Ano ang kwento ng LOVELIFE mo ngayon? Part 4 :)

[reighnyielle]

My ex viewed my linkedin profile and I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm trying to hold myself back from initiating a convo with him even though I'm dying to talk to him

[sildusoleil]

Totoo ang "Red Thread of Fate" or kung ano man ang tawag nila doon. Gosh... ang chain of events ay bonggang bongga, isang mali lang may possibility na hindi kami magmeet ni hubby or maiinlove.

I'm so happy pag nameet mo na talaga yung "the one" mo, hindi mo na pakakawalan!

[dara_01]

we had the darkest, toughs  of our relationship Q4 2014 - Q2 2015.  Akala ko that's the end ng matagal na naming relationship. though, hindi physical na sakitan pero may mga nasabi na sobrang sakit. muntik na akong bumitaw pero I thank the Lord kase hindi niya kami pinabayaan. 

this month we decided to work-out our relationship, to bring back the spark.  and so far so good. hopefully tuluy tuloy na at makarecover na kami. love is sweeter this time. we'll celebrate our 11yr together next month at sana what ever happens kami parin.

[simang]

Legit LDR. 15-hr difference is cray.

[michipoo]

Ldr for 1 week. Its day 1 pero miss na miss na miss ko na siya agad

[handlewithcare]

Trying to let go and move on.

[yasbabyangel]

We started as magkuya. I met him when I was only 13, he was 17 y/o that time. As in kuya ko talaga sya. Favorite nya ko asarin sa mga kaedaran ko. Never thought na sya yung para saken kase nga sa age gap namen tsaka yung mom nya trinitreat ako as youngest daughter. Lage nila ko sinasabay pag pauwi from church tapos kapag niloloko ko ng mga kapatid nya na ampon nila ako sinasabe ng mom nya na "okay yun para may anak nakong babae" since puro boys anak ni tita. Kaso dumating yung time na nafall ako sa kanya tapos naconfuse ako sa actions nya kase diko maintindihan kung sisterly care lang or may something na. Feeling ko mali kaya umiwas ako sa kanya. Kaso naoperahan sya, emergency case pa. Nung malaman ko yun, nagalala ko ng sobra. diko na sya iniwasan tapos narealize ko na mahal ko na pala sya talaga di lang as kuya. Inantay nya ko mag18 bago sya nanligaw. Ayun. Sa una di matanggap ng parents nya yung samen kase nga bata pa daw ako. Kahit alam nilang kame sasabihan nila ko na "tignan mo pictures ni kuya mo" na parang sampal saken na pumatol ako sa kuya ko. Pero ngayun tanggap na nila kame. Magseseven years na kame at nalalapit nadin mag-ldr next month... Mejo kabado kase 1st time namen maghihiwalay ng ganun katagal. Pero nga basta honesty and trust at si God ang foundation ng relationship kakayanin...

[Miss Taken]

Thank God we have a smooth sailing relationship now although it was rocky during our first year, this time we're much more in tuned with each other. Communication is really the key to a stronger relationship and learn the beauty of give and take.

[teambdc]

Story ng Lovelife ko ngayon.

Confused.

meron akong boyfriend. LDR for 5 years now. last year, one guy from a common group of friends approached me. mali ako at nag entertain ako. everyday kachat, madalas mag kita. ang mali pa, may gf din siyang iba.

madalas kami magkita ng patago. come to a point na mag check in sa hotel just to be with each other ng matagal.

few weeks ago, nagsabi siya, break na daw sila ng gf nya. hindi ko alam kung bakit, pero nalungkot ako for him. pero at the same time, natuwa, may chance na para samin. pero may bf ako.

hindi ko alam kung anong stand ko sa buhay nya. almost a year na din kami na ganito. everyday magkatext, madalas magkita. pero alam ko in his heart, mahal padin nya ang ex nya.
 ako naman confused. pano na si bf ko? pag iniwan ko siya, walang assurance na magiging kami ng isa.

please help.

[yasbabyangel]

^sis. Pinagdaanan ko din yan pero hanggang text and kain lang sa labas at nbasa ni bf yung convo namen. I almost lost him dahil sa nagawa ko at pinagsisisihan ko yun. Dun ko narealize na diko kaya mawala si bf. Ask yourself kung sino talaga mahal mo. Kanino mo nakikita future mo sa kanila. Kase parang palagay ko yung second guy ang mas gusto mo. Parang okay na sayo igive up si bf mo ngayun kung sure ka na magiging kayo ng guy? Sis, pag-isipan mong mabuti. Mahirap magsisi sa huli. [textspeak!] bang wala kay bf na meron kay guy? Tsaka kung nagagawa ni guy na lokohin ex nya nung sila pa baka ganun din gawin nya sayo pag naging kayo? Lahat ng actions naten sis may consequences. Ready kana ba mawala si bf sa buhay mo?

[dara_01]

^agree ako kay sis yasbabyangel.  you need to make a decision sis teambdc. do you still want to keep the relationship or pag-papalit mo si LDR. pero medyo selfish yung "pano na si bf ko? pag iniwan ko siya, walang assurance na magiging kami ng isa.".  kung mas mahal mo yung new guy may assurance or wala hiwalayan mo na si LDR, medyo unfair para sakanya na kaya ka lang nagstay sa relationship ay dahil walang assurance yung isa.

or baka dahil sa sobrang layo ni LDR at namimiss mo siya kaya naging attached ka dito sa new dahil siya yung malapit, nakaka-usap mo face to face, nahahawakan mo.

tsaka 5 yrs is 5 yrs.  kaya mo bang talikuran yun for the new?

[teambdc]

ang hirap mga sis. nag usap na kami second guy. itigil na daw namin. nagstart kami sa mali, kahit anong gawin naming pagtatama, hindi magiging maayos. yun ang sabi niya.

siguro nga dahil malayo si bf ko kaya ako nagkakaganito? ang unfair ko masyado. selfish. mabuti ka pa sis yasbabyangel, nagawa mong talikuran agad si second guy agad. ang hirap. hindi na kami nag uusap, pero iniintay ko padin siya na mag message sakin.

sis dara_01
, pag iniisip ko din, 5 years, andami ng memories, naka plano na ang lahat samin, okay na ang lahat. iniisip ko pano ang sasabihin ng parents ko? ng family nya? ng friends namin?

[mylene628]

masaya na complicated na mahirap na magulo...

[dara_01]

ang hirap mga sis. nag usap na kami second guy. itigil na daw namin. nagstart kami sa mali, kahit anong gawin naming pagtatama, hindi magiging maayos. yun ang sabi niya.

^naku parang hindi ka convince kase yung sinabi mo sa last part na "yun ang sabi niya", pero ikaw parang hindi payag. if magdedecide ka naitigil, itigil na talaga. yung pigilin ang sarili mo. labanan ang tukso. haha.

, pag iniisip ko din, 5 years, andami ng memories, naka plano na ang lahat samin, okay na ang lahat. iniisip ko pano ang sasabihin ng parents ko? ng family nya? ng friends namin?

^wag mo isipin ang iba sis. dapat ikaw ang may gusto. ikaw ang may ayaw na itapon ang 5 yrs ninyo. mapapagod ka lang if you try to think of others. dapat magdecide ka na now habang nagsasabi na si 2nd guy na itigil na.

[lady_di888]

I have a bf for almost 5 years now. He has not proposed yet. A first, gigil na gigil na ako na ma engage sa kanya, pero lately, parang there's something missing or takot lang ako because of the many stories i have heard from friends and mga kakilala na parang di nagwowork marriage tapos they result to cheating.. ayokong mangyari saken...

At work I have this male coworker whom I later on seem to find attractive. He has a gf for 10 years pero he's holding back on the marriage or getting engaged as well. I know because he shared this to me without me really forcing this out on him. I do not know if he finds me attractive pero he overanalyzes my every move--parang tingin nya I'm trying to flirt or something with him when I'm not and tries to mimic it and tease me about how I acted. He also talks with double meanings trying to mislead me. Gusto nya mag assume ako sa mga lines nya na type nya ako, he wants to see how i would react siguro..? Why is he like that ? hmmmm....

[Filipinasadhart]

para pa din langka walang lagkit o sweetness ang love life  hehe :-)

[junetwentythree]

I have a bf for almost 5 years now. He has not proposed yet. A first, gigil na gigil na ako na ma engage sa kanya, pero lately, parang there's something missing or takot lang ako because of the many stories i have heard from friends and mga kakilala na parang di nagwowork marriage tapos they result to cheating.. ayokong mangyari saken...

At work I have this male coworker whom I later on seem to find attractive. He has a gf for 10 years pero he's holding back on the marriage or getting engaged as well. I know because he shared this to me without me really forcing this out on him. I do not know if he finds me attractive pero he overanalyzes my every move--parang tingin nya I'm trying to flirt or something with him when I'm not and tries to mimic it and tease me about how I acted. He also talks with double meanings trying to mislead me. Gusto nya mag assume ako sa mga lines nya na type nya ako, he wants to see how i would react siguro..? Why is he like that ? hmmmm....

Why do you need to know? If you're no longer happy with your boyfriend, break up with him! And don't go sullying someone else's relationship. Don't go down that path of cheating. Time and time again, it's said here on GT and everywhere else that KARMA is indeed a b****.

[mooncake and leaves]

I have a crush and we might go out this weekend. It's just nice to realize na there's always that potential to connect with a new person.

[TomHansen]

^ wow goodluck!

[Miss Taken]

Stress-free stage

3 months to go then we'll be celebrating our 2nd anniversary. Hindi pa ganun katagal but thank God for making us both matured. Happy ako na we can trust each other without snooping on each other's phones or social media accounts. I really hope that he's the one na.