If someone deleted you from his/her FB Friends List, what would you feel and why

[yn061515]

Hindi ko pa naman naexperience madelete as friend pero knowing myself, I would definitely feel offended. Hindi naman to the extent na i-pm ko pa to know why or to fight with the person, but I would definitely take it personally. Halos lahat kasi ng friends ko ay family and close acquaintance kaya may effect sa akin pag inunfriend ako, haha! 

[missyA]

I'll just ignore it.. ako din naman i unfriend some friends na medyo hindi ko feel ang mga posts or mga hindi ko masyadong kilala.

[super bratinella]

Last 3 years ago I un followed close friends  as in ninang ng anak ko, when we are still co workers super close kami and wala akong masamang tinapay sa kanila as in I love them so much more than sisters, then one day nag resign sila and ako na lang natira sa company then one of my ex-friends pumunta ng states, so ok nag pa despidida I am there, naka alis na I have a feeling may own chat group sila na wala ako pero that is fine, so I just unfollow them then nasabi sa akin na nakauwi pa la ang isang ex-friend ko at nag kita kita sila so hindi ako na invite, which is fine I respect that, then I notice why just un follow  when I can unfriend them na, I am not even interested with their lives as much as they are not interested in mine, at hindi ko na rin sila tinuturing kumare burado na sila sa listahan ng ninang ng mga anak ko..*insert horomonal imbalance here*...

So I unfriend them and I feel better and ok now. Step 1 to journey of letting them go in my life.

[xtine]

If they are somebody that I value, iisipin ko glitch lang sa FB, if di ko naman mashado close and i am never interested, ok lang naman.

[twelvth_goddess]

One of my co-workers' wife deleted me on her husband's FB. I just found out cus he apologized to me at work which I found weird since I completely didn't mind if we're friends or not. Apparently, his wife was quite bothered that he's been 'liking' my pictures and posts. I recently found out that she tried to send me an FB message to ask why her husband has been liking my posts. Since we're  not friends, her message got stuck on my message request that I barely even check. Honestly lang ah, what will you reply to someone who asks "Tanong ko lang po, bakit like ng like yung husband ko sa mga posts nyo?". Napaka jej, I swear.

[kvandenhaak]

^I will say something like, "Ah really? Hindi ko napansin. Eh si mister mo ang tanungin mo kasi sya ang nag-like. And I think you need a heart to heart talk. Mukhang me trust issues sa inyong dalawa. Ayokong makisawsaw sa issues nyo!"

[MoonshineLady]

if its a close friend of mine who deleted me mejo mabobother ako. pero i dont know if i will ask him/her why she deleted me pero most probably i will ask. if its not someone im close to deadma lang.

[yannuh]

If she/he is someone close to me then masa-sad ako but if not, dedma lang

[charmed_gal]

what if your ex deleted you on fb?

[mimiku]

^My ex deleted me a few weeks after we broke up. The things is he was the one who cheated and broke up with me. I forgot how I felt back then since it was so long time ago. I probably was shock, angry and sad but then after a few years, I saw a quote like this "If an ex blocks you (in my case delete hahaha) you win. Implications - he's more bitter than you. Makes sense.

Anyway, what annoys me the most is when people follow me on instagram then block or unfollow me afterwards. I mean WTF is wrong with my posts- ganun lagi ang nasa isip ko. Eh puro food and baby ko lang andoon. I consider kasi my IG as more personal- hindi ako masyadong active sa FB and super konti lang inaapprove ko na followers sa  IG ko. Petty din minsan ako magisip hahaha. Kaya ginagawa ko inuunfollow ko sila sa IG and delete then on FB. If you don't want to see my posts it means you don't want any connection. So I say MU tayo- delete, delete, delete lang din ang katapat nila.

[shinies]

Kung close kami, kaya ko tanungin ano nangyari  Pag hindi kami close, di ko mapapansin kasi halos tingin lang ako ng most recent feeds.

Ok lang sa akin walang ex sa FB kasi wala naman na ako mapapala sa kanila eh Yung mga ex o kahit nga yung nakadate ko na masyado friendly at mahilig mangamusta, tinanggal ko na. Respeto sa partner ko di na dapat nagmamaintain ng relasyon sa mga ganon.

Anyway, what annoys me the most is when people follow me on instagram then block or unfollow me afterwards. I mean WTF is wrong with my posts- ganun lagi ang nasa isip ko. Eh puro food and baby ko lang andoon. I consider kasi my IG as more personal- hindi ako masyadong active sa FB and super konti lang inaapprove ko na followers sa  IG ko. Petty din minsan ako magisip hahaha. Kaya ginagawa ko inuunfollow ko sila sa IG and delete then on FB. If you don't want to see my posts it means you don't want any connection. So I say MU tayo- delete, delete, delete lang din ang katapat nila.

Baka ako ito? Hahaha Add tapos tignan kung ok ang mga post. Unfollow pag di ko type content.
Sa IG kasi, wala ka choice pag nagbrowse ng feed kumpara sa FB na pwede friends pa din pero may control sa feed.

Food - Tingin ko lahat naman ok sa pagtingin ng pagkain pwera na lang kung kadiri yung presentation hehe

Baby - Depende ito sa tao..
Para sa akin, kung puro ito laman ng IG, gawa na lang ng IG account nung bata para mas restricted at kung sino talaga gusto makakita.
Tapos ayaw ko din nung mga kadiri baby posts na madumi sila lagi tignan o ang dumi nung paligid o kaya pinapakita pa mga wastes
Pag over din sa post mga every ilang minutes ayaw ko

Petty nga siya sis hehe parang gantihan blues pero malamang mga hindi yan ka-close?
Hindi ba stressful din yung alamin mo pa sino mga ganyan tapos tanggalan sa socmed?

[HAYLEELOVE]

^Actually gawain ko din yun parang kay Mimiku. That's the point andaming ayaw ng tao kasi so kung ikaw may preference ka si Mimiku meron din. Ikaw ayw mo sa mga ibang bagay bagay. Eh siya ayaw niya yung unfollow unfollow na yan. She is actually giving them a favor kung inalis na sila sa FB. For all we know baka nga unfollow din siya sa ibang social media.

[mimiku]

Baka ako ito? Hahaha Add tapos tignan kung ok ang mga post. Unfollow pag di ko type content.
Sa IG kasi, wala ka choice pag nagbrowse ng feed kumpara sa FB na pwede friends pa din pero may control sa feed.

Food - Tingin ko lahat naman ok sa pagtingin ng pagkain pwera na lang kung kadiri yung presentation hehe

Baby - Depende ito sa tao..
Para sa akin, kung puro ito laman ng IG, gawa na lang ng IG account nung bata para mas restricted at kung sino talaga gusto makakita.
Tapos ayaw ko din nung mga kadiri baby posts na madumi sila lagi tignan o ang dumi nung paligid o kaya pinapakita pa mga wastes
Pag over din sa post mga every ilang minutes ayaw ko

Petty nga siya sis hehe parang gantihan blues pero malamang mga hindi yan ka-close?
Hindi ba stressful din yung alamin mo pa sino mga ganyan tapos tanggalan sa socmed?

Lahat naman tayo may pettiness even you may preference ka din sa mga posts ng iba. You said you unfollow people kung di nila nameet preferences mo.Like I said konti lang ang mga inaallow kong followers sa IG. Even on FB. Same with Hayleelove, if they unfollow me it means they are not interested or worst inis sila sa posts ko so what's the point? Make sense di ba? Baka maging secret hater ko pa sila kasi. Ang tao kasi may ibat ibang pet peeves yan. There's even a thread here titled Pet Peeves sa FB I think and you'll be amazed how many different things annoy people on Facebook. I sometimes share pa kasi may posts sa FB. Laman lang ng FB ko Family, Baby and Food. I would not create another account para sa baby ko (hindi naman siya artista hahaha) since bihira din naman akong magpost like sometimes once every week and I would not just because someone is annoyed that I post my baby pics on my account.  So all the same. And no it's not stressful kasi konti lang naman sila. Just click and delete. I also unfollow people (like mga blogger na sikat, artists- pero these are just random impersonal accounts kasi) pero never mga kaclose or relatives unless they unfollow me. 

[HAYLEELOVE]

I remember an issue I had with my BF's sister. Mas type kasi niya dati yung ex ni BF, I know that for a fact. So she followed me on IG and added me on FB, and then nagpopost siya ng parinig na quotes on me like blood is thicker than water, mga ganung patama. As in, nakakairita gustong gusto ko na siyang inunfollow at idelete sa FB ko. Hindi kasi ako makapost ng gusto ko knowing that somewhere out there my hater and lurker ako. Hahaha. Di naman ko siya maunfollow kasi syempre bago pa lang kami ni BF parang ayaw ko magkaissue. So I was on the point na talagang every wishing well nagwiwish ako na sana inunfollow na niya ako. LOL. What I did noong di na ako makatiis was to create another account.Damn! Social media nowadays, daming effect talaga sa tao. Hahaha!

Anyway, ok na kami ngayon. Narealize niya na hindi naman ako mahadera or what.

I agree kay Mimiku. Ganun ginagawa ko. Obviously the person does not want to see anything about you, might as well make it mutual. Hahaha. Hirap kasi minsan maging totoo sa mga posts mo kung alam mo meron kang friend or follower na naiirita sayo. May pagkapeople pleaser pa naman ako kasi. Now, limited na talaga IG and FB ko. Some friends, officemates, relatives and super close friends na lang andoon. Remember those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

Matatawa ako, I might have annoyed him/her big time. I'm am very annoying if try to be one.

[plumpolka]

ako i-unfriend ako nung guy friend ko. inask ko sya pero in a funny way, yun pala gf nya ang naghhandle ng fb nya. e before kasi crush ako ni guy friend at pic namin yung ginagawa nyang profile picture.


pero i also deleted/unfriended a lot. yung mga hindi ko naman talaga pala kilala. But i deleted someone, my bf's sister-in-law. fina-follow pala nya ako sa ig. i decided to delete her kasi i followed her pero never nya inapprove. Bff din kasi sila nung ex ni bf. sister she never had nga daw ang drama nilang dalawa. so i just deleted her on my ig kasi unfair naman na she gets to see my life and i dont. di ko din masabi kasi kung anong intention nya kasi she doesn't want to accept my request din naman.

[chiqmom]

if the person is important to me then I will definitely get hurt pero kung hindi, kebs lang. 

[twelvth_goddess]

I honestly don't mind if they unfriend me. People have their own choices and if they choose to get rid of me for an undisclosed reason, it's alright. I'll live. What's not ok is when they add me again after unfriending me. Sorry but that's not happening. I refuse to be connected with people based on their moods or disposition.

I have friends who unfriended me because of some beliefs that I stand firmly with. And that's alright too. I would rather have friends I can healthily argue with from time to time than people who can't respect differences and my choice to agree to disagree with them.

With unfollowing, wala din ako care. I like posting selfies and my family's pic from time to time. Some people can't take it and that's alright too. I unfollow people A LOT.  Doesn't mean we're not friends or I hate them.

[xsugar]

I'm fine with this. Kasi ako nag unfriend and unfollow din ako sa mga taong nag add sken pero in reality di kami close, ni hindi nga kami nag uusap after he/she added me and vice versa. Ang dami ding friend request sken pero bihira ako mag approve, reason ko is di ko sila close talaga noon so what more now? Hindi sa mataray or suplada or mapili ako, pero kasi dati if mag classmate, schoolmate or workmate or friend sya ng friend ko eh hindi na tayo nag uusap what's the use of being friend sa fb or ig? If snooping lang, ay naku mas lalong ayoko. I have friends in FB na ganito ang reason on adding some of their fb friends, decision nila yun so wala akong paki dun Pag may meet up kami, ang dami nilang kwento sa ibang kakilala namin

Minsan i apply din kasi yung 'kung ayaw sken, ayoko din"

[Miss Granger]

I will not mind! Hahaha. Who cares, lol.

if the person is important to me then I 'll wonder siguro but won't ask! Haha, if not so important deadma!

^sis twelvth, nakakatawa yang story mo about your gf ng officemate mo. Seriously? tapos nag attempt pa i message. Omg, hahaha!