hindi ko ma-gets yun ipa sa narration mo on the 2nd dream.  To the best I can interpret ay continuation o affirmation lang ng 1st dream mo.  That some choices may be wrong but it can be remedied pa.

Hi Sir,

Salamat sa patuloy mo pagsagot sa amin tee hee!

Sa 2nd dream ko nakalimutan ko na exact story. Anyways sir, araw araw talaga may dream ako. bakit kaya ganun?

About dreaming of rice, all along akala ko ok sya kasi food sya diba. Actually napanaginipan ko kasama ko isa ko officemate na may pinanik kami hagdan, then afterwards kumain naman kami, but I forgot na ano kain namin, Like kagabi I also dreamt of office setting na gusto ko daw sana punta sa certain office kaso ayaw ako papasukin ng guard for some reasons, them one of my kasama saw people on the table eating, sabi ko daw sa kasama ko diba food natin yan parang ganun, then lumapit naman kami sa mesa and kuha ng food na parang finger foods, ako kuha parang sashimi na parang suman.

Sir, what can you advice din, I was born on Aug 5, 1976 (i gave birth around 740am, normal delivery). Right now my bosses plan to have a new small company, which I will be part na din as owner, then I will be head sa marketing.  Actually I am really disappointed with my bosses, I've been here for almost 11 years, and promotion and salary increase had been the usual problem.  Like I've mentioned before, na mga baguhan accounting peeps mataas pa sweldo sa akin, isa taga gawa ng checks lang then isa head nila. Wala kahit ano open ko sa mga boss ko, di nila ma gets na salary for me is your basis / worth dito sa company. I have an additional per project pero dapat magpupuyat ako at need to attend all the activities, which for me diba, additional effort for that incentive. But what I have done here as Admin Head and Marketing assistant, wala na for the effort. Anyways my bosses birthdays are (sila immediate ko bosses)
april 11, 1968 (girl)
May 18, 1966 (gay)
Thank you again and God Bless!!

[patchiislove]

Sir CH,

Thank you po uli 

[CityHunter]

Hi, Arielle_Luoise.

Donating does not have time restrictions.  You can do it when you could and would be able to do so.  Kahit pa during Ghost Month mo gawin ito ay no issue.  As to where or who ay simply open your heart.  Its really that simple.  Anong sinabi ko sa donation task me and wifey did?  We divided it to share to many.  Ilan sa deserving neighbors and the rest to folks we found at and along the way to Quiapo Church.  One pa nga when I got back as I felt someone else needed the kilos of rice I carried - meaning I carried for the whole day around Manila iyong several kilos of rice and pag-uwi that's where we met the one deserving it.


Hi, super_julz40.




Hi, sweet_cherry.

Treasure that what was given to you as that was from a pure good deed.  Yes, sa St. Scho you can get those na blessed or have it blessed.  I had friends sa Philippine Navy get those as malapit lang ang Manila Bay HQ nila to that school.  More so for our Marines who badly need all the protection and peace.

Kaya you felt light kasi imbued o charged with strong positive energy iyon.  If you have the time and means ay do the same sa future.

[CityHunter]

Hi, patchiislove.

You're welcome


Hi, liveandlove.

Hmm.  I guess spiritual spouse is another term to use sa mga unseen ones who are more bad than the usual. 

Tricky iyong part where the subject dreamed na ikinasal siya to someone who is already dead.  It is likely na something used that deceased person's form to easily get past the defense ng victim. 

Has she done confession?  Cleansing rin iyon and she could ask the priest to have him hear hers prior to the cleansing of the family tree.


Hi, myjourney88.

Here's the best I can give as advice within the limits of this freebie thread: as Fire Dragon ka it is no wonder you feel in "caged."  In a way - but remember to temper your reaction ha - ay strong aura kasi what you emit.  Earth Monkey and Fire Horse respectively yun mga superiors you mentioned.  So compare those with a Fire Dragon - hindi ba you feel nga you are not being given what should be due to you.  This is because nga of conflict sa heavenly and earthly elements ninyo. 

Admittedly hindi madali to influence changes.  Well, you can opt to be like Anakin o Sen. Palpatine and use the Dark Side to effect changes but that would have a high price.  So do it in a different way. 

Mga sis.  Here is where knowing the basics pays a lot.  Bakit ba ang Dragon ang mortal na kalaban niya ay si Dog?  Na ang BFF ni Dog ay si Rabbit and kay Dragon naman ay si Rooster.  Its basically adapt to that sort of character when challenges seem difficult to surmount. 

As that is something quite complex to teach ay ito muna ang i-absorb mo: It's better to be happy than right.  Ito isa pa: Embrace the fear of "no."  Then ask for the "yes."

[myjourney88]

Hi sir,

Yes you are right on my feelings na I dont get what I deserve, I really dont understand mga ways nila, actually sir hindi lang dn naman sa akin, even some of our staff consistent sila sa hindi nila pag appreciate.  What can I do po if we are not meant to be like? hahaha sorry sir daan ko sa joke, pero you know kanina on my way here naiiyak ako, kasi nga on my feelings that ayoko na sana dito, kahit pa may itatayo bago company, kasi sila pa dn naman major holders so ano mababago, ang nega ko agad, but then I really dont like the way they treat us, ako na lang naiiwan na original staff ng office since we opened. HIndi naman sa stress ko na dapat umalis na din ako kasi wala na sila, it's just wala po ako makita pag aruga and appreciate nila.

Let me know sir if what else can I do.

Thank you again! Have a blessed day!

[CityHunter]

Hi muli, myjourney88.

Ha ha.  Believe me when I say I can relate to your experience.  Lalo na sa frustration to make people realize the truth - susmaryosep as just finished watching yun "Pied Piper."

There are 2 ways to solve this in truth.  Yun isa nga ay become like Anakin Skywalker (or that star anchorman sa Pied Piper) - use the dark side.  However, that is not a route that ends nicely even if you get the results you wanted. 

So let's approach this problem as that of a negotiator - again tulad naman ng bida sa Pied Piper (though I like viewing more the girl in action ).  As the first 2 na sabi ko i-absorb ninyo was from a leadership book ay magbigay rin ako something similar but on an older book.  Have you figured out ano ang strengths and weaknesses mo as well as that of these 2 bosses you have?  Sa Art of War na tayo kukuha ng lessons.  Learn about yourself and about your enemy so you can win a hundred battles ika nga.  To those who had readings and audits from me for sure you experienced this - its why as much as possible I either meditate or study your charts before any meetings.  This way I can help you better.  Iyan muna ang homework mo.  Figure out mga pros and cons as the clues are there.

Kung hirap ka how to achieve that ay ito muna sagutin mo: was there a time na nagkaroon kayo ng team dinner (or such) wherein real personal pains were shared?  There is a reason why this is so often seen sa mga Koreanovelas.  Be reminded lang na if one drinks ay make sure ay someone who did not ang magmaneho o have a taxi bring the subject(s) home.

FYI.  Sa mga weirded out ay this is still along the lines that I mentioned na pag-aralan mo yun opposing signs ng animal sign mo.