Facebook and your ex

[djctapalla23]

Did you unfriend your ex sa fb?

If wala pa FB nung naging kayo, ininvite ka ba nya or ininvite mo sya as friend sa fb?

How about in laws like sil and bil? Ni retain nyo ba friendship with them o hindi narin?

Pa share lang how people generally dealt with their exes and exes family and friends pag dating sa cyberspace.

Thanks!

Yes I did. Blocked them pa. There were two of them who made another account just so they can follow me. Don't know why exactly.
My fiance's siblings are my friends & I shun the idea of unfriending them. However in the case of my exBFs' mom & siblings, unfriend & block pa.

[honey.mae]

wala akong ex na naging friend ko sa fb haha but I know they fb accounts so sometimes I checked it to see kung ano na nangyari sa kanila lol

will i send them an invite, nope.

[prettydefined]

Yung ex ko before my hubby hindi pa maka- move on until now. Hindi kami friends sa fb. Kahit family nya. Masyado sila nasaktan sa break up namin. Lalo na her mom kase gustong gusto ako ng mom nya / family nya. I tried adding them, kase for me wala na talaga din. And okay na ako, pero sobra pa din daw sila in pain sabi ng sister ni ex sakin. Yung bunsong babae sya ang friend ko nga pala sa fb. So naintinidihan ko naman. Kung ako, okay na. Sila hindi pa.

[pinklilac]

Hindi kame fb friends ni ex..
yung niece nya nag send ng friend request but di ko ni accept then nag pm na dedma ko daw siya.
still, di ko pa rin add.
Nong pinutol ko relasyon namin ni ex, lahat ng tao na related s kanya gusto dedmabels na rin

[kdesigner08]

Guys I'm just wondering if its a good idea to add my Ex's Ex-Gf sa facebook? Me and my Ex broke up 4 months ago. And I just found out that my Ex added his Ex-gf on facebook recently (it really hurts my ego) Ano sa tingin nyo reason why my ex added his ex? i'm still affected with our break up until now. Anyway I'm the one who initiated it after a year of being together. (for his mahilig sa babae behaviour, and I'm fed up with his lies kya i decided na to end it na and just walk away)

Nung kame pa there's a time na nahuhuli ko siya na nag uusap sila ng ex nia sa viber. I confronted him But he said kung nagkakausap man sila they are not really in good terms daw kasi it leads to argument lang after. To make long story short wala kasi sila naging closure ng ex nia before naging kme. So dami tanong sa mind ko bakit inadd ng ex ko si ex gf nia sa facebook? She accepted the invitation for his friend request but I found out that She deleted him again. (oh di ba ang stalker lang ng peg ko, sorry for that) Feeling ko may something pa rin si ex ko sa ex niya eh or they feel mutual. Di ko tuloy alam kung is it a good idea to add her on facebook to know my hinala. I know I sounds weird. Please help.   

[silver_crescent]

Hi sis! Naffeel ko yang frustrations mo ngayon. Anyway share ko lang my two cents about your problem.

Inadd ko rin yung ex girlfriend ng boyfriend ko non. You know, for information gathering about their current situation, kung may feelings pa sila for each other. But I ended up comparing myself with her and her memories with bf and his family. Ilang stressful months ang dinulot nun sakin to the extent na nagpaadvise din ako dito sa GT about it. 

Honestly, I think na your exbf and his ex eh may unresolved issues pa with them and baka may feelings involved pa rin. It was a bit unfair na nadamay ka nila but tapos na, anjan ka na sa sitwasyon eh. So let us think about the consequences in adding her up.

If you add her up, pedeng di ka nya iaccept lalo na kung kilala ka nya as the now-exgf of her ex. So this may add into your frustrations sa kanila.
If i-accept ka nya and makikita mo how they interact with each other, maffrustrate ka ulit sa mga malalaman mo.
But if you don't add her up, your curiousity will eat you and maffrustrate ka pa rin. Unless you're willing to let it all go.

So it's up to you to decide kung san ka less maffrustrate sis. 

[j.adore]

Walk away and never look back. He's into women and lies to you. There's nothing good for you in that relationship.

Based on your story, it's obvious there's unfinished business between them. Hindi kaya you were the rebound girl?

Don't bother adding his ex in FB and just move on.

[huggykaye]

all i can say is stop picking up trash and start a new life...

[nessy]

eh how about ex's present girlfriend is adding you on fb? eto kase problema ko ngayon. di ko alam kung iconfirm ko or not. ayaw ko naman maging mukhang bitter kahet single pa ako ngayon.

[pinklilac]

^sis better na wag mo na I add tutal hindi.naman talaga kayo magkakilala.
Mas madali mag move on pag totally putol na connection.
Pag friends na kayo makikita mo.mga pics nila ni ex at baka ma hurt ka pa kahit konti

[j.adore]

I'm friends with my exes whom I have clean breakups but not with those who cheated, still wants to get back etc.

Don't add GF of your ex if you're not really friends. You both might end up comparing each other.

I experienced my then BF's ex adding me though and I did accept since I met her at a party and she seems nice. Kaso it annoyed me lalo the PMs with my partner to catch up and go out. It was causing trust issues so he blocked her and I restricted her.

[AlphaFemale]

I blocked my ex (1) and his siblings in FB because they were being bitter about our separation. I and my family can read their posts, It affected me so much before. One time my mom and bro told his younger sister to stop posting "if the shoe fits" posts. This b!tch sent me a message that she wasn't talking about me and that I shouldn't stick my nose where it isn't supposed to. I didn't have the chance to reply because she blocked me. G@g@ talaga! Sino pala yun pinaparinigan nila ng ate niya?

That was a long time ago. Now ex (1) is unblocked because we were able to talk things out for the sake of our son together. I also want him to be updated of our son's activities. His mom and brother sent me friend requests, I only accepted the mom's request. What I don't like about this woman is, she comments insensitive and sarcastic comments on my son's photos. Yun kunwari wala lang pero may laman. LOL! What do I do? I just take deep breaths and I would "like" her comments. Bahala siya sa buhay niya.

For Ex (2) I unfriended him when we broke up. He now has a family of his own and lives abroad. He recently sent me a friend request but I ignored it. I am not interested in being FB or real life friends with him.

[xia.sam]

Did you unfriend your ex sa fb?
-- no. dahil naka-move on na kami pareho sa isa't-isa at may kanya-kanya ng buhay.

How about in laws like sil and bil? Ni retain nyo ba friendship with them o hindi narin?
-- yes. wala rin naman akong issue sa kanila eh. friends pa rin sa fb.

[ninja8]

I strongly suggest NO. If your instincts tells you that something is indeed weird, yes it may be true but it doesnt make your situation any better right?

Yes I agree with @silver_crescent, it will give you gratification for a while but you will end up hungry for more and it will lead to frustation when you cant get the info about them na.

Time to give yourself Peace of Mind 

[purple.strawberry]

Para saan pa sis? Ikaw nakipagbreak and based sa kwento mo for a good reason. Let go mo na yang ex mo and wala naman kahahantungan yang pang-iistalk mo. If nalaman mong naging sila nga ulit, what satisfaction will it give you? If hindi naman sila malamang mag-aabang ka naman ng new girl na kinakausap niya sa facebook.

[nadine_hope]

It depends. With guys I'm sure I'm not going back to, I block him, his friends (not common) and relatives. It just helps make a clean break and makes moving on faster without all those triggers/reminders. And generally because I'm not interested in their lives anymore.

If I'm still hoping to get back together, I leave it as is. In the meantime, I work on myself. Get a new hairdo, upgrade my wardrobe, clean up my diet, start working out again, etc. I also go out and about in social events. I don't personally message, comment, like or directly get in touch with him through FB. I just basically document my new and exciting life without him for him, his friends and relatives to see. He'll be dumbfounded that I look hotter and happier without him. It will be sure to intrigue him and make him want to get back together. Worked for me. ;-)

[mimiku]

My ex unfriended me on FB. I unfriended his brothers. No communication for 6 long years.

[cybelekronos]

blocked him.

What you don't know,cannot hurt you.  better wala na lang ako alam about him.

[chinablue]

I unfriended my ex on FB. Did not visit his profile for a month. Tapos di ko kinaya, namimiss ko. Gusto ko makibalita sa kanya eh. So ayun I became a stalker. Pati FB ng fiancee nya, I visit too. Masokista din ako eh, haha. Pero habang nagtatagal, parang naiimmune na din ako sa pain. Just now I saw his fiancee post a pic of them together na may caption na "my love." Nilike ni ex pero walang comment. Maski sa profile niya nakalagay single pa din siya instead of engaged. 4 months na din mula nung huli kaming mag-usap. Gusto niya ko ikeep pero ayaw niya ko ipaglaban sa family niya. Nagsabi pa siya sa akin na ieengage na siya sa kalahi niya dahil tumatanda na daw siya at kailangan na niyang magkaanak. Sadista din siya eh. So I did what I think was the sensible thing to do. I cut all forms of communication. Hindi ko alam if he still miss me or kung may feelings pa siya for me or baka love na din niya si girl. Pero kahit ako pa naman ang love niya, wala din namang silbi yun. hindi naman ako ang gusto ng pamilya niya, hindi din naman ako ang pakakasalan.

Siguro nga different strokes for different folks. Hindi na din naman ganun kadalas ako magvisit sa FB nila dahil busy na din ako sa pagtatravel. Sana nga dumating yung time na wala na akong pakialam sa kanila totally.

[cybelekronos]

^ wow sis, hanga ko sayo, hindi ko kaya tignan to the point na ma immune, gusto ko maging ganyan na hehe, gusto ko na yung feelings na wala na ko mapi feel ng kahit ano pag nakita ko sila.

gusto ko nga icheck now fb nila, but alam ko naka hide na lahat sa timeline nya saka d kami friends sa new account ko, blocked na sya sa real account ko naman. last time nag check ako, naiyak lang ko sa lungkot, selos at inggit. same tayo, ikakasal na rin sya. dahil nag mamadali na rin sya, ayaw din sakin ng family nya.  walang yagbols si ex, hindi ako kaya ipaglaban, pero ayun mukhang masayang masaya naman sya sa fiancee nya saka natiis ako, one year no contact.