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zeroone

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #360 on: August 09, 2014, 08:46:41 am »
^ it may be best to pose that question to a girl... I want to know.

IMHO, if the girl is bored or not interested with the topic, she'll change the subject. Unless she's trying to be nice and try to be agreeable.

mimiku

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #361 on: August 09, 2014, 10:45:36 am »
I think most guys are gaya ng diniscribe mo. But I still believe that there are guys who really can love you for who you are.  It is not about the chasing, but it is about compatibility, nag eenjoy kayo sa company ng isa't isa and that is all that matters.  Walang naghahabol kahit kanino, patas lang ang efforts ng dalawa as both make it a point to spend time with the other.

sa nabanggit naman ni jtansanco, maybe chasing is just sa umpisa. pero naman alangan naman you spend your whole life chasing for your spouse? di ba?

Iyan ang problem with guys who are not mature enough and "unsure" on what they want.  Kaya mas ok nga maka meet ng someone who is SURE na gusto ka talaga nila.  Hindi yung feeling sure sila pero nag aalanganin.

But sis ILJ, good for you that you have moved on.  Tough for him, kasi sya naman ang hindi maka move on. Pagsisihan nalang nya.


Kung ako, hindi, no way. Pinaka ayaw ko sa lahat ay yung insecure.

I agree. I've asked a couple of guys about this got a tad bit confusing answer - depends on the situation, if they like and find the girl attractive, they tend to reciprocate the attraction more. Kung baga, palay na nga humahabol sa manok hindi mo pa ba tutukain? Guys sometimes are shy at heart and they also want validation - most especially if the girl is gorgeous daw. I just don't know lang up to what extent yung acceptable sa kanila na paghahabol. Well probably not naman on psycho-level na yung paghahabol ng girl. On the otherhand, my guy friends find it repulsive if a girl they are not attracted on chases them. So I guess, it all boils down to this quote - if a guy wants you nothing can ever keep him away.
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xxcheiyexx

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #362 on: August 10, 2014, 03:33:31 am »
How will a girl know na hindi siya rebound lang ng guy?

jtansanco

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #363 on: August 10, 2014, 03:58:43 am »
^ Don't go to be with him in the first 6 months of the relationship.

xxcheiyexx

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #364 on: August 10, 2014, 10:41:43 am »
I'm sorry pero di ko gets yung sagot mo? Do you mean within the first 6 months of his break up?

The guy I'm seeing right now kase came from a break up (around march). We started seeing each other around June. We dont talk about his ex and I dont ask him about her naman, basta alam ko they dont communicate anymore. Now, I'm starting to have feelings for him na and it's starting to bother me. Actually even his officemates are telling him to take it slow kasi nga raw baka rebound nya lang ako. We recently started making out (which is so not me, before him, i've only kissed one guy, which is my ex), can't control/stop it na kasi i'm starting to have feelings for him. Ngayon, I'm bothered kasi nga baka rebound lang pala ako and baka hanggang momol lang pala kami. Haha how will i make him bring the relationship to the next level? How do I ask him? Should I be the one to ask him or should I wait for him?

jtansanco

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #365 on: August 10, 2014, 12:07:36 pm »
^ LOL. Never court a guy. That's the benefit of being a girl which you should enjoy. Have him court you. Kissing is fine but if you want to make sure what his intentions are, don't have sex until at least 6 months from his break up. When a guy gets out of a relationship especially if the girl dumped him, he'll definitely start missing the part of him where there's a girl around him. Like you said, everything seems so fast so you should be the one to take it easy. You should control the pace of the "relationship".

Girltalker2

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #366 on: August 11, 2014, 12:36:13 pm »

The guy I'm seeing right now kase came from a break up (around march). We started seeing each other around June. We dont talk about his ex and I dont ask him about her naman, basta alam ko they dont communicate anymore. Now, I'm starting to have feelings for him na and it's starting to bother me. Actually even his officemates are telling him to take it slow kasi nga raw baka rebound nya lang ako. We recently started making out (which is so not me, before him, i've only kissed one guy, which is my ex), can't control/stop it na kasi i'm starting to have feelings for him. Ngayon, I'm bothered kasi nga baka rebound lang pala ako and baka hanggang momol lang pala kami. Haha how will i make him bring the relationship to the next level? How do I ask him? Should I be the one to ask him or should I wait for him?

Sis, one rule I always try to abide, is you cannot make out with someone who is not your BF. BF mo na ba sya?  You are just "dating" di ba?  The trick in "dating" is not to fall for the guy otherwise ikaw ang talo.  In the first place, has the guy professed?  Does he have feelings for you?  Or is he just interested to be around a girl?  Magkaiba iyan.

You really should be bothered kung may feelings ka na sa kanya pero sya hindi pa ganung level.  Ikaw mismo kelangan magcontrol ng feelings mo by diverting your attention to other things, other people, etc.

IMO, you should not ask him. Kung hindi nya sinabi na may feelings sya sayo, for me, by default, wala yun. Move on. Hanap ka ibang ka-date. As simple as that.

can't control/stop it na kasi i'm starting to have feelings for him

I-quote ko lang ulit ah.

Why can you not stop?  Magkaiba ang gawa at ang nararamdaman. You are born with your head, kaya mag isip ka muna.  Hindi yung padalos dalos and now you are having second thoughts na BAKA pangrebound ka lang. When in doubt, remain in doubt, until proven otherwise.


Anong momol?

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ladychris17

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #367 on: August 11, 2014, 02:05:35 pm »
how will i make him bring the relationship to the next level? How do I ask him? Should I be the one to ask him or should I wait for him?

IMO sis you can ask ano ba talaga ginagawa niya or balak niya then you can go from there. Atleast malinaw, and make it clear also that you will not settle.

xxcheiyexx

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #368 on: August 11, 2014, 06:22:19 pm »
Sis, one rule I always try to abide, is you cannot make out with someone who is not your BF. BF mo na ba sya?  You are just "dating" di ba?  The trick in "dating" is not to fall for the guy otherwise ikaw ang talo.  In the first place, has the guy professed?  Does he have feelings for you?  Or is he just interested to be around a girl?  Magkaiba iyan.

You really should be bothered kung may feelings ka na sa kanya pero sya hindi pa ganung level.  Ikaw mismo kelangan magcontrol ng feelings mo by diverting your attention to other things, other people, etc.

IMO, you should not ask him. Kung hindi nya sinabi na may feelings sya sayo, for me, by default, wala yun. Move on. Hanap ka ibang ka-date. As simple as that.

I-quote ko lang ulit ah.

Why can you not stop?  Magkaiba ang gawa at ang nararamdaman. You are born with your head, kaya mag isip ka muna.  Hindi yung padalos dalos and now you are having second thoughts na BAKA pangrebound ka lang. When in doubt, remain in doubt, until proven otherwise.


Anong momol?

Thanks for the advice sis. Momol is make out make out lang. Haha.

That was my rule as well. No kissing/making out unless bf ko na sya. I dont know what happened pero ayun na nga we started kissing na. Ewan medyo i lost control dito sa guy na toh.

No, he has not professed anything kaya nga siguro I'm bothered. I asked him in passing through text, vibe i got was that he's not ready yet.

simang

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #369 on: August 11, 2014, 08:06:30 pm »
^dont give the guy the benefits of having a girlfriend if he's not treating you like one

young_maiden

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Re: Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #370 on: August 11, 2014, 08:54:40 pm »
si guy may gf pero mahilig siya bumanat ng mga green o double meaning jokes sa isang girl. itong si other girl sumasakay naman. pero hanggang dun lang sila. masama na ba tignan yun? magmumukha kayang cheater si guy at flirt si girl? hanggang dun lang sila. they don't go out together and text or call each other. acceptable reason ba yun para magalit o magselos yung gf ni guy?

VainDoll

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #371 on: August 11, 2014, 09:28:10 pm »
^Kung ikaw yun gf sis what would you feel?

Depende sa green joke. Kung ang green joke eh involved silang dalawa dun sa joke medyo off siguro.

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #372 on: August 11, 2014, 09:39:40 pm »
@young maiden

para sakin hindi naman, depende nalang yun sa mga makakarinig nung joke kung bibigyan malisya..for me, it sounds like what normal friends do..unless may obvious na sexual tension sa guy and girl

baliwsayo

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #373 on: August 12, 2014, 11:55:08 am »
share ko lang, momol kami ni guy.. hihinto si guy then ask kung kami na ba daw? lol! sa isip ko natatawa lang ako.. madalas ganun.. isip ko bat di na lang enjoy ang moment, bat nagtatanong pa?

guys, what's your view on this? anyway, ang usual na sagot ko naman.. ano bang gusto niya? gf daw.. eh di sige.. lol!

jtansanco

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #374 on: August 12, 2014, 12:22:57 pm »
^ Haha enjoy the make out session and then break up with him the following day.  ;) Sorry, can't answer your question cuz I can't even see myself doing what the guy did. Haha

mc21

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #375 on: August 12, 2014, 01:36:02 pm »
Question Guys?

Bait may mga Guy dito sa GT, hidding as a Girl in the Username
at yun mga post nila kala mu talaga babae sila?

baliwsayo

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #376 on: August 12, 2014, 01:59:57 pm »
jtansanco, thank you for the response.. i actually like the guy so kami na.. hehe.. i just shared kasi bat iba share ng ibang sis ko dito na momol na sila yun pala di naman ready yun guy sa relationship. Ako naman chill lang, ineenjoy ko lang pero yun guy ang nagki-clear kung gf niya na ako.

mc21, nakakairita yun pm mo sa akin ha. Mga sis, porke di ko sinakyan ang pagsolicit niya ng sex, pagbintangan ba ako ng lalake daw ako? Lol! How pathetic this guy.

VainDoll

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #377 on: August 12, 2014, 08:35:34 pm »
@baliwsayo lol kala tuloy lalaki ka sis!

baliwsayo

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #378 on: August 12, 2014, 09:45:14 pm »
Vaindoll, oo nga sis eh. Etong mga newbie guys na to di muna mag-research bago umepal.

Jonduh, and what do you mean by that? Are you the alternick of mc21? Lol! Kampihan pa ba yun manyak na tigang? Haha! 😄

nixiquita

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)
« Reply #379 on: August 12, 2014, 11:16:28 pm »
Naweiweirduhan din ako sa mga nagppm na guys na may ibang intention. Do they really think they can get girls here who are dumb enough to fall for their bulok style? Bakit hindi sa mga walk sites sila maghanap? Hehe. Eto seryosong tanong hahaha

 

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