Dating: Why some guys won't commit

[jtansanco]

Commitment = being tied with someone and giving more importance to someone else but yourself.

Why men won't commit? They lose their freedom to do whatever they want whenever they want. They might regret not doing things they could have done when they were still single.

Having a guy "commit" is no easy task so if someone is willing to commit to you, make sure you don't take him for granted.

[commish]

bat ba lagi na lang "why men doesnt want to commit?"

have you tried to look on the other side like "misinterpreted signal"?

what if all the while, yung signals/ actions by the guy is for simple dating lang, yet yung girl misinterpreted the signals and gusto na maging sila. if her hopes starts to fail, sasabihin ayaw makipag commit ng guy?

wala lang, kinda onesided kasi eh, also looking things on a different perspective lang.

[amethyst028]

case to case basis iyan. sometimes guys just wants the perks of being with a girl but cannot commit for many reasons. some guys naman they are still feeling you out kung ikaw na ba talaga kasi mahirap mag commit tapos palpak naman pala. other times they started out liking a girl really bad to the point that they think she is the one na pero habang tumatagal na-re-realize niya na hindi pala.

my advice for girls, just be the most amazing person you can be and if the guy is meant for you it will happen. minsan kasi wrong fit lang talaga and kahit gaano mo ipilit mag work ayaw talaga e.

[RoadrunnerXCX]

given that they are in love...it is readiness not  love that makes a man commit. based on experience yan.

[candacena]

medyo nalito din ako sa nakilala ko ngayon. sabi niya gusto daw niya connection more than sex. and hindi pa siya ready magkagf. kakabreak lang nila last year, nawalan tuloy ako ng gana. though i like him minsan

[chichi143]

bat ba lagi na lang "why men doesnt want to commit?"

have you tried to look on the other side like "misinterpreted signal"?

what if all the while, yung signals/ actions by the guy is for simple dating lang, yet yung girl misinterpreted the signals and gusto na maging sila. if her hopes starts to fail, sasabihin ayaw makipag commit ng guy?

wala lang, kinda onesided kasi eh, also looking things on a different perspective lang.

I agree on this and I'm a girl. We women, sometimes see this signs kasi gusto namin yun lalake.
It happened to me all the time. In the process, some of us maybe will do sort of stuff para magustuhan nung guy or para marealize na we're a good catch and that it will one day marerealize niya na gusto na niya magcommit. (SO me, lol)

Pero kung marami pang hung-ups si guy, nothing will happen.

I was losing hope kasi lahat ng guys na nakilala ko last year, won't commit. Laging di kami fit. Laging ako, gusto sana ng relationship at hindi yung casual dating lang.

Until this guy came... He said straight from the bat na relationship ang gusto niya and that so far ang tanging masasabi niya lang daw niya sakin is that he really likes me. Breath of fresh air actually. Nakakapanibago! hahaha

Narealize ko, in this department, men are really easy to understand. If they say, they can't commit believe them. Kasi it means, they really can't commit pa. If they come back and say gusto nila to start something with you, then if you like them still, go.

[killbill]

Based on my experience

Guy 1: May hang ups pa sa ex fiance.

Guy 2: Hindi pa sya ready sa commitment kasi takot daw syang maka hurt previous relationship niya is 7 years ang tinagal and feeling ko wala pa sa priority niya dahil mommy nya may cancer and nag iisa lang siyang anak.

Guy 3: 2 magkasunod na 5 years na relationship, hindi sya masaya so he decided to fix himself, nag focus sa career, nag gym. Ayaw na daw nya idepende ang kaligayahan niya sa nagiging ka relasyon niya. Ang goal niya ngayon is magkaron muna ng business then saka na sya magseseryoso. Napag iiwanan na daw siya ng mga kakilala niyang mas bata pero mas successful sa kanya.

Pansin ko sincere naman sila sa mga sinabi nila and hindi lang talaga pa sila ready.  Lahat sila in good terms pa kami. Siguro hindi naman sila nagmamadali din unlike tayong mga babae kasi pag tumatanda nape pressure na mag settle down, magka anak.