is it really possible for a girl and a guy to be best friends?

[la_pinay]

hi sisses.

Is it really possible for a girl and guy to be best friends, without the other one falling? hehe

[ziontrec]

i think it is possible but its also not for everyone.

i have this close friend na we got the chance to admit to each other that we do like each other but never had anything beyond that, up to now we are still ok and both have our own relationship.

[aubb]

Yes. Pero bestfriends, i'm not sure.

[young_maiden]

yes. it's possible na purely platonic lang talaga ang friendship. common ito sa mga friends since childhood.

[j.adore]

It is but few lang.
For the rest, there would ALWAYS be one who would develop some feelings.

[sacred cow]

only if pareho silang may significant other and preferably mas attractive yung significant other nila sa kanila kesa sa bestfriend nila. or else someone sa dalawa, wants more than friendship

[simang]

^eto din naisip ko.

Kaso kase dito sa pinas pag sinabi monh bestfriend, lalo na yung babae, parang girlfriend din kung makaasta. Lol

[telekikay]

oo naman. unless, saksakan ka ng malisya at lib...sa katawan lolz!

[Raserei]

Yes it is possible. I have a best boy friend. Kahit anong isip ko...hindi ko mapicture na ma-fall ako sa kanya. Not that he is not attractive or anything. Kapatid lang talaga turing namin sa isa't isa. Walang malisya.

[chicafabulosa]

Yes betfriends ko na 2 dalawa lalaki eh. Wala naman kasing malisya. Platonic love talaga kame.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Yes, it is definitely possible.
I can attest to this since I have a handful of guy friends - who also happen to be on my best friends list.
There was never a time that either parties fell for the other.
There was no agreement from the get go na bawal beyond platonic relationship, so it does happen na puede ngang platonic through and through.
Though I would like to echo what ziontrec said, it's not for everyone.
As for simang's comment about some girls who act as if girlfriend - nangyayari din. I've seen it happen too many times and seriously, di ako maka relate. Hahaha!!!

[kukii]

IMO dapat yung bestfriend mo from the opposite sex is your bf/gf, just my own pov /flies

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ That would be MOST ideal, but not all couples are able to be both bestfriends and in a relationship with each other. Again, it's not for everyone, but definitely desirable.
I have been to relationships where I don't and can't consider my man my bestfriend, but luckily --- for the one I am in now, I can say that my guy is also my bestfriend.

[la_pinay]

thanks sa replies. i am getting married kasi and my h2b has this girl best friend, who is still single up to now. we never met until lately lang, and once pa lang. i dont really know her that well pa. although dont get me wrong, i am not threatened. haha. h2b always tells me na parang mag kapatid lang talaga sila, and i believe him naman. i just hope it's the same with the girl's side. lol

[simang]

^well if it's not the same sa side ng girl.. May choice pa ba sya eh ikakasal na kayo? Hehe. Kaibiganin mo na lang din si ateng if you want to get to know her better. Pero kung ako kebs na lang. Hehe!

[la_pinay]

trulajuice! haha

[quinone]

yes, possible. my guy friends nung teens ako hanggang ngayon walang mintis bumati kapag birthday ko pero we are not that close anymore. yung iba naman na-meet ko nung college pero mostly meron na silang GF noon.

may isa akong friend na nakilala ko yung wife (then gf) niya nung kinasal sila. at after getting married at nag-aral yung wife sa school namin doon na nagstart ang pangaaway niya sa akin at iba kong friends.

sis, i suggest ask your guy kung ano mga bagay na ginagawa nila ng bestfriend niya kapag magkasama sila like nanonood ba ng sine? kumakain ba sa labas together. kasi apparently, ayaw pala ng wife na lumalabas kami ng husband niya, be it kaming dalawa lang o in groups. e ganun na talaga kami bago pa sila ikasal.

dati, pati yung perang iniipon daw niya at kinuha ng guy friend ko (na wala akong ka alam-alam) e sinisisi sa akin. tapos now, pati girl officemates ni guy inaaway niya. medyo malisyosa siguro siya? alam ko nga yung friend ko umuwi dito kahit na nag work abroad kasi pati yung SIL inaway.

tapos minsan nagulat ako ina-accuse ako na baka nag s-SOP kami sa cell na talagang ikinagulantang ko    sinasabi nung wife sa akin na kasi gusto ng dirty talk ng husband niya sa cell so siguro raw ginagawa namin. may nalaman pa tuloy ako about sa kaibigan ko na hindi ko naman dapat alam. i don't know kung bakit hindi niya matanggap na may close friends/close officemates na babae ang asawa niya.

you know, iba ang usapan between friends na opposite sex. my guy friend will not talk to me kung papaano siya makipag-usap sa mga kaibigan niyang lalake, yung parang guy talk. though he tells me about his issues sa wife niya at ako rin kinukwento ko about sa hubby ko sa kanya. at kahit kelan hindi ako nagpalibre/nagpabili/nagparegalo, nagpahatid/sundo, o umasta na parang gf, or what.

[la_pinay]

hindi naman ako ganyan level. i mean, before, i was super selosa. but na overcome ko na kasi marami talagang girl na friends c h2b. and in fair, talagang pinapaalam naman sakin ni h2b lahat. c bestfriend nya nga they even sleep in 1 bed, pero wala daw talaga malisya, at sya rin walang interes, nor did he feel anything. that was before pa naging kami. they go out of towns, they have a lot of activities together.  tiwala naman ako..

[j.adore]

Sleep in one bed? Ang activities at out of town nila ay group naman siguro ano? If so then, I guess that's fine.
Kung silang dalawa lang.....

If they have been friends for the longest time and way before you, there is a chance they really are just that, friends.
I guess what you need to confirm is that they never had a moment EVER. Even a single one lang, you can't be assured that none of them will ever develop any feelings. We can't predict din naman kasi.

Though I'm curious, how come you never hung out kung best friend siya ng fiance mo?

[la_pinay]

group naman most of the time. as far as i know, wala naman silang moment, pero tinutukso sila ng mga friends nila before kasi both single naman sila.

when we got together, nag lie low naman na rin c h2b sa kanya kasi nasakin na ang time nya mostly (if not working). i never got the chance to meet the bff kasi hindi naman nag iinitiatie tong c h2b, and sila rin naman di na nagkikita,  busy rin [textspeak!] c girl (which is true kasi she works for events). nagmeet lang kami nun sukatan na for the gown, she's our MOH by the way.