Would you rather be broken up with or be cheated on?

[honeybunny]

^^so if hindi sya sinagot ni "potential", balik sya sayo? pang back-up ka? if that's the case, then no. dun na lang sya, at hindi lang sya ang lalake sa mundo.

my simple rule is, kung the other person is gonna do the same thing to you, and u know for sure that you wouldnt like it, then it means it is not a good idea.

also, if you're not gonna do it when your SO is around, then dont do it. also means na it is not a good idea.

[sensi]

broken up with.... i mean say it to my face then to lie that am the only one...

[deiz]

Broken up with. Isa to sa mga deal breakers ko when it comes to relationships. The other 2 are drug users and those na mahilig manakit, physical or verbal.
Sa akin kasi, there is no need to prolong the agony. Nagsasayang lang kayo ng oras kung mag-stay pa kayo sa relationship so it's much better kung break na lang kung hindi na masaya.

[djctapalla23]

I have experienced being cheated upon, syempre todo deny si ex kahit ang dami na ebidensya. Left him for good anyway. Pansin ko rin na sa relationships ko, ako lagi ang nang-iiwan/umaalis/nakikipaghiwalay. Wala lang.

[agape]

Breaking up is fine, pero sana wala pang kapalit agad. Usually kasi meron ng bago agad ang BF kaya malakas ang loob makipag break up. If that's the case, I still consider that cheating, he already had an emotional affair with someone habang kami pa. In other words, third party pa rin ang reason ng break-up and not because something was wrong with the initial GF.

Violence/abuse is the number one deal breaker for me.

[kvandenhaak]

Neither but if I have to choose, I'd rather be broken up with. At least he is honest and with that saying, I can still be friends with him. Cheating is totally different situation. That's an insult!

[triciaaamaldita]

i break nalang ako no. 

[TomHansen]

^ e di ikaw na lang makipaghiwalay?

[plumpolka]

dati sabi ko, mas gusto ko na lokohin na lang ako. at least i got someone to blame kung bakit nasira relationship ko. nung naloko na ako, mas maganda parin pala na break-an ka na lang kahit wala kang sisisihin na ibang tao, hindi naman nasira yung perspective mo sa loyalty, fidelity & honesty. ngayon, kahit may bf ako, i still think na walang forever at lagi akong may fear na lolokohin lang din ako kaya in a way, i only half-love na lang. di ko ata kaya ibigay yung buong pagmamahal ko ngayon.