Paramdam Thing

[ekspirmento]

Was it common or usual thing na a girl and a guy would tell our each others whereabouts?
Say Ingatz to each other?
Remind each other to eat (lunch, snack, dinner)?
Have does sweet goodnight nothings before going to sleep?
And always do the paramdam thing (paramdam ka ha)?

Just confuse lang kung friends lang ito or kung one level up or walang label.



PS: wag naman violent reactions hehe ^_^

[dismembered]

Unless may umamin, well, friends lang yan.

[j.adore]

It's a start but yes, don't assume anything unless may magsabi

[Girltalker2]

^ magsabi ng ano?

I love you? Gusto Kita? I like you?

Kahit pa may umamin or what, they don't mean anything. Unless malinaw na pag uusap - serious sya na gusto ka nya maging GF Kasi he loves you, and wil remain truthful. Iyan. May meaning na iyan.

Otherwise, all these pakiramdam or whatever you call it can just go away in a day.

[TomHansen]

Hindi siya common unless type ka nung tao. Type doesn't mean like or love ha., just mean for him/her you're special..

[dismembered]

^ magsabi ng ano?

I love you? Gusto Kita? I like you?

Kahit pa may umamin or what, they don't mean anything. Unless malinaw na pag uusap - serious sya na gusto ka nya maging GF Kasi he loves you, and wil remain truthful. Iyan. May meaning na iyan.

Otherwise, all these pakiramdam or whatever you call it can just go away in a day.

Kahit naman serious na magsabi na he loves you and will remain truthful pwede pa rin mawala in a day But hey.. hindi lahat ng lalake manloloko. At least he's doing something. Next step is for him is to say what's the meaning of everything he's doing. Dun ka lang magiging sure kung ano plan nya sayo.

[mysterioza_me]

Never ever assume. Yun lang!

[cruxito]

Was it common or usual thing na a girl and a guy would tell our each others whereabouts?
Say Ingatz to each other?
Remind each other to eat (lunch, snack, dinner)?
Have does sweet goodnight nothings before going to sleep?
And always do the paramdam thing (paramdam ka ha)?

Just confuse lang kung friends lang ito or kung one level up or walang label.



PS: wag naman violent reactions hehe ^_^

may mali ba sa magkaibigan kapag ganyan? normal lang yan I guess...

[mysterioza_me]

For me normal lang yan lalo na if close kayo ng guy. Basta hangga't walang direct na sinasabi never assume. Sa panahon na to hindi porque nagparamdam, sweet or may nangyari na sa inyo automatic na kayo na. Dapat may malinaw na usapan pa rin.

[Girltalker2]

Kahit naman serious na magsabi na he loves you and will remain truthful pwede pa rin mawala in a day But hey.. hindi lahat ng lalake manloloko. At least he's doing something. Next step is for him is to say what's the meaning of everything he's doing. Dun ka lang magiging sure kung ano plan nya sayo.

Kapag may malinaw na usapan, you can technically 'look' for him kasi you know your place.

Otherwise, kung pareho kay TS ang situation, better not assume kasi he can go missing anytime. And you won't be in a position to look for him, or ask him why because he doesn't owe you an explanation for anything.

[fornarina]

Madami kasi ganyan paramdam, whick leads us girls confused tapos aasa. But i guess we have to go through those types of guys just to make us realize what we truly want. Herre's a quote na might help.

"He may still love you. He probably does. He probably doesn’t know what he wants. He probably still thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.”
― Eliza Engellenner

I super love this quote 😉

[red_yesha]

^I love the quote too.
Very well said. We should keep that in our mind.

[amazingheart]

Madami kasi ganyan paramdam, whick leads us girls confused tapos aasa. But i guess we have to go through those types of guys just to make us realize what we truly want. Herre's a quote na might help.

"He may still love you. He probably does. He probably doesn’t know what he wants. He probably still thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.”
― Eliza Engellenner

I super love this quote 😉

Super like. 

[reighnyielle]

^^^ I also love that quote!  Every girl needs to live by that

[three8one]

saan ba sinasabi yan? thru text, viber, any mobile apps na pwede makipag communicate? kung puro jan lang sinasabi, wag ka maniwala dun nang eechos lang yun.

 

[dell]

react sa threadstarter...

yan ay uri ng expression of feelings

nagiging spontaneous lang kayo kaso hinde naman ata nakaka high yan - I mean wag nyo pilitin baka maging panget ang ending

try to strike a natural conversation, yun lang... ang hirap no?! = )

[iam_me]

we don't know yun real reason or feeling ng guy don't assume mas mahirap pag umasa na hindi pala yun ang ibig nyang sabihin sa actions nya.

[graezieylicious]

Sometimes guys are bored and just want to flirt. So do the same. He gets thrilled with that. Dont lay all the cards.

[jtansanco]

Maybe he's attracted to you... Trying to get hints how you'd react...

I only do those if I "like" the girl and find her attractive.
I never do it to anyone who I don't see as a "potential".

[piatos]

my guy friend told me that yung mga pa-fall daw wag iwasan kasi kung hindi ka naman type hindi yan magpaparamdam pero wag lang daw aasa kasi baka maya may magustuhang iba haha