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Author Topic: If someone deleted you from his/her FB Friends List, what would you feel and why  (Read 23655 times)

killbill

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One time nag away kami ng ate ko, tapos after ilang days napansin ko di ko na sya friend sa FB. Deadma lang. Tapos a few days after inadd ako uli. Toinks!

Pag ganun hindi ko na iniintindi eh, kung ayaw eh di wag.

brendzy

  • Guest
Kung di naman kami superfriends keri lang, pero kung naging close naman kami once in our lives, then i could ask the person kahit pabiro lang. Before nag-a-unfriend din ako lalo na mga nega / super rants post, pero salamat ngayon meron na UNFOLLOW button, at least we are still friends sa FB but I can filter what I want to see on my News feed.  ;D

Nastygal

  • Guest
i don't care...

theshopaholicprincess

  • Guest
to TS if close friend, yes magtataka ako bakit ako dinelete, I must have done something para eliminate nya ako sa friends list nya pero for the rest of FB "friends" I don't care. Mas pinadali nga nila buhay ko kasi sila na nag delete sakin. Honestly I am also doing the same weeding out process pero mas madalas yung hide nalang ng newsfeed especially for annoying nonsense people. Besides seldom din ako mag open ng FB pag may free time lang ako.

chelsea1212

  • Guest
I've had the same experience. College friend ko, super close kami before, in fact abay ko sa kasal and ninang ako ng anak nya. Kaya nakakapagtaka na ginawa nya yun. Well actually, ginawa din pala nya sa dalawang close friends namin kaya hindi ganun ka-heavy ang impact that time. Nung na-notice namin na niremove nya kami sa list nya, lahat kami nagtry na tanungin siya via text,fb pm, viber etc pero walang reply and ayaw din sumagot sa tawag. Sobrang clueless kami of the reason behind her doing it, pero nagsawa na din kami magreach out and manghula kaya we just let it go. I'm speculating though na baka yung husband nya ang may gustong gawin yun since may pagka-anti social ang peg ng kuya mo.

pinklilac

  • Guest
Hindi ako nag a unfriend.same sa isang sis natin.nilalagay ko sa "restricted" ang hindi ko feel para hindi ako maka offend.
pag super nega naman ang posts, unfollow naman ang katapat.

miss resilient

  • Guest
if i unfriend ako keber! di ko kawalan ano... >:(

marami na akong inunfriend at naunfriend na rin ako a lot of times.

ako ang reason ko kaya ko ina unfriend pag lagi nagpaparinig sa posts na paawa effect atsaka yung inoobliga niya mga ka fb niya na tulungan siya.

pag may nakasamaan din ng loob ina unfriend ko. mga fairweather friends ni rerestrict zone ko lang sila.

kvandenhaak

  • Guest
I don't even know who deleted me in their list, kung meron man. And frankly, I don't care...LOL! Mas maigi na yung i-delete ako kesa yung mga plastic na ilalagay ka as "Restricted".

kit kat

  • Guest
If friends kami na nagkaroon ng tampuhan, I will get hurt. Pero nowadays kasi parang common ng ireremove ka kung hindi naman kayo magkakilala or nagkasama lang once. I do that, too. Tsaka yung mga hindi ko nakakausap or pag kakamustahin/chika seen ka lang. Ano pang sense ng connected kami dun hindi naman namamansin. Pati mga too much negative vibes ang pinopost. Mas gusto ko pa mang-unfriend kesa mang-unfollow lalo hindi ko naman kaclose.

I remember I unfriended this person and then minessage ako after to ask why ano daw ginawa niya. I don't have anything against that person naman pero last convo namin a year go pa tapos yung huling message is from me na that person didn't bother to reply to. Ayun unfriend.

mimiku

  • Guest
I had been deleted as well - one is by an officemate (receptionist siya) so I figured out siguro feel lang niyang di talaga kami close. Although, we had a lot of friendly interaction and chats when she was working in the company. What did I feel- well honestly a bit disappointed and curious. Though that was years back when I was active in FB. Siguro kung nangyari yun ngayon, I won't feel a thing. Lol.

The second one, which brought a mixture of curiosity, disappointment and a tad bit of hurt was the guy whom I was smitten with na nanligaw sa akin. It just so happen that because he was a player, I did not pursue the ligawan interaction. So when he got a new gf, after 2 months he unfriended me. Mega stalk pa kasi ako sa profile niya. I don't know, men don't usually delete friends and then I figured out denelete ako siguro ng gf niya. Kasi possessive si girl. Anyway, I got over it eventually. Hahaha.

aclaneasyon26

  • Guest
If di kami close, usually matagal bago ko mapansin na we're not friends sa Facebook anymore. Keri lang naman.

If close kami, I'd feel offended. But then isipin ko na lang na, if it's going to be therapeutic for her or him, go lang.

pandalicious

  • Guest
Dedma lang, hindi din naman ako madalas mag-fb. And yearly nag-uunfriend talaga ko, yung mga once ko lang na-meet tapos hindi ko na uli nakausap, yung mga hindi ko talaga kilala personally, mga highschool batchmate na hindi ko naman naging classmate.
And minsan hindi din naman ikaw ang rason bakit ka na-delete, i have a cousin na lahat dinelete niya, may pinagdadaanan pala, and it seems therapeutic yung ginawa niya para sa sarili niya.

mimiku

  • Guest
I just deleted 6 from my friend list. They are just mere acquaintance. They don't interact nor like or comment on my feed so what's the point of keeping them. I am rooting for deleting someone who doesn't reply to my messages. Nababastusan ako pag ganun. However, he is from HR kasi and in the near future baka maaplayan ko kung saan siya nagwowork. Hahaha.

twelvth_goddess

  • Guest
Honestly, I regularly delete people from my friend list especially if I can't remember them anymore.

One of my sisters in law deleted us from her friends list when she separated with her husband (brother of my hubby). Few days after, she tried adding us again claiming somebody accessed her account daw and deleted us. I didn't even realize she unfriended me cus I don't follow her. But the excuse was too pathetic, so I told her, she doesn't get to unfriend me on a whim then add me back when she's in a better mood.

amethyst028

  • Guest
i don't know kung may mag de-delete sakin. if meron man ok lang iyan fb lang naman iyan.
meron ako na experience na alam ko friend ko na siya sa fb matagal na tapos nagpapa-add ulit. i don't know if he deleted mo or it's his second account. hindi ko na inaccept.

barbillie

  • Guest
I unfriended all my exes, including their close friends (na hindi ko naman masyadong close).

If ako naman ang iuunfriend, una, kung close kami, magtatampo ako. Kung hindi naman kami nag-away, bakit kelangan iunfriend.

Kung di ko naman masyadong close, keribels lang kahit iunfriend ako.

young_maiden

  • Guest
Deadma lang. FB lang iyan. Hindi siya kawalan sa fb ko. Saka may mga times din naman na nag-unfriend din ako so quits lang.

Meron ako schoolmate noong HS na friend ko sa fb kahit di kami close in real life. Panay post niya about his law school life to the point na madami na nayayabangan sa kanya. Ako naman deadma lang. FB niya yun so he has the right to post what he wants to post. Later on nalaman ko na lang na di na kami friends sa fb. Malamang ni-unfriend niya ako. Hindi ko na inalam kung bakit kasi wala naman akong paki.

Tapos nung lumabas na bar results last month at nalaman kong pasado ako, aba ang bakla ni-add ako ulit. I accepted his request. He PMed. Congrats daw. LOL. I know naman na kaya niya ako ni-add ulit dahil syempre sa mundo ng mga law students at lawyers, dapat marami ka connections. So naisip niya siguro makakabuti for him na kaibiganin ako. Well, ako naman di ako basta basta magpapagamit lang. Ano yun? I-unfriend mo ako ng basta basta tapos add mo ako dahil may kailangan ka? No way. After a few days, I unfriended him. :)

Kiiismet

  • Guest
Wala pa naman ata nag-unfriend sakin. Or hindi ko lang alam. Hahaha. Kadalasan ako nag uunfriend e.

shinies

  • Guest
Curious tapos bahala sila. Ayaw eh di wag.

nocturnalnerd

  • Guest
One time dinelete ako sa friendlist ng ex-officemate and friend na girl ng bf ko, I felt offended kasi chinachat at tinetext nya pa rin ang bf ko, like "what the hell is your problem with me" wala naman akong ginagawa, I confronted her and she gave me some shitty excuse. haha. Ayon in the end naaway ko ang bf ko, pero kinlaro nya naman sa akin na friends lang sila at walang something sa kanila. Also, feeling ko naman she got the message kasi bnlock ko sya. hahaha

 

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