Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[artificialstar]

What if you and your friend(your officemate na kilala mo na ng 1 year) likes the same girl? Would you give way to your friend and let him pursue her? If so, paano kung ni-decline ni girl yung friend mo and secretly ikaw pala yung gusto ni girl, would you pursue her some other time then? I'm sorry, sana nag-make sense yung question ko.

[badw33d]

^ so this is a new set of Q right? hehe.

Am i in a relationship? hehe ... say I'm in a relationship, then i wouldn't be interested anyway. Say I'm not in a relationship, i will not give way (then again, it depends). If girl likes me instead of my friend... then.. yeah i'll go for it. :-) its a guy's thing.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^thank you! baka interested ka sa kanya reto ko siya sayo. hehe! once ko pa lang siya nakasama and mabait naman siya. may mga na me-meet siya pero parang few dates lang tapos nawawala na yung guy.

Yun oh! Good catch yang si bro dismembered haha.

[dismembered]

Yun oh! Good catch yang si bro dismembered haha.

You're back. Kamusta?

What if you and your friend(your officemate na kilala mo na ng 1 year) likes the same girl? Would you give way to your friend and let him pursue her? If so, paano kung ni-decline ni girl yung friend mo and secretly ikaw pala yung gusto ni girl, would you pursue her some other time then? I'm sorry, sana nag-make sense yung question ko.

Depende. Dapat i consoder ang bro code. If single naman then pumayag si friend eh walang prob. In the end dapat may peace ka sa ginagawa mo or else laging bitbitin yan..

Nalagay na ako sa ganitong situation before. Ang dapat mong iconsider... If nabaliktad naman ang situation namin, ano naman kaya ang gagawin ni friend? Pag alam ko na sagot, dun ko i base ang next move ko. As long as wag lang talagang magmumukhang nang ahas or what... Besides kung friend ka talaga malamang i vouch ka pa.. Kanino mo gusto mapunta ang pinakamamahal mo if not sayo? Eh di sa trusted friend na lang.

[TomHansen]

@artificialstar, depende kung sino nauna nagsabi na "crush/liligawan ko si artificialstar". If friend ko yung nauna then i'll give way. Now kung busted siya and i really like the girl i'll wait for a few months tapos i'll talk to my friend man to man na liligawan ko yung girl regardless kung type ako nung girl o hindi.

Also depende rin kung close ko yung friend ko pero kung hindi then ibang usapan na yan..

[artificialstar]

Thank you for your inputs, as usual, badw33d, dismembered and TomHansen. Very much appreciated. kilala ko yung guy na nagustuhan ko, he values his relationship with people, and may nakita akong signs na gumi-give way sya sa friend nya kase mas vocal yun. I just wanted to know kung may chance ligawan nya ako kung sakaling ma-basted ko yung friend nya. Haha. And you guys answered my question naman.

^ @TomHansen, pag di kayo close, gora na kaagad? Hehe!

[TomHansen]

^ haha tama pala na na ikaw yung tinutukoy mo. Yes basta di ko close or di ko laging kasama yung guy. Sana nga ligawan ka niya kapag binasted mo yung isa.

[three8one]

^^ bastedin mo na yung isa para malaman mo na as soon as possible yung tanong mo na kung liigawan ka din ba nun nagugustuhan mo. tutal wala naman na siguro pagasa yung friend ng type mo tama ba? unless, gusto mo rin testingin kung may chemistry din kayo?

 

[badw33d]

Thank you for your inputs, as usual, badw33d, dismembered and TomHansen. Very much appreciated. kilala ko yung guy na nagustuhan ko, he values his relationship with people, and may nakita akong signs na gumi-give way sya sa friend nya kase mas vocal yun. I just wanted to know kung may chance ligawan nya ako kung sakaling ma-basted ko yung friend nya. Haha. And you guys answered my question naman.

^ @TomHansen, pag di kayo close, gora na kaagad? Hehe!

bad girl hahaha, but yeah, time to rip.

[artificialstar]

^^^ @TomHansen: Galing mo manghula

^^ @three8one: Hmm, medyo harsh, pero wala eh...

^ @badw33d: Wahahaha, oo medyo bad. Pero ayoko din naman lokohin sarili ko at tsaka yung friend nya

[badw33d]

^or... be frank about things :-) that makes life easier.

[j.adore]

Is it normal for guys to look at porn without doing a "selfie"? And what does it mean kung laging isang porn star lang binabrowse?

[dismembered]

^ Sa panahon ngayon.... naglipana ang click baits. Mga ads leading you to porn sites etc... Baka na curious lang and nag click then tried panoorin. So yeah. Normal lang naman.

[badw33d]

Is it normal for guys to look at porn without doing a "selfie"? And what does it mean kung laging isang porn star lang binabrowse?

from how you stated it, yes it's alright not to do a selfie. maybe the guy just likes to watch, see things, and etc. sometimes it's healthy for the partner to join the guy in watching porn too. My wife and I does it, and we usually end up laughing.

[j.adore]

dismembered, I see. Ang assumption ko kasi sa click bait eh dapat iba iba yung porn sites.

badw33d, yes ganon din nangyari with my husband lol.


So how about intentionally looking for the same porn star every time? Parang favorite pag ganon?

[badw33d]

^yeah, usually it could be his favourite porn star for the time being hahaha. Its healthy, a simple view is all good.

[patchuchai]

Hi! I dont know where to post this question. My bf is 60 and im in 40s. He used to be married with grown up kids and apo na sya. First time namin magkasama sa room, he started hugging and kissing me sa forehead and ang kamay medyo gumagala na, so i told him ur scaring me, so he stopped and said kiss and hug lang. We spent the night like that. Then morning sabi niya kung ibang lalaki yan napuwersa kana, pero mahal kita ginalang ko gusto mo. Guys meron pabang ganito?

[dismembered]

^ Hindi naman unique yan. You should not be impressed. By default merong respect dapat lahat ng tao. Yun ang standard. Kung ipinilit nya ang gusto nya, ibig sabihin sub standard sya. A no is a no. Kung pinuwersa ka nya, pwede sya kasuhan ng rape.

[TomHansen]

Is it normal for guys to look at porn without doing a "selfie"? And what does it mean kung laging isang porn star lang binabrowse?

I think it's normal hindi lang common(mahirap kayang ma-blueballs).. Maaaring manunuod lang siya without doing a selfie if he just want to learn something new(positions/techniques) from the vid. Or pinanuod niya lang kasi scandal/viral.. Or crush niya yung girl and unfortunately sa porn niya lang pwedeng makita si babae..

[TomHansen]

@patchuchai, oo meron pa namang ganyang lalaki lalo 1st night niyo together. Sa mga susunod na gabi pa na magkasama kayo ulit dun mo na malalaman kung gaano siya katagal makakatiis or kung magbabago ba siya.