Paramdam Thing

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

May "something" kelangan lang may mag initiate for the next level. Regular friends even best friends don't do that. Yung ireremind kang kumain. I suggest antay ka lang, kasi if he's really into you sya ang kikilos para lumevel-up kayo, unless siguro kung oa sa torpe or may malalim na friendship na at risk.

[chichi143]

May "something" kelangan lang may mag initiate for the next level. Regular friends even best friends don't do that. Yung ireremind kang kumain. I suggest antay ka lang, kasi if he's really into you sya ang kikilos para lumevel-up kayo, unless siguro kung oa sa torpe or may malalim na friendship na at risk.

kami may malalim na friendship na... tapos biglang nag-iba ng hangin. kaya daw sia di nagparamdam ng 2-3 months kasi daw gusto niya makasiguro na gusto niya ba ako or what. tapos at the same time, nagkabalikan sila ng ex niya. now bumalik siya telling me why he disappeared and that wala na naman daw sila nung ex niya at wala na daw future yon.

what the hell. now ako yung naaning. tapos naawkward... dati walang issue if ako mauna magtext or tumawag.. ugh!

[Girltalker2]

^ lesson learned iyan. Kaya ok lang friends kayo, going out. Pero hanggang doon lang. Bilang babae, it is also your obligation not to allow your feelings to develop (more than how he feels for you) para maprotektahan mo ang sarili mo. Kasi Kung matapat ka sa ganyang lalaki who cannot make up his mind, Ikaw ang masasaktan sa huli.

Kahit pa say may feelings ka parin sa kanya nung balikan ka nya, how can u trust him na desedido na sya? Unlike if wala ka Masyado nararamdaman for him sa start palang, kahit ilan Pang GF's daanan nya Tapos bumalik sayo, ok Lang bumalik man o hindi. Tapos tsaka mo na isipin if worthy sya para I-allow mo Ma develop feelings mo. 

[chichi143]

sis, that's exactly what I plan to do. plus, right now sa mata ko guy bestfriend lang talaga siya... so kung hindi siya makamake-up ng mind niya bahala siya pero di ko naman siya iintayin.

I can still be friends with him though.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Was it common or usual thing na a girl and a guy would tell our each others whereabouts?
Say Ingatz to each other?
Remind each other to eat (lunch, snack, dinner)?
Have does sweet goodnight nothings before going to sleep?
And always do the paramdam thing (paramdam ka ha)?

Just confuse lang kung friends lang ito or kung one level up or walang label.



PS: wag naman violent reactions hehe ^_^

saan ba sinasabi yan? thru text, viber, any mobile apps na pwede makipag communicate? kung puro jan lang sinasabi, wag ka maniwala dun nang eechos lang yun.

 

idk if it's just me, pero para sa akin jeje siya? haha. natuturn off ako sa mga ganyang lalaki.
though to answer your question, your regular guy friend wont be texting you "lunch na" naman di ba. but as said by others, unless otherwise acted upon, like ligawan ka ng matino, magpakilala sa magulang mo, well it just means that the guy got lots of time to spare and is just looking for something to fill up that time.

[lesters_gal]

I met this guy lastweek. I really like him. After our first date nagtetext naman sha although hindi everyday. He didn't ask me yet for a second date, so hinahayaan ko lang siya. Hindi rin ako nauuna magtext sa kanya. Although gustong gusto ko siya pero ayoko ipakita sa kanya na he's the man of my dreams.😂😂 ayoko umasa kasi he's gwapo and rich. I'm sure maraming girls ang nagkakandarapa sa kanya. Kaya ako chill lang. Kahit sa mga text namin hindi ko pinapahalata na super kinikilig ako. Casual talk lang. Hindi ako pa sweet sa kanya.   Tama yung isang sis natin dito na hanggang walang sinasabi never assume, kasi kung talagang gusto nila tayo they will do something about it at kikilos talaga sila para makuha nila tayo.😊 dapat US girls maging attentive sa mga guy na pa fall. Mahirap mabroken hearted. 😅😂

[ohcmon]

^ Naku, most guys nowadays ganyan naman ang style eh. When I first started dating around, super affected ako sa mga ganyan, as in 'yung tipong super decode nang text, nagbibilang nang oras bago siya magreply, big deal mga simpleng sinasabi niya...

Ngayon, wapakels kung mag text o hindi after the date. Hindi rin ako 'yung tipong abangers ng text or 'pag nag-aya lumabas, game agad, tapos never ako nag-iinitiate ng contact. No expectations talaga kahit gaano ko pa ka-like si guy, though syempre hindi naman 'yung sobrang waley na baka ma-feel nila na uninterested ako. Subtle landi lang hahahaha.

It also maybe helps that I see several guys kaya divided ang attention ko, lol!

[cindy_rella]

Otherwise, kung pareho kay TS ang situation, better not assume kasi he can go missing anytime. And you won't be in a position to look for him, or ask him why because he doesn't owe you an explanation for anything.


This!It happened to me, TS, Do not assume.Masasaktan ka lang.

[candacena]

my guy friend told me that yung mga pa-fall daw wag iwasan kasi kung hindi ka naman type hindi yan magpaparamdam pero wag lang daw aasa kasi baka maya may magustuhang iba haha

he's a je*k..... kidding!



I also like this one guy, pero hindi ako nagkakandarapa sa kanya. haha, baka pa-fall eh. eh ano naman masasabi niyo girls sa saying na "dapat gumagawa din ng paraan ang girls" para makilala si guy. hehe. ang hirap kaya masaktan! thread na to ng mga babae ah. hindi na lalaki. lol!

[Girltalker2]

^ yeah! Thread nanga Ito ng he said/she said!

IMO, puede naman gumawa ng paraan ang girl to get to know the guy she is interested in. Pero ang stand ko dyan, don't fall for him YET!

There's nothing wrong to get to know him. Pero point ko, since you're still single naman, there's nothing wrong to get to know THEM. Huwag mo i-limit sa Isa kasi get to know lang naman, friends lang naman at marami ka din matututunan about yourself - what you like and don't like. Yung guy na gusto mo Baka eventually you won't like din dahil in getting to know him, puedeng may character sya na ayaw mo.

So if you're single, no harm done in shopping around. But just be mindful to protect your heart by not falling easily to anyone.

Then when should you allow to fall? Almost never siguro unless sure ka he is falling in love with you narin, serious sya sayo and you're sure that you're the only one in his heart.

[maku a]

tanungin mo agad baka mabait lang siya. hehe