Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 18)

[CityHunter]

Hi, purple tips.

Walang standard level na maging basis kung one has helped too little or too much.  Each problem is actually unique.

Helping one means creating changes hindi lang sa karma ng tutulungan mo but equally sa iyo na tumutulong may it be directly or indirectly.  Do note that feng shui is about energy thus may energy transfer kahit indirect way ka tumulong.  Same applies if even indirectly may ginawa ka to someone or something. 

Sa question raised ay walang masama if you STOP helping someone kapag your gut instinct is telling you that that is the move you should do.  Hindi lahat ng tao kaya mo i-save.  Iyan ang turo sa akin and sa personal at professional experience ko.  There will be those who will need to suffer before they are enlightened.  Ito alam ko as isa ako that fell into this category.

Bad karma is what they say will happen kapag hindi ka na tumulong.  Pero bakit itong mga tinutulungan mo ayaw nila tulungan sarili nila?  That is already bad karma that you are fostering by continuing to help such.  Yun bad karma na sinasabi nila na mangyayari sa iyo who will refuse to help them anymore ay simply the effect of you accumulating so much negative energy absorbed from them as well as the negative energy they direct to you dahil sa katamaran nila to help themselves.  Its that simple.

Observe mo na lang what I do here.  Yes, I do freebie advise when I could be earning big bucks by having you folks seek this same advise as a paid service.  Iyan yun way kasi na maisip ko I can be of help to many agad.  HOWEVER, napapansin rin ninyo that kapag stubborn or simply want an easy way out of their predicament ay I stop until such time na ma-enlighten yun subject.  Does that earn me bad karma?  I've faced things you haven't even seen in your nightmares and survive them - in one fashion or another.  I am not rich but that may be because of the role I play in this world.  We are not blessed as some are here but we are happy kahit papaano. 

An example ng mga dapat magdusa bago sila dapat tulungan would be yun tenant ni mom-in-law noon.  Malas na nga sila sa buhay but the wifey wants to appear na hindi pa sila poor.  Ugali pala nila na ibitin yun rent payment to the point na mabwisit ka na lang at palayasin sila for free.  They have this habit too of going sa church group nila bringing goodies when their kids eats only instant noodles.  I did their charts for free giving them advise on what to do to counter yun malas happening sa buhay nila.  We even supplied the basic stuff they need to use and even provided the mantra guide para hindi sila mahirapan.  You know what - para kaming t**** ni wifey ko na kami gumagawa pa to prepare those things for them each day pero lalayasan lang.  Matindi na rin yun panloloko nila sa mom-in-law ko so we had to kick them out.  Mahilig pa mag-imbento ng kwento but when wifey gets mad hindi uubra mga katulad nila.

Then there is this doctor na ang mga desire ay sobrang makasarili.  As in gusto niya bata mapapangasawa niya na mayaman at siya ang i-beybi.  The way he treats his staff ay uber ewan.  Mahilig rin magyabang to the point nabwisit na ako at binara ko na.  Sabi ko kasi kay wifey tabla na kami as yun free PF niya for me then ay nilibre ko rin siya sa PF on my pro advise for him, his house and his office.  In fact dehado pa ako kung tutuusin but did not emphasize that to him. 

May mga tao rin ako whom I helped ng pro bono kasi merited naman.  I would even drop a paid request to help those of such as long as karapatdapat.  So far ay understanding naman yun mga nakakausap ko and I make it a point to make it up with them.  Ilan rin yun suicide wannabe cases ko that I have to rush to and happy ako at least those I have to call na postponed muna yun meeting namin for me to get to those in time ay agreeable naman.  Ha ha, as if they have a choice if they don't want to postpone it.

Maraming hindi naiintindihan ang karma.  They seek to approach it in a passive way.  Pero yun correcting those ay parang wala sa vocabulary nila.  Ito yun isa sa mga what I emphasize here.  You did wrong to someone and you realize that so seek forgiveness.  If you can't do that then go to confession and do try your best na huwag naman gawin muli.

True na yun tinutulungan mo minsan hindi lang abusive ay choosy pa.  Dito pinapakain mo na nga ng free ay mapili pa.  Kami nga gulay at isda more often - though admittedly mapili ako sa gulay - pero yun poor na pakainin mo o bigyan mo ng ulam gusto karne pa.  At kapag delata naman ibigay mo ay gusto branded pa.  Mga walang makain pero may pang toma o pambili ng load.  Mas maganda pa nga ang celfone than ours!

Then there are those na sabi ko noon may job openings sa munisipyo - well, naging habit yun kahit city hall na ngayon.  Gusto nila mga nasa office sila at ayaw sa field o simply some maintenance staff lang.  Wala naman credentials for what they want so paano mangyayari iyon! 

And then there are those who refuse to see what is already so obvious.  Na galit ang mga tao sa kanila due to their oppressive ways.  Na they treat people like robots or such.  Nakalimot where they came from or simply ignoring basic human ethics.  Napwesto lang sa higher position and they see themselves as gods.  Mas worse pa nga yun mga leeches around them as mas masahol pa at times.  And the worst of them ay yun mga pagkatapos ka gamitin ay pahirapan ka nila as you request to be given what is due to you.  Sa ganun ako really flared up and swerte lang nila for some reason I did not get to do what I wanted to do to them.  I guess kasi rin if I do that ay I will end up again sa dark road though at that time I really didn't care anymore.

So my advise is stand your ground with what decision you've come up with.  Just remember to cleanse and pray that those be enlightened.  Until such time they become so ay focus on helping others who do deserve to be helped and not those who choose to become burdens for others.

FYI.  I've refused helping even those who offers to pay me a big sum for my help.  Maybe yun loss of income from that but I know we can survive and meet our needs without compromising my principles.  If pera rin lang naman ang initiative ko to be in this role I should have done so in the first place and not now hindi ba.  I don't think I will survive all these weird things and experiences if I've chosen that route.


Hi, Gabjumz.

Yun disappearing objects true iyan kasi nga energy can be converted hindi ba.  An object can be transformed into something else.  Ito yun gawain ng mga baddies wherein target nila mga valuables, etc.  Para hindi na nila need magtrabaho.

Sa normal cases naman like what you experience ay mga naughty ones.  Sometimes pwede rin bad ones na more than simply naughty. 

He he.  Wait na lang ninyo once I finish the powerpoint presentation I am doing for this year's forecast.  Its taking a bit of time kasi matagal na nga ako hindi gumagawa of such and I want it to have a big impact to drive home the message.  By now you know I pointed out sa FB wall ko na its not going to be an easy year.  With the recent events pa lang its so obvious na.

And yes, 2016 will be too late for any na doon pa lang siya kikilos.  2015 is the time when one should prepare for what plans they want for 2016 - so obvious naman hindi ba.  Its no issue that you are coming home by then but just make sure you have something to use for a new start when you do so.


Hi, jncheng.

The answer to your question is actually a question - have you learned from those experiences?  Compromises and the need to adapt to the situation are the keys kasi for this year.

Hmm.  Yun backstabber type mahirap nga iyan.  This is where prayers come into great use.  If no choice but papasukin sa bahay mo then INVITE that subject to eat and/or drink with you BUT insist that prayers will need to be DONE PRIOR to the meal.  Or you can bless the food and/or drink with HEALING prayer.  Works just as well with no karmic repercussions pa.

[damsel.in.distress]

Hi Sir CH. Ask ko lang kung ano ang facebook page mo? I tried looking for it na sabi mo pikachu yung profile pic mo, kaso hindi ko talaga mahanap. Iba na ata? Hehe. Thanks!

[sweetsweet]

Hello Sir CH,

Thank you for all the helpful tips you have given us. May God bless you more this coming year.

Sir, last Christmas my older sister (who has better luck in life than everyone in the family) gave all of us female members of the family charm bracelets that she got from a temple in China. Kulay brown po Ito and it's called tiger's eye. I don't believe in such trinkets and won't buy one for myself if given a chance.

But since it's a gift I want to use it na din. They were advised daw not to use the bracelet in funerals, hospitals, cemetery, etc. I wear it when attending mass and I let it soak the sunlight when there's a chance. When I'm not using it I keep it in the box.

[damsel.in.distress]

Sir CH! Good day. Kwento ko lang po. Madalas ko po mapanaginipan na may humahabol sakin na gusto akong patayin. Pero lagi din naman po ako nakakaescape. Tas to scape, same road sa lahat ng dreams ko yung dinadaanan ko. My times nga na even sa mismong dream, parang inaanticipate ko na na yun yung dadaanan ko para makaescape and memorize ko na dahil alam ko na yun yung paulit ulit kong dinadaanan.  Ang weird lang. Ano po kaya ibig sabihin nun?

Naglagay na po ako ng red cloth between our bed frame and mattress pero nagkakabad dreams pa din ako paminsan minsan. I always pray din naman before going to sleep.

[akthung]

^^ hi sis gabjumz,

My sisters and I are have the same opinions as yours. Kaso tinatakot kami ng elders na it is better to give than kami ang mangailangan next time. Sabi kasi nila they have seen others who refused help and in the end sila ang nangailangan nang mas marami. Like my friend's mom na lagi nagagalit din sa tito niya na mahilig mangutang, lagi napapagalitan ang uncle niya kasi hindi din self reliant. My friend ended up worse, married a guy same as her uncle. Sabi niya karma sa nanay niya na lagi pinapagalitan ang uncle niya. Kami naman ok tumulong pero sana nag aral nang maayos yun tinutulungan. it's difficult for us kasi wala pa kaming sariling pamilya kaya sinasabi ng mga matatanda mag hinay hinay kami sa pag refuse baka sa amin mapunta yun "misfortune".

couldn't resist not replying

but you know these pinoy elders, grabe talaga. there are a lot of things i dislike in our culture
and this is one of them.

this is what i call the "boogie man/dirty old man" scare tactic -- "sige ka, if you don't follow, the dirty old man will get you"

the old ones, they know they're powerless (in general) so they use scare tactics. scare tactics that were used on them by their parents and grand parents. scare tactics that are loosely based on the law of karma. loose is a kind word pa nga kasi inaabuso nila.

although karmically speaking, merong mga karmic obligations ang tao like helping ones parents carries a heavier weight than helping a relative or a stranger.

but its not all fixed. may exceptions. and may limits.  so you better work on the understanding of karma so you can decide for yourself where and were you should stand.

may Dad was in the same position when he was younger. back then he only gave what he could afford to give without derailing his goals and a lot of times he wouldn't give.

he'd always say, "if i give all i have now, how can i give more in the future? i will go nowhere"

sure he got a lot of flak from his relatives and siblings. 20-30 years later. siya pa din ang inuutangan at lalo pa sila naghirap (with all due respect to them and the above)

in fact some of our relatives who really hit the floor claimed noon that they were closer to God etc etc.

bottom line is, people, specially the old and the old fashioned, will use these scare tactics to control you and get what they want.  and on the instance you stumble for reasons not related to them, they will seize the opportunity to pin it on you.

walk the middle way, show love and show tough love. too much is as lethal as too "less"
give what you can give but save some for your selves so you can give much more in the future, for yourself and for others. 

[CityHunter]

Hi, damsel in distress.

Sent you a PM for that request of yours.  With regards sa dream mo ay its a problem that persists but its something that you can solve rin.  Yun lang kaya nauulit kasi you've yet to figure out how to end that problem.

Have you tried meditating on this?  Usually kasi a lot of clues are missed sa dreams so you need to channel to Him para makuha mo ano yun message.

The red cloth is just one of the filters but maaring what is causing those bad dreams ay of a different sort.  That's why I always folks to do their remedies in combos. 


Hi, sweetsweet.

The reason why it can't be used in yin places ay dahil it can be charged with negative energy.  However, what will you use then kapag nasa yin places ka?  This is why I don't push for such approach here.  Kung ang tanong ay effective ba naman ito ay ang sagot ay yes but to a certain degree. 


Hi, mga sis.

I agree with what akthung opined na dapat know the limits on how far you should help someone.  Tama rin help yourself before helping others.  Na to think of your future rin before you help someone else.  Kung ikaw naman ang mag-suffer then malabong makatulong ka sa iba hindi ba.  At higit sa lahat huwag na huwag mong aasahan na tutulungan ka nila kapag ikaw naman ang nangailangan. 

And yes, scare tactics lang itong ginagawa of such.  Maghihirap ka kapag hindi ka tumulong?!  That's pure BS.  Karma does not work that way too.

[kaiz]

just wondering sir CH.. what if mabuti naman ang kalooban ng isang tao, marunong tumulong sa nangangailangan and the likes, pero no idea as to the proper placement ng mga bagay bagay sa loob ng bahay resulting to creating bad chi, alin po mas mangingibabaw?

[veecoust]

Hi Sir CH,

Regarding your question, walang meaning yung handle ko, it was a combination of my last name and my first crush last name, way back 1999.
Sir CH, kapag hindi Catholic, san pwede mangumpisal,Sa Kanya Directly?

Pano ko matatanggal yung mga negative energy?aside from the one that you have taught sa forum.
Dun sa sinabi ninyo na nadelay or nachanged yung method, ano ibig sabihin nun

Hi, clauienoie.

A happy, healthy and prosperous New Year to you and to your family too


Hi, veecoust.

Question!  What does your handle mean?

With regard sa question mo ay this is because you've absorbed so much negative energy - either intentionally or not - to the point it is overcoming your most important energy that connects you to Him.  Kapag nawala for some unexplainable reason ang head mo either by mirror or photo delikado ka na.

Now, it is NOT enough na masampal ka, tapikin or what as the one who did that will absorb the negative energy you had.  In a way karma mo pa rin but someone else suffers for it - the one who did the sampal, tapik, etc.  And yes, its one of those things I learned the hard way in my mag-12 year na doing really odd missions.

Total cleansing is strongly advised.  Sa spirit, mind and body.  Not just fast as best as you could and yun salt bath, etc. but pati in thoughts.  I would recommend rin you go to confession as well as the one who did that good deed for you.  In a way it was just delayed or na-change yun method but the outcome can still happen.

[CityHunter]

Hi, veecoust

Unusual kasi and it does sound like some foreign word kaya itinanong ko

Explain ko lang what I was taught with but I would still strongly suggest that you ask your priest or minister on this kung left confused pa rin.  I will not claim that I know everything especially about religion.

If Catholic it is best one avails of the sacrament.  Per experience ibang level rin kasi yun feeling once you've unburdened yourself of it.  Some nga lang feel na hindi sila comfortable with it more so confidential yun mga sasabihin.  Alam ko some even have bad experiences with such and nasa history na rin na such trust was betrayed.  Kung ganoon ang case then you can go direct but what is missing ay yun penance.  More so kapag mabigat yun sin(s) mo.  Like suicide attempt, abortion, murder, etc. 

Kung sa direct confession mo you feel that it has helped ease your burdens then its okay.  Dahil kahit ako ginagawa ko iyon.  Impokrito naman ako kung sasabihin ko na madalas ako magsimba at mag-confession kung hindi naman totoo. 

Negative energy kasi can only be transformed, transferred, etc. pero never destroyed hindi ba.  This is where the mass and communion comes in.  Kung ang confession and penance is the preparation part ay yun mass and communion naman ay ang cooking part.  You can't have one without the other ika nga.

Maraming variations rin but the easiest kasi is to do those - confession, penance, mass and communion.  And at a place na special.  Wherein yun feel mo you connect to Him.  This is why I often suggest - to Catholics - na gawin na parang pilgrimage yun maka-visit ka sa special church.  Kung you take time to go to malls or even abroad just to sightsee ay what more naman yun magbiyahe ka a bit to atone for your deeds.  That journey alone is a test and cleansing act.  Believe me ilang beses rin kami talagang masusubukan even if its just going to Quiapo Church na one ride away from our place lang.

Yun na-change o na-delay yun method ay yun karmic event na dapat mangyari.  We have cases wherein yun binati, tinapik, etc. na nakitang walang ulo survived but the one who did that had a tragic ending before the day ended.  You can quote me on that.  Mayroon rin na-delay lang as in oo buhay nga for that day and even days beyond that but it still ended tragically for the one who appeared without a head sa photo or seen as so.  Sobrang negative chi kasi na to the point it already is beyond normal hope for that person to survive pa.  This can be felt sa mga photos taken of people who moments soon after died - in a not so nice way pa.  This is why kapag ganun yun nakasalubong ko I take time even if it means putting off a meeting with a paying client.  Mabuti na lang its very rare that I have such.

To convert kasi such amount of negative energy to at least neutral charge ay it will take powers beyond that of ordinary man.  You can opt to do the usual stuff na maglakad ng pabalik, etc. or even immerse sa sea water na mas practical but recharging yourself with positive energy to counter such effectively ay hindi kakayanin that quickly.  Divine intervention na talaga and iyan yun turo sa akin.  Kapag hindi na kaya ng powers ng math and science like what I use I was told send them to a place where miracles happen.  And iyan yun what I do here. 

You need not even be Catholic to go to a Catholic church.  You can pray there if you wish so.  I don't think nga lang this is an option with some religions but I've prayed sa Shinto, Taoist, Buddhist temples na.  I've asked Hindu gods rin to assist me and minsan lucked on finally being granted to see an eastern angel. I haven't stepped inside a mosque though kasi hindi dahil ayaw ko but simply hindi ko pa feel though I do have a prayer that they use for exorcism.


Hi, kaiz.

Good question.  That would be like you can afford a nice car but totally have no idea how to drive it.  Or you do know how to drive it, can afford it but have no idea how to fix it and it conked out on you and there's no tow truck nor celfone signal in the area.

This is why I told you folks to (1) pay heed to your gut intuition and (2) make notes of those observations.  Anything that we do may domino effect iyan.  Cause and effect ika nga. 

Gamitin na natin na example bibili ka ng bahay.  Yun bahay na napili mo ay foreclosed.  So alam mo na agad na minalas ang tumira doon.  That alone should ring bells of alarm inside you.

Let's say ayos naman.  Pasok ka and you noticed that the stove is seen directly from the main door.  Alam natin bad iyan sa feng shui.  Basic logic tells you kasi you will get distracted kapag ikaw ang nagluluto.  At hindi rin maganda for food safety reasons. 

Kung ang lupa naman na kinatatayuan ng bahay ay yun inclined type wherein mas lower yun sa rear than the front ay alam mo na hindi ito an easy place to build a structure on.  Dinaan mo sa daya so yun inclined spaces sa likod ginawa mo yun lower part na mga bedroom and even kitchen.  Per basic logic yun lupa is already exerting subtle but strong force towards the lower elevated part - due to gravity for one kung you don't get it.  Then dahil a lot of the upper structures are being balanced by the structure's beams, columns, etc. ay mas felt itong subtle chi na ito sa lower room which are unfortunately bedrooms and kitchen.  Hindi na ka makatulog mabuti dahil sa mga iyon ay no positive energy is also being generated due to those forces.

Let's go towards something simpler.  CR agad pagbukas mo ng unit na kukunin mo.  Then katabi ng door ay doon yun sink o stove.  It may seem practical but it is not.  CR next to the main door by now alam na ninyo is bad.  Uber bad. For practical reasons its not also good for your health. No matter how clean you try to make it so ay may mga things there that are simply not ideal to be present near where folks come in and go.  Even more so next to where cooking is done.

Going even simpler ay paano kung mga bed, tables, etc.  Going sa practical pa rin tayo.  Feet o head directly facing the door.  We know na bad ito.  It simply does not make you think enough to relax or face a new day with positive outlook.  Always mo iisipin you need na naman to move to work or go to school.  Or be somewhere kasi hindi nga happy ang feeling mo kapag nasa room ka so instead of resting you are using up more energy. 

Being good is not enough.  One needs to act.  Walang masamang magtanong more so if there are folks who will help such.  That is why I post here instead of charging folks PF for the same kind of service - well, ibang usapan na kapag more complex and detailed ones as I too do need to put food on our table.  And then there are folks like you who would share what they learned to those who are open. 

Kung alam mo ang feng shui pero bad ka naman ay hindi rin tama iyon.  In the end it will catch up to you too.  Hindi ba sinabi ko 3x na ako nagtanong sa winning combo ng lotto and sinagot ako.  3x rin ibinigay sa akin yun combo.  90M plus yun unang 2 and 100M plus yun pangatlo.  Yet I was also told that death will follow that if I opt for it.  Kahit yun 3 pagsamahin and isa lang close to me naman ang kapalit never mind.  There are other ways to earn money but I know no technique how to raise the dead.

FYI.  And yes, a friend did suggest bakit hindi ko na lang sabihin sa kanya yun winning combo tapos hati kami.  I won't escape even by that way and may put someone even more in harm's way.  I've seen how karma works and its ugly.  If someone asks kung hindi ba ako nagagalit, nagtatampo, etc. as it could solve a lot of my money worries even for the long-term future ay oo naman.  Tao rin ako who feel na iba rin yun secured ka financially for the future.  However, I've seen how money corrupts many people more so paano pa kung power and money is combined. Kung noon lang nadedemonyo na ako to torment a cretin who made me lose face ay paano pa kaya kung I have both.  Maybe its not yet the right time for me or more probably the proper way to get my hands on such.

[sweetsweet]

Thank you po Sir CH for enlightening us. Malaking tulong po ang mga posts ninyo.

Let me share po ang Family Prayer that our Parish Priest has given us. We are blessed to have been given the chance to help our parish to give back all our blessings to God.

Prayer for the Family
O God of goodness and mercy, to Thy fatherly guidance we commend our family, our household and all our belongings. We commit all to Thy love and keeping; do Thou fill this house with Thy blessings even as Thou didst fill the holy House of Nazareth with Thy presence.

Keep far from us, above all else, the blemish of sin, and do Thou alone reign in our midst by Thy law, by Thy most holy love and by the exercise of every Christian virtue. Let each one of us obey Thee, love Thee and set himself to follow in his own life Thine example, that of Mary, Thy Mother and our Mother most loving, and that of Thy blameless guardian, Saint Joseph.

Protect us and our house from all evils and misfortunes, but grant that we may be ever resigned to Thy divine will even in the sorrows which it shall please Thee to send us. Finally give unto all of us the grace to live in perfect harmony and in the fullness of love toward our neighbor. Grant that every one of us may deserve by a holy life the comfort of Thy holy Sacraments at the hour of death. O Jesus, bless us and protect us.

O Mary, Mother of grace and of mercy, defend us against the wicked spirit, reconcile us with Thy Son, commit us to His keeping, that so we may be made worthy of His promises.

Saint Joseph, foster-father of our Savior, guardian of His holy Mother, head of the Holy Family, intercede for us, bless us and defend our home at all times.

Saint Michael, defend us against all the evil cunning of hell.

Saint Gabriel, make us to understand the holy will of God.

Saint Raphael, preserve us from all sickness and from every danger to our lives.

Our holy Guardian Angels, keep our feet safely on the path of salvation both day and night.

Our holy Patrons, pray for us before the throne of God.

Yea, bless this house, O God the Father, who hast created us; O God the Son, who hast suffered for us upon the holy Cross, and Thou, O Holy Spirit, who hast sanctified us in holy Baptism. May the one God in three divine Persons preserve our bodies, purify our minds, direct our hearts and bring us all to everlasting life.

(Glory be to the Father...)

[veecoust]

Thank you Sir CH.
Divine Intervention talaga.
Thank you for enlightening me.

[damsel.in.distress]

Thank you sir CH! Haven't tried meditating on it. Kasi nabasa ko before the meaning of that dream is meron daw akong past na gusto ko ng kalimutan or takbuhan. Something like that. Anyway, I'll meditate on that and observe tuwing kelan ko ba napapanaginipan yun as to give me clues why ko napapanaginipan yun. It bothers me kasi everytime napapanaginipan ko yun since someone wants to kill me sa dream.

[CityHunter]

Hi, sweetsweet.

A thousand thanks for sharing to us that wonderful prayer


Hi, veecoust.

You're welcome


Hi, damsel in distress.

Meditation is not just being able to learn about the root of the problem but equally what options are available to you as well as the consequences of each.  Gamitin mo na as example yun  what I shared about wanting to win the lotto 3x.  I did not simply focus on the request of a want but also what were my chances of being granted that request as well as when and even what comes after.  Its hard to explain how one is able to achieve such a state kasi as it did take me quite a while but as with everything practice helps a lot.

Partly tama rin iyan na someone most likely na part of the past mo needs closure.  Pero part of the problem rin can be sa iyo.  This is why I encourage folks to go to confession kasi it helps solve problems like this - and free pa.


Hi, mga sis.

OT: Am in Makati for a few days though not sure if I can sked any meets soon as it may be hard to go around with the tight security na gawin for the pope's visit.  Need to replace my glasses too so until I do its going to be a bit hard for me to do much.

[cheepee]

Hi Sir CH,

I decided to join na sa post na to since I don't know what to do anymore. I feel all the negativity around me. I fear for my health kahit wala pa naman, I feel na my husband and I will not work out anymore, I feel na maghihirap kami etc. I always pray. I ask for guidance but somehow, these negative thoughts are still with me.

Last 3 weeks I dreamt of a young girl and from my dream, she can see the future, I ask her what my future would be and she said - "It's gonna be Dark". I don't want to think about it much pero minsan sumasagi pa din sa isip ko. What can I do? What am I supposed to do?

[akthung]

Yun na-change o na-delay yun method ay yun karmic event na dapat mangyari.  We have cases wherein yun binati, tinapik, etc. na nakitang walang ulo survived but the one who did that had a tragic ending before the day ended.  You can quote me on that.  Mayroon rin na-delay lang as in oo buhay nga for that day and even days beyond that but it still ended tragically for the one who appeared without a head sa photo or seen as so.

this!

so to whoever who asked about delaying or neutralizing...

you have to pull heaven and earth so to speak.

total change.

1. start purifications - esoteric meditations. diet. character building. practice forgiveness and mercy.
2. service - think big. really really big. think of it as a business that you want to grow and earn millions, but millions in terms of positive karmic units. don't think of helping out in church, barya lang ang karmic units na makukuha mo sa ganun. think of building something that changes peoples lives inside out. think of something that will create this change to multiples of people a day. hundreds. or even thousands (i've seen a few).
3. heal others if you have the capacity or the knowledge to do so.
4. bless everyday.
5. tithe. give more dahil may target ka. at least you know you're losing money to a cause than life taking what you do not know or can't afford to lose.

 basic point is to help others -- alleviate or total transformation.

then dedicate all of the good karma generated above to alleviate or neutralize negative karma.

BUT

it depends on the scale.

i personally know of someone who is doing all of the above and has been doing it for more than a decade now on thousands of people in different continents. it seems that the karma of this person's child is really deep. however his efforts have enabled the child to behave very close to a normal person. very big change since the day the child was diagnosed. but  as of now, hindi pa total healing or neutralization of karma. again big change naman.

sometimes 1 specific karmic lesson can take lifetimes to neutralize.

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

A thousand thanks to akthung for sharing his wisdom to us.  Very true iyon na there are karma na it can take several lifetimes para mabura.  Yun tulad na sinabi rin na yun parent is making much effort para yun child niya grows up normal true rin iyon.  Maraming ganun though some kahit anong explanation mo hindi pa rin nakikinig tapos magrereklamo na pinabayaan na daw sila, etc.

Yun part na dedicate yun efforts ninyo towards a positive change sa karma iyan yun gawin ninyo too.  Yun lang marami rin matigas ang ulo na ayaw mag-meditate o take time to reflect much more start the first step kaya they keep wondering why kahit anong new age junk bilhin nila hindi gumagaan ang situation nila.  By taking the time to properly meditate then act on it ay then and only then sisimula yun healing process. 


Hi, cheepee.

If you would and could do share more details about that strange girl sa dream mo.  And kung may small details pa na maalala ka share mo no matter how silly o insignificant it may be. 

Una ay always may yin and yang.  Kapag may darkness ay may light rin. 

Oh, forgot to ask anong specific date and time did you have this dream.  Yun latter kahit oras lang na you woke up from this dream.  Critical kasi ito though if you can't recall it anymore ay general details o approximation na lang.

Seeing the future is both an ability ng mga preternatural.  Some of us get that gift too.  Pero until such time it comes to pass ay it can be mitigated, enhanced or averted.  The latter usually requires major divine intervention.

Ang rule is lahat tayo have to undergo suffering.  Pero from that suffering we are either broken or become stronger depende on how we are forged.  Part of that forging process comes from us.  Hindi ba kaya ko nga sinabi sa inyo cleanse yourselves regularly at least.

Now, you pray often pero yun chi mo ay weak.  I do hope someone here could do a 2nd opinion rin.

Tulad ng sinabi ni akthung it is not enough to simply give sa church to help.  Ganun rin sa prayers.  It is NOT enough na madasalin ka.  You need to act! 

Balikan mo yun mga madals ko sabihin here.  Pray as you make dilig sa plants early in the morning.  2 actions iyon.  When you cleanse yourself ay pray.  2 actions again.  When I have you go to confession hindi ba I tell you to also do penance plus yun mass with communion.  In other cases ay after you get your asked blessings ay share to someone in real need part of that blessing.  Random act ika nga.  Iyan yun mga ways you can slowly but surely correct the imbalance.

At maari rin karma ninyong mag-asawa na you have yet to discover.  Kaya ka siguro feeling this way and even got that message from a strange girl sa dream ay sinasabihan ka na to act.  More often rin kasi some just cut off yun message kaya bitin.  Ito yun reason why I have you folks meditate. 

And hindi dahil may evil something na maaring nagsabi sa iyo ng bad news ay matakot ka na.  Did you ever bother to check while in such a state sino ang mga nasa likod mo?  That was a hard earned lesson at wala ka mababasa in any book o blog about that. 

If you want to counter this ay you need to re-examine what you've been doing now tapos analyze mo at kapag wala pa rin then meditate.  Lay off sa red meat, alcohol, vices, etc. until such time you gain a deeper insight on this.

Ang parating na Sheep year ay anything can happen.  May it be good o bad kahit impossible pwede.  Maybe iyan yun reason why you are getting an early warning so you can still do something about it para naman mas ideal yun results in the end.

So huwag matakot about your future.  The more worried you are the less you will be able to act on it properly.  Calm people are able to resolve the situation better so iyon ang need mo muna gawin - by avoiding red meat nga, etc. 

You can also ease your worries by reading the Book of Job - sa blessed na Bible at hindi online o sa tablet ha!  Ulitin mo kung natapos mo na until such time you feel na ready ka na to take the first step towards healing yourself to avoid a bad future.

[cheepee]

Hi Sir CH,

Thank you for the insight. I have been avoiding mass for the past couple of years now, I usually go to church after mass when I was in the Philippines hindi dahil sa kung ano pa man pero dahil nagkaroon ako ng hindi magandang impression sa mga pari dahil na din sa hindi magandang nangyari sa amin. I usually just pray on my own time and I am a devotee of perpetual help and talagang Wednesday is my novena day.

As for my dream, I can't really tell you the time or the day it happened since medyo ilang weeks na din, napaka vivid niya lang kasi kahit nagising na ako, may mga scenario pa din akong naaalala. Sa dream ko, ang naaalala ko lang is yung setting niya maliwanag pa at nasa tabing dagat kami when I asked the girl regarding my future. Although may mga tao sa paligid namen, I can't barely remember their faces but somehow they looked familiar.

I will do my best to find my inner peace. Hopefully maramdaman ko na siya soon as I am having this depression already

Thank you again!

[CityHunter]

Hi, cheepee.

Been there done that when it comes to bad priests.  Pero as with policemen, politicos and even feng shui masters not all are bad.  May mga good pa rin.  You just need to figure out whom those are.

Noted na malapit sa body of water yun dream so it is something that can affect your future nga.  The thing is ay not unless you change not just your plan of action but equally your self - yun chi mo - ay things will still be bad.  This is why nga I told you fast, confession, etc.  Do a difference rin with your life.  As akthung shared ay do good deeds in ways you could.  Huwag yun sa church lang.  Kung si Pope Francis nga bwisit na bwisit sa mga corrupt sa Vatican ay ganun rin tayo.  Marami diyan who can appreciate your help and when you do it in His name ay nakaka-help iyon to ease your bad karma.

[cheepee]

Thank you so much, Sir CH!

I will need to reassess my life and lifestyle now. Thank God he is giving me signs to I can change/alter my future..hopefully hindi nga mashadong maging Dark katulad ang dream ko ang future ko..hehe

[misunderstood]

Sir CH, what if po ang septic tank nasa likod pero gusto po sana namin iextend para gawing kusina, hindi po ba magandang idea yun?