Ano ang kwento ng LOVELIFE mo ngayon? Part 4 :)

[sugardrop]

Confusing

[green-aholic]

walang pagbabago. still single. 

[Obachan]

After ko malaman na hindi pala dapat ako sinasaktan physically and verbally ng ex-husband ko
Nakipag hiwalay ako. Good thing I have a good job.
Tinago ko, nilayo ko at umalis kami sa bahay ni ex.
Doon ko nalaman me magandang buhay pala pag kumalas ka sa panget na relasyon.

Now, I have a current hubby.
Doon ko natutunan ang salitang "respect"
Super happy dahil edukado, responsible and nagkaka intindihan kami ng hubby ko ngayon.
Meron man in-differences, I/we managed to work it out.

I am happy with my hubby now.
Which happens to be my classmate during highschool.
Pero never kami naging friends noon 

[killbill]

Infairness sumama siya sa outreach program namin ng mga GT sisters nung Sunday. Ginawa naming driver, nag effort naman at hindi nagpabayad kahit pang diesel.

Tapos nagkape lang kami kagabi with my beki friends tapos kwentuhan lang. Sabi niya same taste daw kami ng chocolates hehe.

Babaw lang lol. 😁

[simang]

^Anything mababaw is nice Simple and effortless diba. Happy for you sis <3

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Another proof that we actually think alike.

Kagabi I bought ice cream, nilagay ko sa freezer tapos nakalimutan ko kainin. So kaninang hapon ko lang sya naalala kainin, and hindi ako natuwa sa naging consistency nung ice cream so I told myself I'm going to eat ice cream again within the day. D called me sabi nya malapit na sya sa house so binuksan ko na yung gate and inantay sya, after a few minutes he showed up sa gate with ice cream! Sabi nya may nasalubong lang sya nagtitinda ng ice cream and he thought of me so he bought ice cream for us. <3 Yey for being thoughtful and sweet and of course, yey for ice cream.

Another kilig moment kanina was when we were walking pauwi we passed by Starbucks. Nagkatinginan kami and nagtanong ng "do you remember??" We had our first date in that particular Starbucks. And kinilig kami pareho nung naalala namin yun

[sugardrop]

^
Cool off then break? Why not just go straight to breaking up? Curious lang.

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We're good.

[slickchick]

@redishred correa - same question sis as sugardrop, bakit kailangan pa dumaan sa cool off if ibreak mo rin naman later on? why prolong the agony? hehe..

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on the topic:

after our one year of being together (celebrated 1st year anniv last week), i can say na wala na talaga kami sa "honeymoon" stage ng relationship. lumalabas na rin yung mga topak at saltik namin dalawa. hehe.. but im still thankful na kahit wala na sa "honeymoon" stage, at kahit lumalabas na ang mga topak namin, we still manage and we still choose to stay together.  sana lang ma-manage ko na ang selos ko, at ma-manage na nya ang pagiging not-so-expressive nya..

[simang]

^that honeymoon phase is a choice. I'd say you have to always choose to be all over each other as if the relationship's always new. I live by the saying na to keep a partnership healthy and happy, just go back to your first 90 days as a couple. Wishing you two the best

^^glad to know

As for me, he's on a business trip in Malaysia and I'm so busy with work and business on the side (end term, graduation, deadlines, and the never ending "other duties") but I am so glad he's coming home tomorrow!!! I mega miss him!!! Can't wait for all the hugs and kisses!!!

[imprincessfiona]

^Malungkot. We had misunderstanding. Not talking for quite some time.

[fionnah325]

^ y naman?

[imprincessfiona]

^ y naman?

^iba pala talaga pag married na compared pag mag-bf gf pa lang.pag magkasama na kayo saka mo makikilala yung totoong ugali ng partner mo.ganun ba talaga ang lalaki minsan as if parang walang pakialam sayo pag nagkatampuhan kayo.kahit mag-eggroll ako sa harap nya deadma.mahilig sya sa silent treatment.ako gusto ko confrontation para malinaw ang usapan.

[fionnah325]

^ sabihin mo sa kanya sis yong ayw mo sa kanya para maging okay kayo...ganon talaga pag once magkasama na kayo sa iisang bubong don mo siya makilala ng buong buo...naku sa sinabi mo atakot na tuloy ako mag asawa hehe

[simang]

^iba pala talaga pag married na compared pag mag-bf gf pa lang.pag magkasama na kayo saka mo makikilala yung totoong ugali ng partner mo.ganun ba talaga ang lalaki minsan as if parang walang pakialam sayo pag nagkatampuhan kayo.kahit mag-eggroll ako sa harap nya deadma.mahilig sya sa silent treatment.ako gusto ko confrontation para malinaw ang usapan.

as partners we have to realize that our partner's way of handling arguments is just as important as our own. sure, mas gusto mo ang confrontation, but hindi naman yata fair for you to think na mali ang way nya to keep silent. yun ang way nya to cool down eh so siguro respect it na lang. kung mag-uusap kayo ng mainit pa ang ulo nya baka naman may masabi pa syang hindi maganda and lalo ka lang masasaktan.

[imprincessfiona]

^ sabihin mo sa kanya sis yong ayw mo sa kanya para maging okay kayo...ganon talaga pag once magkasama na kayo sa iisang bubong don mo siya makilala ng buong buo...naku sa sinabi mo atakot na tuloy ako mag asawa hehe

^naku sis wag ka matakot mag-asawa.alam ko naman magkakaayos din kami pero alam mo yun gustong gusto ko sya kausapin at kamustahin pero he needs space talaga pag may tampo.siguro nasa period of adjustment pa lang since we got married 4 months ago pa lamang.

[fionnah325]

^ may baby na ba kayo sis ni hubby mo?siguro tama ka din nasa stage kapa kasi ng acceptance and adjustment....

[imprincessfiona]

^ may baby na ba kayo sis ni hubby mo?siguro tama ka din nasa stage kapa kasi ng acceptance and adjustment....

^wala pa sis, ttc kami kaso ngayon world war 3 (silent treatment).

[fionnah325]

^ okay lang yan sis..ang sarap at ang saya pa naman may baby

[slickchick]

^that honeymoon phase is a choice. I'd say you have to always choose to be all over each other as if the relationship's always new. I live by the saying na to keep a partnership healthy and happy, just go back to your first 90 days as a couple. Wishing you two the best

i'm keeping this in mind sis - always remember the first 90 days.  nakakapagod din kasi kapag pinapansin ko lagi yung mga maliliit na bagay, ako rin ang nasi-stress. i should really stop overthinking and being sensitive. haist..  kung pwede palampasin, pinalalampas ko na lang (as long as it's not a major one like fidelity issues). minsan kasi, sa akin lang pala issue, sa kanya wala lang. so ang ending, ako lang din ang naiinis. sometimes, i really do have to think like a guy para di affected much.. i really admire sis the way you handle relationship matters, and i'm really taking notes sa mga advice mo dito sa GT. thanks sis! 

[simang]

kung pwede palampasin, pinalalampas ko na lang (as long as it's not a major one like fidelity issues).

ito yun sis choose your battles. don't stress the small stuff. and thank you, really appreciate it.

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When he came home from abroad last Wednesday, he was feeling sick with sipon and back ache... Now parehas kaming may sakit. Haayy.

[imprincessfiona]

^try ko to think like a guy pero parang ang hirap kasi emotional tayong mga babae e. tama nga siguro i should choose my battles. war kami pero sya laro laro lang ng coc at criminal case.asan ang hustisya?