Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[simang]

^kung once or twice lang, wala lang yun. Pero kung madalas and consistent naman over a period of time, i guess that's dating siguro.

[kvandenhaak]

^^I guess, you just have to ask why you are going out for a movie? What's the intention? Also, pag me akbayan at holding hands then it is clearly not a friendly date. 

[TomHansen]

@simang, twice pa lang pero we have plans na para sa mga susunod na lakad. nag-eenjoy naman akong kasama siya and she said ganon din siya.

@kvandenhaak, because pareho kaming addict manuod ng movies and we both feel mas masaya may kasama. i'm want to get to know her more ganon din siguro siya - matagal na kasi kaming online friends pero kelan lang nagkita. wala namang akbayan or holding hands, meron lang times na pinapalo niya ko lol..

thanks!

[junetwentythree]

Dating is usually performed with a possibility of it turning into a serious relationship

With that said, without labeling anything, just see where this goes with this girl first @TomHansen. Take it slow, spend time with her, enjoy the company. Perhaps there's already slight flirtation with her touching you...maybe indicates a level of comfort. But we can't really assume anything right now. Just wait and see

[j.adore]

Basta 2 lang kayo, it's a date. But dating is when you're confirmed to go the romantic route.
Di ba meron date with my mom, friend, cousin etc?

Yung palo definitely means being comfortable with you pero not necessarily may feelings o binabalak yun lol.

[orxnji]

There's this guy who said he has a crush on me (he didn't say it to me directly but to a common friend).
What does it mean if he gave you something (again, not directly to me but he gave it to that common friend) but didn't make any effort in getting to know you like approaching you days after so you guys could get acquainted or ask for my # from that common friend if he's shy to talk to me personally?

Well, after following the advice of my friends to at least be friends with him by saying hi to him the next time we see each other, he and I are friends now, sort of. But I'm just curious why he waited for me to make the first move and break the ice and why he still hasn't asked for my number til now. Is he just shy or did he just lose interest?

[red_yesha]

^one thing na natutunan ko dito sa thread e kapag gusto ka talaga ng guy sasabihin nya yun sayo, ipaparamdam nya at gagawa sya ng move.
Ienjoy mo muna ang mga sandali.
Haysss ka inspired lol

[junetwentythree]

^^ How old are you guys??!

I got a buddy whose super sprung on this chick that he met on Tinder. First off, he decided his first date with her would be a Broadway show -- at $250 a pop. So he's thrown down $500 bucks without having met this girl yet! Secondly, she's yet to agree to meet up in person, nor speak on the phone. They chat via some game chat all day, everyday. He claims that she'll message him even if he doesn't. But then why not meet up? Also, at some point after he had bought the tickets, she somehow falls out of a van and sprains her ankle. Making things even more suspicious because now she has even more of an excuse not to meet up. But damn... what's going through my buddy's head??? There's no amount of me and our other buddy telling him that he might be getting played. Feel bad for the fella.

And then there's my other buddy. Who actually has a girl he's been dating for nearly half a year now. But he's getting restless. Not that he wants to stray and date other chicks but because he contends that he's ultimately not really the type to be in a relationship. In any relationship. He says he's perfectly happy alone and will be for the rest of his life. According to him, he's made his intentions (or lack thereof I guess) clear to the girl he's dating but in the meantime, he's seemingly just stringing her along.

It's interesting how the mind of some men works these days.

[orxnji]

I'm in my mid-20s and I don't know how old he is. We've had a few small chats when we bump into each other but never really exchanged personal infos even our names. We work in the same place but we don't work for the same company. Just in thr same building.

Well, I'm pretty swamped with work and don't have time to date but I'm not closing doors so I thought it would be better to be friends with him at least for the time being and get to know him first before jumping into any relationship instead of just shutting him out of my life. But he's sending me mixed signals and I don't know if he's really interested or baka paasa lang.

[dismembered]

^ sakyan mo lang. Huwag kang umasa since hindi ka din naman sure sa gusto mong mangyari, right?

[jtansanco]

^^ HAHA! If I hadn't exposed myself to the western culture, I see myself as this type of guy. The guy who can't make the first and "hanggang tingin lang"-type. Anyway, if you have time to chit-chat, make the move of getting to know him so he can build his confidence and muster the strength to ask for your number. So cute...

[patchuchai]

Question po, can a guy survive without sex for five years?

[orxnji]

Not related to my situation. I'm asking out of curiosity. How do you guys feel or what do you do when a girl you're courting entertains another suitor?

[TomHansen]

^ i'll take it as a sign na hindi siya interesado sa akin so titigil na lang ako..

^^ depende kung bakit ba ayaw ni girl makipagsex? Religion? LDR?

@j.adore, di ko rin pala pwedeng sabihing we're dating kasi hindi pa naman daw siya ready. hangout hangout lang kami.. thanks!



 

[j.adore]

Yes

Question po, can a guy survive without sex for five years?

[kvandenhaak]

Question po, can a guy survive without sex for five years?

Yes, they can. Me kilala akong ganyan. Ang tanungin natin, how long sila nakakatagal ng walang jakol? LOL!

[patchuchai]

Hi, what do you mean nakakatagal ng walang jakol?

[jtansanco]

^ There are times that guys have an urge to release (masturbate). It becomes tempting especially when we wake up because of the "morning wood".

Question po, can a guy survive without sex for five years?

Yes, I know lots of guys who are even virgin at my age (28).

Not related to my situation. I'm asking out of curiosity. How do you guys feel or what do you do when a girl you're courting entertains another suitor?

I move on knowing that I am already here but she decided to look for another guy. Kinda feel bad but all it takes is for one girl to like me. If it's not her, then it's someone else.

[badw33d]

Question po, can a guy survive without sex for five years?

hmmmm.... good question :-) i wouldn't :-)

Not related to my situation. I'm asking out of curiosity. How do you guys feel or what do you do when a girl you're courting entertains another suitor?

okay lang, we're in the courting stage, so let it be. :-) oh that means we can also court another girl while courting that girl hehe

[carmilina]

Bakit Napaka BS ng mga lalake?

Wala na talaga bang lalake na Marino?