Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[bizarrelove]

@badw33d what do you mean?

[badw33d]

^ boy will try that kind of conversation again. and he'll keep trying till you really show yours too. :-)

[artificialstar]

What does it mean if ang guy(Guy A) binabasa yung chat nyo with his friend(Guy B)? Pareho kong friends yung dalawa, ka-chatmates ko din. From what I see, parang close silang dalawa. Etong si Guy B kase lagi nag-co-compliment saken. Although na appreciate ko, hindi ko pinapahalata. Guy A slipped his tongue and mentioned to me na nabasa nya yung mga chat namin ni Guy B. Pinag-ti-trippan lang ba nila ako? Akala ko pa naman gusto nila makipag-friends saken genuinely.

[TomHansen]

^ Di ko ma-gets kung bakit nila ginagawa yun since private conversation yun(kahit close pa sila). Hirap ipaliwanag, ok lang siguro kung pag-usapan ka nila dahil friends mo sila pareho pero yung ipabasa yung chat niyo not cool sis, di gentleman..

[jtansanco]

^^ Guy A is jealous because he likes Guy B. HAHA. Honestly, I can't explain as well. That is so weird. Maybe Guy B has a crush on you and he asked his best friend, Guy A, what his thoughts about the way you two exchange conversation.

[amethyst028]

guys what do you think of this girl. she's super pretty, rich, sexy (she does pole dancing) so maganda talaga ang katawan, smart (taking masters degree), grew up in the states just came back here sa philippines few years ago. as in kung titignan mo nasa kanya na lahat pero may 1 flaw siya. she has b.o. (bad odor). can you get past that?

gusto ko sana siya ireto sa brother ko kasi same age sila and both single but i don't know kung pwede ma overlook yung ganon. i thought she has that smell kasi super napawisan lang siya pero nung nakaligo na siya and we were seated together in the van may b.o. pa din. maybe part of the reason is she doesn't drink lots of water. lagi pa naman siya naka sleeveless. gross ba yun for you guys?

[dismembered]

^ Nobody's perfect. Lahat naman may flaw. I think yung nakakatuluyan natin is yung willing tanggapin ang mga flaws natin. In your brother's case, pwede mo naman i-try then see if kaya naman nya overlook yung flaw. Besides, yung sense of smell naman natin is subjective. May mga taong hindi maganda ang pangamoy sa isang bagay, na maganda naman para sa iba or hindi naman masama. Try and try lang. Mga bagay na yan I think is superficial at minor lang. Mas maging worried ka kung ang babae ay kilalang gold digger, play girl or etc...

[badw33d]

guys what do you think of this girls. she's super pretty, rich, sexy (she does pole dancing) so maganda talaga ang katawan, smart (taking masters degree), grew up in the states just came back here sa philippines few years ago. as in kung titignan mo nasa kanya na lahat pero may 1 flaw siya. she has b.o. (bad odor). can you get past that?

gusto ko sana siya ireto sa brother ko kasi same age sila and both single but i don't know kung pwede ma overlook yung ganon. i thought she has that smell kasi super napawisan lang siya pero nung nakaligo na siya and we were seated together in the van may b.o. pa din. maybe part of the reason is she doesn't drink lots of water. lagi pa naman siya naka sleeveless. gross ba yun for you guys?

i think a flaw is for everyone, but bad odor can be cured or prevented. if she's making an effort, then its good, if not then thats not a flaw coz she's choosing to ignore it.

[amethyst028]

kung kayo yung guy would you go date her? @dismembered and @badw33d?

i also had 1 guy na i think bagay sa kanya pero i was hesitant to set her up because of that. some guys kasi very particular sila sa smell. i know for a fact na sa akin turn off yung b.o. ok lang kung napawisan tapos may amoy kasi normal yun pero kung naligo na as in kakatapos lang maligo tapos may bad smell na  agad. kaloka naman.

[dismembered]

^ Not an issue. Lalo na sa description mo mukhang overshadowed ang flaw nya based sa credentials nya. Yun nga lang. Personally, parang mas ok sa akin yung mukhang mabango kahit hindi naman mabango, kesa sa kahit mabango pero mukha naman mabaho. Saka minor lang yan. Pwede naman ma-solve yan. Baka lang sadyang normal lang yung ganung smell sa pinanggalingan nya kaya hindi issue sa kanila unlike sa atin.

[amethyst028]

^thank you! baka interested ka sa kanya reto ko siya sayo. hehe! once ko pa lang siya nakasama and mabait naman siya. may mga na me-meet siya pero parang few dates lang tapos nawawala na yung guy.

[dell]

makisali lang po...

seryoso, anong klaseng amoy?

I know somebody na nagkaroon ng bad odor sa katawan --- yung amoy kargador / karpintero

kung yan ang amoy I think it is more on what she wears, baka kailangan lang i-Lysol, yung blue na liquid or I'm thinking may liver issue or kidney issue sya(any experienced doctors in the house?)

yung somebody na kakilala are both females and I swear they smell the same.

[dismembered]

^thank you! baka interested ka sa kanya reto ko siya sayo. hehe! once ko pa lang siya nakasama and mabait naman siya. may mga na me-meet siya pero parang few dates lang tapos nawawala na yung guy.

Haha. Pwede din! Pero ang awkward naman. I-reto mo sya sa akin, pero nasabi ba nya na naghahanap ba sya? O baka naman hindi sya naghahanap. Ang paghahanap ng partner, parang naghahanap din ng trabaho. Walang perfect na job... pero may mga job na fit naman sayo.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

^Well said bro, feeling ko naman madaling hanapan ng solution ang BO, ang mahirap eh yung ipaalam sa kanya na may BO sya without hurting her feelings, baka kasi hindi sya aware.

[amethyst028]

^^yes naghahanap siya. I think active siya sa online dating kasi wala naman ata siya na me-meet sa work. Well pm me kung interested ka and i'll see first kung match kayo ha like sa age, etc. i'll try playing cupid for once. Hehe!

[badw33d]

kung kayo yung guy would you go date her? @dismembered and @badw33d?

i also had 1 guy na i think bagay sa kanya pero i was hesitant to set her up because of that. some guys kasi very particular sila sa smell. i know for a fact na sa akin turn off yung b.o. ok lang kung napawisan tapos may amoy kasi normal yun pero kung naligo na as in kakatapos lang maligo tapos may bad smell na  agad. kaloka naman.

I  will, so I can experience for myself :-) then again, if its a hygiene thing, then that's about it.

[j.adore]

Guys, how normal is it for the groom-to-be to have sex with one or more of the paid women in his stag party? Like ilan out of the x number you've attended or heard of?

[ashonlush]

There's one guy na everytime nalang na nagkakaroon kame ng contact, pinipilit nya ako na itreat ko siya. Of course, di ako pumapayag, kasi gusto ko rin itreat nya ako.  Since last year pa ito, pero hindi matuloy-tuloy yung usapan because of me. Busy kuno ang lola. Nasabihan ko kasi sya na itext ko nalang siya. Nalaman ko, hinihintay pala nya na sabihan ko siya, kasi sa akin na raw nanggaling na sabihan ko siya kung kelan ako libre. Nagtampo at sinabihan ako na wala naman daw ako time.

Just yesterday, since it's his birthday. I greeted him on FB thru PM ang nangantsaw na itreat nya ako since bday naman nya. Binabaliktad naman nya at siya raw ang ilibre ko. Same scenario nanaman. Hindi ako pumayag. Then, biglang sabi "Madaya ka ****. minsan mo lang ako maidadate sa buhay mo oh.. "

So, does it mean he really wants a date with me? 

Siya rin yun guy na nagtanong sa akin last month na kung gusto ko raw ba mag trek and sama daw ako minsan sa kanya.

[jtansanco]

^ YEAH! He's so into you but you keep on rejecting him. I think the proper question is, do you like him? If so, why don't you actually go out with him? It's only one date. Nothing wrong with that.

^^ That's such a tough question. Some guys will probably have sex, some guys won't. In my opinion, it's just wrong to have sex. I mean, come on. A bachelor's party doesn't give a guy a free pass to have sex with anyone besides his wife-to-be. The ones I know of, guys would pay girls for their company but no sexual interactions would occur.

[badw33d]

Guys, how normal is it for the groom-to-be to have sex with one or more of the paid women in his stag party? Like ilan out of the x number you've attended or heard of?

1/10.

all i know is, this depends on his friends in the party. But this is clearly our choice. During my time, since the girls are game on, I asked then my friends to enjoy.