Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[carmilina]

*matino

[simang]

^carmilina, I've posted this before in one of the threads here, post ko na din dito as my answer to your question.

"the problem isn't that you are attracted to wrong men.you are attracted to men, some of them will be wrong and that's not surprising. the real issue is how much time you are investing in these men, hoping that they'd suddenly become 'right'. in the grand scheme of things, 95% of men are going to be the  wrong men, and you're never going to stop attracting them. what you are going to do differently is to stop accepting them. stop accepting unacceptable treatment and justifying it because you 'love' him. stop spinning your wheels, waiting by the phone, walking on eggshells in fear he'll dump you. stop investing your emotions in men who refuse to give you the love, security, and consistency that you deserve. in short, the problem is that YOU DON'T ATTRACT THE WRONG MEN, YOU ACCEPT THEM."

[badw33d]

Bakit Napaka BS ng mga lalake?

Wala na talaga bang lalake na Marino?

well, this goes 50/50 pointing to lalaki and babae :-) so to solve the problem, like what ^simang posted, just don't accept them to avoid them.

[jtansanco]

Bakit Napaka BS ng mga lalake?

Wala na talaga bang lalake na Marino?

Since your post generally offends all men, then let me answer you the way you want to be answered.

Your post is BS itself that's why you attract men who treat you like crap.

How are we suppose to give you a piece of advice with a post like that???

[kvandenhaak]

^Naghihinga lang siguro ng sama ng loob. But it's true though that you attract guys that you entertain. Kasi hindi ka naman nila pwedeng pilitin. And I am once guilty of that. Moral of the story is that don't enter or continue with a relationship thinking you can change the man. It's not gonna happen. Katulad ng mga nababasa ko sa ibang threads, kita na yung philandering tendencies tapos magpapakasal pa. And they expect that their men miraculously turn into something else when they got married. Lapitin ba kamo ng babae? Hindi yan magiging lapitin kung hindi ini-entertain ang lumalapit. Di ko alam if it also feeds a woman's ego if their men are chicks magnet. Gising gising din pag may time!

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Bakit Napaka BS ng mga lalake?

Wala na talaga bang lalake na Marino?

I guess ganyan talaga ang buhay, not men in particular but people in general. Some are good, some are not. Just chip the lesson you learned in to experience

[jtansanco]

^^ I can't really comment on her issue. I'm not gonna assume anything because her post doesn't even specify what her problem is. We can go on and on about it and make several posts but there's no point if we don't even know what the issue is.

[chinablue]

Sabi nga sa novel na The Perks Of Being A Wallflower, we accept the love we think we deserve. Kung alam mo namang you deserve so much better, don't take bs from guys.

On topic: bakit may mga guys na makulet? Yung tipong ilang beses mo na seen zone pero panay pa din pagmemessage? As in tanong pa kung bakit di namamansin? Hindi pa ba obvious na pag seen zone palagi means the girl is not interested?

[j.adore]

Because some girls can be pursued with persistence 😊

[argento]

On topic: bakit may mga guys na makulet? Yung tipong ilang beses mo na seen zone pero panay pa din pagmemessage?

hindi sya makulet. di mo lang type.

[mysterioza_me]

Bakit Napaka BS ng mga lalake?

Wala na talaga bang lalake na Marino?

I don't believe na wala ng lalake na matino. My dad is a loving husband and father, same with my bro na ang daming na-sacrafice ma-save lang ang relationship niya sa mother ng anak niya pero BS talaga yung girl (yes may mga girls din na BS). Nakatapat na din ako ng BS na lalake pero naniniwala pa din ako na may matino pa ding guys somewhere out there like my current boyfie.

hindi sya makulet. di mo lang type.

Agree ako sa sinabi mo bro. Kasi kung type ni girl si guy for sure nagkikisay na sa kilig yun or nabugbog niya na yung katabi niya sa sobrang kilig dahil lang sa message ni guy.

[ashonlush]

On topic: bakit may mga guys na makulet? Yung tipong ilang beses mo na seen zone pero panay pa din pagmemessage? As in tanong pa kung bakit di namamansin? Hindi pa ba obvious na pag seen zone palagi means the girl is not interested?

May mga girls din naman diba na ganyan? Kung nakukulitan ka sis, why not block him nalang? And if you're NOT really interested, baket mo pa kelangan i-SEEN yung message nya na yun? Pwede naman matic ignore nalang eh LOL. Wala ng basa-basa.

[Tootsie31]

Bakit sinasabi ng guy na marami syang girls na chin-chat, para magselos yung girl or para sabihing hindi special sa kanya si girl?

[TomHansen]

^ para hindi ka mabigla once nagcheat na siya sayo..

[simang]

Bakit sinasabi ng guy na marami syang girls na chin-chat, para magselos yung girl or para sabihing hindi special sa kanya si girl?

Sinasabi nyang madami syang china-char na girls kase madami syang china-chat na girls. Yun lang yun, wag masyado mag isip

[three8one]

Bakit sinasabi ng guy na marami syang girls na chin-chat, para magselos yung girl or para sabihing hindi special sa kanya si girl?

kasi siguro mayabang yung guy na yun. chos!

kung ikaw yung girl na sinabihan pwedeng tinitest lang nya kung paano ka mag rereact dun.

[iam_me]

Bakit sinasabi ng guy na marami syang girls na chin-chat, para magselos yung girl or para sabihing hindi special sa kanya si girl?

depende sa status nyo kung friends kayo nagyayabang lang sya , if may something sa inyo at least ininform ka nya na madami syang ka chat para hindi maging issue sa inyo if ever 

[chinablue]

Because some girls can be pursued with persistence 😊

let's see hanggang saan ang persistence niya, hehe.

hindi sya makulet. di mo lang type.

tama, hahaha. ewan ko ba. kung tutuusin cute siya, chinito type, kaso wala talaga eh. haha

Agree ako sa sinabi mo bro. Kasi kung type ni girl si guy for sure nagkikisay na sa kilig yun or nabugbog niya na yung katabi niya sa sobrang kilig dahil lang sa message ni guy.

haha it's been ages since I last felt this kilig thing. nafrozen na ata ako.

May mga girls din naman diba na ganyan? Kung nakukulitan ka sis, why not block him nalang? And if you're NOT really interested, baket mo pa kelangan i-SEEN yung message nya na yun? Pwede naman matic ignore nalang eh LOL. Wala ng basa-basa.

kasi feeling ko pag lagi ko lang SEEN yung message niya he'll get the drift that I'm not interested. wag naman block kasi ang harsh nun. haha. high school classmate and seatmate ko siya from way back and he used to lend me VCDs noon. mabait naman siya and ok siyang friend. itry ko nga yang suggestion mo. 

Bakit sinasabi ng guy na marami syang girls na chin-chat, para magselos yung girl or para sabihing hindi special sa kanya si girl?

agree that it depends sa status ninyong dalawa. pwedeng inuunahan ka na din niya para wag ka na umasa. lol or para informed ka na mahaba ang pila. hehe.

[Evolet027]

^sounds like you still like him... NO NO NO... you still love him. you don't want to tell your husband coz he might do something to him right? why protect this ex? i don't get the point.

i honestly dont understand myself.

[kvandenhaak]

Once the relationship is over, do you guys still want to communicate regularly with the girl or do you prefer to stay away assuming it ended well?