Singles on early and late 20's

[misslovelyjoy]

May thread about early 30's and the likes pero wala pa kong nakita for 20's so I decided to make a thread for us.

What are your focus at this point of your life? Early 20's is said to be the most enjoying years we'll have, dating, party, etc.

Anong insight niyo dito?

[peppermint009]

For me, its the era of dreams and part na dun yung makahanap ng taong makakashare mo ng dreams na yun and to accomplish all that I'm trying to balance out career and relationship. Sayo naman?

[misslovelyjoy]

Same here, sis. I just turned 20 last March and my focus is to finish studies (I'm on my 5th last year na) na. After that eh go for career na. A little of advanture, discovering new things, coming out of my comfort zone. Regarding lovelife, hintay hintay lang for the one. Enjoyin muna ang single life.

[abbeydasassy]

ako nasa late 20s and in no time hitting my fabulous 3 decades :p

that is so true, early 20s, I remember I was so ambitious to get a stable career, get a car of my own, live alone, get a condo/house akala ko madali if malaki sahod. dream big talaga ko noon. I splurge in anything (syempre walang binubuhay so all my income goes to me lang) tapos after 2-3 years parang nagka midlife crisis ako(tama ba yung term ko?) totoo pala yun na you'll reach a point that hindi ka sigurado sa work mo, na hindi ka happy sa ginagawa mo  and you can't figure out ano talaga gusto mo. so naka 3 trabaho pa ko before ko na figure out na this is what I really want  and what my forte is.  When I realize that dun ko naman nasimulan i-put together yung mga ambitious dreams ko which is still a work in progress  and I am proud kasi ginagawa ko na siya hindi lang drawing


lovelife naman, college pa lang ako kami na so siguro naging support system namin ang isa't isa in everything. 


take it easy, wag magrush sa lovelife!

[nettiebelle]

Turning 26 this year and I'm single for almost 5 years na. Medyo mahirap sa case ko maghanap ng lovelife kasi una, I work from home so kamusta naman, laptop lang ang nakakakasama ko almost everyday. I go out naman with friends at pinapakilala nila ako sa mga guy friends nila, kaso halos lahat hindi naman naglelevel up, meaning hindi nauuwi sa getting to know more kung potential gf ba ako... lahat sila trato sakin ka-tropa lang. Dati hindi ko pa na-fi-feel yung pressure na magka-bf na pero iba pala pag yung pressure eh nanggagaling sa parents mo, yung tipong tinatanong ka nila kung wala pa bang nanliligaw sakin. Tapos sumabay pa ngayon yung mga ka-batch ko na nagsisipag-asawa na at bumubuo na ng family.. Pero personally, yes, I'm hopeful na soon eh magkaka-love life ako at na may nakatakda na para sa akin. Pero hindi din ako nagmamadali pa.

[purpleice]

Hi sisses!

I just turned 21 last month. Fresh grad so sa ngayon ang focus ko eh pumasa muna sa board exams (hopefully mag-top hehe). Aside from that, nag-iipon din ng pera para naman may pambili din ng mga bagay na gusto. Masyado kasi akong nagtipid noong college siyempre puro gastos sa school talaga. Ngayon I think it's about time na i-pamper ko naman ang sarili ko.

I promised myself na mas magiging outgoing ako at icha-challenge ko ang sarili ko na mag try ng mga bagong bagay like travelling, mga beuty services na di ko pa try dati, saka finding my own fashion sense dahil hindi talaga ako maalam sa pagdadamit. Ine-explore ko rin ang pag ma-make-up. I'll be enrolling sa gym malapit sa amin to lose some weight. Ayun, I promised myself that 2014 will be my "me year". I'm planning to take up Medicine kasi next school year so binibigyan ko muna ng chance ang sarili ko na mag-enjoy at ma-improve ang self-esteem (haha wohoo women empowerment!)

Sa lovelife naman, well NBSB ako, pero honestly wala talaga pa akong balak mag bf sa ngayon. I'm mroe interested in meeting girl friends na open-minded and non-judgmental. Well marami kasi akong insecurities, so I want a best friend na willing makinig at suportahan ako sa journey ko na i-improve ang sarili ko. Of course, I'm a good listener and a trustworthy friend din naman. Mej hindi lang talaga ako sanay mag-initiate ng mga relationships at awkward talaga ako, pero if you get to know me ok naman. haha (i-plug daw ba ang sarili) So I really hope may meet akong friends dito ^_^

[misslovelyjoy]

Hi sis @purpleice! Goodluck sa board exam. we have the same goals after I graduated. Ngayong 20 na ko, I started investing sa mga kaartehan sa buhay. Haha. I want to travel din pagka-graduate, I want to discover new things and meet new people and gain more friends. Mahiyain kasi akong tao eh, gusto ko ako una ina-approach. Wala akong initiative to communicate with others lalo na pag di close. Hehe.

Tsaka na muna rin ang lovelife. May tamang oras para dun and I think this isn't the right time yet. I'm willing to wait naman.

Anyway, you can contact me on wechat: misslovelyjoy

[t_r_i_s_h]

Goodluck on your boards @purpleice23

I'm on my late 20's and honestly I'm so torn about what I really want to do. I don't know if I should work on my own again or maybe it's time to help my Dad with the business. Oh well, I dont know if this is the "rock bottom" hahaha

Hi @misslovelyjoy

[young_maiden]

I'm 24 years old. 5 years na ako single. Busy ako sa studies ko. Law student kasi ako.

[vermich]

29 na ako at single pa rin, occasional dates pero hindi ko pa maisip na magbf. Masyado yata akong nagenjoy sa pagiging single at independent 

I graduated from college nung 19 pa lang ako so deretso sa medicine proper pero nagdrop ako sa 3rd year ko tapos nagfocus na lang sa pagkuha ng masteral. So far enjoy naman. Pero minsan kaiingit din yun may mga bf.. hahaha 

[t_r_i_s_h]

^ I think I had a very serious relationship early. Too young then, when my last relationship ended matagal bago nag sink in sakin na single na ko. So I guess I'm at the point in my life na super nag eenjoy or taking time parang I'm not looking pag may dumating why not pag wala okay lang din. been single for 9 months na rin pala so there, one step at a time

[misslovelyjoy]

Let's enjoy being single and being on 20's! Tayo na't humayo. Hahaha. Nakakalungkot na gusto mo magtravel pero wala kang pera.

[tisaygirl123]

count me in. early 20's here and single 

maybe hindi pa nakalaan for me. so, be it.
Just wait for the right time to come, I'm not in hurry though.

[t_r_i_s_h]

1 year na pala kong single. How time flies hahahah

[stebsy]

I'm turning 29 next week and I'm single.
When I was in my early 20's, Ang focus KO ay lovelife at paano yumaman. Now that I'm on my late 20's Ang focus KO ay Ang bucket list and career KO. There's so much to do!!! So much things to improve on. Project self transformation. Haha!

[fredprinz]

I'm on my early 30s. I have a lot of single girl friends that are on their late 20s.

Tiwala lang, ladies. Huwag papadaan sa pressure. Keep on being independent and classy. Darating din yan.

[misslovelyjoy]

How are you na girls? Still single here. Hehe. Mejo bored ako sa buhay ko. School-bahay-school lang kasi ako. 😑

[fredprinz]

Ladies, you'll meet a lota guys, I'm glad you're not feeling pressured.

Find things to do, places to go to, food to eat and new stuff to discover. =D

So yeah, I'm feeling like the big brother here. Hahaha!

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

I'm 27 NBSB pa nga haha, sabe ng kuya ko wag na ako umasa kasi di na ako makakapag asawa  he's so mean  Gusto ko syempre magkaruon ng husband and kids pero kung hindi yun mangyayari tatanggapin ko na lang. Sabe pa ni chico loco wag ipilit baka dumugo hahaha

Sabe ng friends ko kulang ako sa exposure,tamad talaga ako lumabas ng bahay, hindi ko alam kung anung exposure ang dapat kogagawin .

[fredprinz]

Join a club, try online dating, find an organization, get a new hobby, travel often, enjoy being single, serially date guys et al.

Pag may tiyaga, may nilaga. Stop thinking and start moving! =)