Would you rather be broken up with or be cheated on?

[reighnyielle]

In my case, I'd rather be broken up with than be cheated on kasi I do think maloloka ako once I find out that my significant other is cheating on me with another girl. Parang yung feeling na that I'm not good enough will consume me kasi the fact that she is seeing other girls means that I wasn't able to fully give him the satisfaction that he is looking for in a relationship. That's just my pov. How about you ladies?

[honey.mae]

i don't like people cheating on me, they don't need to i'll let them go even if it hurts, also, yung mga dahilan na pareho kayong mahal, etc, i find it silly and crappy, yes, pwede siguro na magustuhan mo yung 2 tao at the same time pero merong mas gusto mo, don't be so selfish at piliin mo yung mas gusto mo at pakawalan mo yung isa.

also, if someone cheated on you, you will feel depressed and yung self esteem mo sobrang maaapektuhan, plus magkakaroon ka pa malamang ng trust issues which is really not good.

[honeybunny]

i'd rather be single than be cheated on. i know what i am worth and what i am capable of. so if he isnt seeing that, then i dont deserve him. i dont need to prove anything to anyone just so they will stay faithful with me. if they think wala sa akin ang hinahanap nila, then wala din sakanila ang hinahanap ko.

cheating is a choice. and dont blame yourself if u got cheated on. they didnt cheat on you because merong kulang sayo, they cheated on you because they think they can get away with it. and/or they wanna prove something to themselves.

i'd rather be single, (maybe be broken), than be miserable in someone else's arms.

life is too short to live a miserable life.

[reighnyielle]

i'd rather be single, (maybe be broken), than be miserable in someone else's arms.

I'm kinda in the mood to say this out loud with conviction lol 

[simang]

I don't think anyone wants to be cheated on.

[jeninajenina]

I always tell bf na if opt to cheat on me. let me go instead.

I was once cheated on. syempre masakit. I tried to work my way through. kala ko kasi madali igain yung trust ulit. hindi pala.

I feel insecure. pag hindi ko siya kasama naiisip ko kasama niya siya and I constantly compete and try to be better than her. turns out wala rin naman silbe yung pinagagawa ko.

I'd rather have a painful break up na may closure kesa naman habol ako ng habol sa tao na di naman nakuntento sakin.

[reighnyielle]

I'd rather have a painful break up na may closure kesa naman habol ako ng habol sa tao na di naman nakuntento sakin.

Preach!

[purple.strawberry]

E kaso di ba madalas when a guy breaks up with you meron ng iba yan? Haha.

[reighnyielle]

I want my significant other to be honest with me. I want him to tell me straight to my face that he's starting to like someone or he's seeing someone new. I'd rather be hurt with the truth sa una palang than be deceived that there's nothing going on when in fact meron.

[introvertpixie]

sana hiwalayan na lang ako agad kesa lokohin pa ko

[cornflakegirl]

  i would rather have him leave me
i don't like philandering partners nakakapraning iyon

[reighnyielle]

^ Same here sis. Parang mas okay  na yung alam mong tapos na kayo kesa naman kayo pa nga but you have doubts if he is faithful or not

[TomHansen]

Broken up with, ibagn klaseng pain na kasi kapag may kasama pang cheating.

[huggykaye]

it is just right to do the former.. no one deserves to be cheated on...

[douxmadchen]

Maybe back then, with my childish thinking, I would have preferred to be cheated on para magalit na lang ako and get over him quickly, tapos na-realize ko na parang mas masakit ata yun. So now that I know better, I believe I deserve some respect, so I'd rather have him give me the harsh truth and break up with me instead of having a total backstabbing bastard around.   

[zarazan]

What if broken up with dahil may nakitang "potential". Though hindi pinagsabay. Do you girls consider this cheating?

[honeybunny]

^what do u mean "potential"? ano status nyo ng isang girl?

[layladesilva]

broken up with, of course!

[TomHansen]

^ I think nakipagbreak si ex para makapanligaw ng ibang babae na may potential siyang sagutin..

What if broken up with dahil may nakitang "potential". Though hindi pinagsabay. Do you girls consider this cheating?

Still cheating zarazan kahit hindi pinagsabay because bago pa kayo naghiwalay may "intentions" na siya sa ibang girl.. If ganun ang isang lalaki then please never ever take him back..

[akosimaiatot]

well for me CHEATING is a big word , this maybe physically or emotionally, but the mere fact that you think about having another relationship aside from your husband/wife or gf/bf is considered cheating and I'd rather be broken knowing the truth than whole but fed up with lies