Overprotective guys, cute or insecure?

[telekikay]

ah dapat hindi sya possessive. nakakasakal kaya yun. later on it will lead to separation.

basta ako, hindi ako overprotective. therefore, cute ako! lolz!

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Girls, what's your take on guys who are so protective of their girlfriends, the type na:

a) ang daming bawal like sa pananamit
b) bawal pumunta sa mga gimik with friends na hindi sila kasama
c) may kakilala siyang nagbabantay sa'yo sa office na magrereport sakanya if someone is flirting with you
d) threatens any guy who shows the least bit admiration for their girl

I really find this behavior by other guys pathetic, it's like they're so afraid na maagaw sa kanila gf nila as if hindi sila secure na mahal sila nung girl. I believe kasi na if you're confident na ikaw ang best guy for your girl (at least in her eyes), siya mismo hindi gagawa ng wrong move kasi takot siyang mawala ka, and kahit sino pa yang manglandi sakanya, e she would turn them down. If the guy can't trust his girl to be faithful/loyal to him, that he has to resort to being overly protective, then their relationship really as issues.

But some girls find these traits attractive kasi mas feel nilang love sila nung guy. How about you, what are your thoughts about boyfriends na ganito?

I dont call this cute/insecure/pathetic. I call this JEJE. Di ba ganito yung mga jeje boys?

[telekikay]

^jejemon?

[tisaygirl123]

^^^ eh ganon siya talaga eh possesive siya. kakasakal talaga. ayan nag hiwalay kami 
Okay lang naman no regrets.

so you're saying to me that you're cute? haha!!

^Jeje? hmm hindi ko sure yan, ang jeje kasi diba yung parang mga gangster? haha hindi ko sure! 

[telekikay]

yan din alam ko sa jeje. yun may jologs na cap saka hindi marunong mag spell lolz!

unless, jeje is jerjer? hahaha!

[tisaygirl123]

^ oo tapos yung selfie nila todo emote yung face. 

[telekikay]

^ampot...yun mga nakanguso na pa cute??? ano ba tawag dun? asar na asar ako sa mga ganun!

[tisaygirl123]

gangster?
Jejemon?  hindi ko alam eh. I don't do that kasi. Simpleng smile lang ako sa picture.
 

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Hmm kala ko alam na lahat ng tao what jeje means. Well in my world, it's all things baduy.

[stealthscorpio]

2 things lang. One, maybe insecure nga; and and two, baka you sent signals which triggered na magduda ang isang lalaki or bf mo sayo. Di yan cute kasi prob din yan ng ex ko nun sakin..hahaha magtatalo lang lagi. Kaya I've learned my lesson din naman.

[tisaygirl123]

When we're hanging out sa inuman, pag nakatingin lang ako sa iba nakikipag-away na, e nakatingin lang naman ako randomly like napatingin lang. Syempre may mata eh.

One time we were hanging out with his friend na girl na may kasamang boyfriend. Eh katapat ko yung lalaki, syempre nagkakaeye contact kami katapat ko nga at syempre I'm smiling kasi I'm being friendly.  Nakikipagtitigan at ngitian na daw ako. Hay.

^ nakaka tawa yung cympre may mata! haha!
Naku ganyan na ganyan ex ko. 

[telekikay]

hay nako dyan ako nabubwisit. jojowwa jowa ng pogi/maganda tapos magseselos! lolz!
naman, pag dumaan si marian rivera sa harapan ko talagang lilingon ako! alangan naman pigilan ko yun babae sa pagtingin pag dumaan si piolo...eh ako nga, mapapatingin din kay piolo eh hehe

[p0isonIvy]

overprotective guys are no fun at all. its either they are just immature or downright psycho

[telekikay]

overprotective guy sa super arteng gf na mukhang talaba, sarap sipain.

[stealthscorpio]

overprotective guy sa super arteng gf na mukhang talaba, sarap sipain.

^Lol!! Ang galing nito hehe

[Angelite]

Grabe, so unreasonable naman ng mga bfs na yun. Nakakasakal na nakakapoot. Parang yung isang officemate ko, bawal syang magcelfone. So pag itetext ng boss eh sa bf pa nakikisuyo.

[sacred cow]

^ I really don't know why some girls put up with that kind of treatment from their boyfriends, literal parang aso sila..they get treated like their b*tch. kahit sabihin mong dahil sa pagmamahal, sana man lang maisip nila ang word na 'self respect' para irespeto din yung individuality nila

[Xoxolol]

I think guys who are overprotective are insecure and controlling.

[tisaygirl123]

^Hwag ganon.. It doesn't mean walang self respect ang mga babaeng pumayag magpasakal sa BF.
Reason of that, Understanding kasi ako hanggang sa namihasa na siya.

[purple.strawberry]

Yung pagkaseloso at protective, cute... sa una. Pag lumaon at madami ng bawal, tapos pinagbabawalan ka ng makipagfriends sa guys na pinagseselosan or tingin niya gives you a little bit of intention, di na nakakatuwa. Shows lack of trust and insecurity sa part niya.