Wedding docs 101/Church requirements..

[JaymeV]

Hi sis try mo sa mga church na madaming napapakasal talaga kasi hindi sila ganyan kahigpit. Like san agustin and manila cathedral yung h2b ko din kasi overseas at take note foreigner pa sya pero [textspeak!] church magadjust sa interview namin.. Our church pala is San Agustin Church sa Intramuros

[hun_nie08]

Hmmm.. sabi nung friend ko na secretary sa simbahan, kung kumpleto docs mo, in one month kaya mo mag ayos for the wedding. Basta importante e 3 consecutive weeks matatawag yung name mo for the marriage bans. Try mo ibang simbahan sis!

[moonstar_004]

yung wedding banns, does it have to be right before your wedding date? or pwedeng way advanced?

and also the pre cana seminar? we were planning to just take our wedding church's(ssj) seminar, but i've read somewhere that sacred heart in makati offers this for half day only. so i was thinking to take that instead. 1 whole day kasi sa ssj. does anybody have other recommendations for a half day seminar?

our wedding is on feb next year, so it's almost 6 months to go. i'm trying to get all the church requirements out of the way na kasi come august. except yung marriage license na dapat 120 days valid come wedding day.

[j.adore]

Ask your church because in our case, they did not allow us to proceed with the requirements until we were able to complete our documents (those needing 6 months prior validity).

After the documents, we were scheduled for canonical. They don't want this too early so we had to wait pa.
After canonical, we were scheduled for pre-cana and provided with the banns letter. Pre-cana is only once a month so we waited for it. Banns naman take 3 Sundays to finish.

Are you or your Fiance based out of the country?

[moonstar_004]

^nope we're here. i see, may sequence pa pala yun.

[sexy^pink]

hi sissies! anyone here na naglalakad ng marriage license sa muntinlupa? san ba kukuha nun? sa may munisipyo? ano ba mga requirements dun? - sorry dami tanong.. hihi  TIA!

[ayieloveszavi]

hello mga sis!

just a few reminders regarding requirements.

*may mga churches na super higpit. they will ask you to be here at least a month before the wedding to process your papers. meron namang hindi. pero para sa mga mahihigpit, ganito ang process:

a. submit requirements sa church: NSO birth cert, baptismal cert, confirmation cert and CENOMAR

b. need ng precana saminar at canonical interview. some churches allowed na sa ibang parish kunin ang precana tapos submit lang ang certificate sa nuptial parish. yung iba hindi pwede. ang canonical naman mas madalas dapat sa nuptial parish. some churches would require na canonical muna bago ibigay ang banns na isasubmit nyo naman sa respective parishes nyo for posting ng 3 sundays. some churches naman, once masubmit nyo lahat ng reqts, magbibigay na ng banns tapos habol na lang ang canonical.

*ang marriage license kailangan iapply within 120 days ng weddings kasi yun lang ang validity both of you have to be present sa pag-apply. napaka-rare ng cityhall na pumapayaga na wala ang isaor mas maaga sa 120 days mag-aapply. BUT kung wala namang prob sa details ng birth cert nyo like names or birthday, after 10 working days lalabas na talaga yan.

*may seminars din ang govt like family planning and marirage seminar. yung iba nababayaran para di ka na um-attend. need nyo certs ng mga seminars na ito para i-release ang license. sa cityhall din naman yan ginagawa.

*iba po ang case kapag chancery case kayo or married na kayo civilly or magkaiba kayong religion.

impt lang na once pasok na sa timeframe, asikasuhin na agad para alam nyo if may iba pa bang hihingin ang church or govt

[gennie29]

Thanks sis ayieloveszavi, so informative.

anyway, do you know any church na nag aaccept ng pre cana without endorsement letter? Thanks so much.

 

hello mga sis!

just a few reminders regarding requirements.

*may mga churches na super higpit. they will ask you to be here at least a month before the wedding to process your papers. meron namang hindi. pero para sa mga mahihigpit, ganito ang process:

a. submit requirements sa church: NSO birth cert, baptismal cert, confirmation cert and CENOMAR

b. need ng precana saminar at canonical interview. some churches allowed na sa ibang parish kunin ang precana tapos submit lang ang certificate sa nuptial parish. yung iba hindi pwede. ang canonical naman mas madalas dapat sa nuptial parish. some churches would require na canonical muna bago ibigay ang banns na isasubmit nyo naman sa respective parishes nyo for posting ng 3 sundays. some churches naman, once masubmit nyo lahat ng reqts, magbibigay na ng banns tapos habol na lang ang canonical.

*ang marriage license kailangan iapply within 120 days ng weddings kasi yun lang ang validity both of you have to be present sa pag-apply. napaka-rare ng cityhall na pumapayaga na wala ang isaor mas maaga sa 120 days mag-aapply. BUT kung wala namang prob sa details ng birth cert nyo like names or birthday, after 10 working days lalabas na talaga yan.

*may seminars din ang govt like family planning and marirage seminar. yung iba nababayaran para di ka na um-attend. need nyo certs ng mga seminars na ito para i-release ang license. sa cityhall din naman yan ginagawa.

*iba po ang case kapag chancery case kayo or married na kayo civilly or magkaiba kayong religion.

impt lang na once pasok na sa timeframe, asikasuhin na agad para alam nyo if may iba pa bang hihingin ang church or govt

[moonstar_004]

how many days validity ng cenomar?

my wedding is on feb 7, that means i can get na all my requirements after august 7, except marriage license right? since 6 months yung validity of the certificates?

[danda]

^6 months din ang validity ng CENOMAR.

[moonstar_004]

^thank you! so we can get by next week na pala.

[iriskers]

Mga sis question ilang days bago i process marriage license? 10 days dba? dapat ba my marriage license ka na bago kayo mag cannonical?

[ayieloveszavi]

^nire-release ang ML after 10 working days at hindi kailangan ng ML bago ka i-allow mag canonical. that's what i know ha. madalas habol na lang ang ML submission eh

[j.adore]

Ask you church kasi in ours, required nila submitted na lahat ng documents before we were scheduled for canonical interview.

[aicute12]

i suggest pre cana sa may st vincent (adamson) church.

2 hours lang kami nag pre cana. pero 2k siya.

[queenV]

Mga sis-- help naman. Di na namin makita yung baptismal certificate ko. San kaya ako pwede kumuha ulit? Pag ba tinwagan yung church, may records sila then pwede ko ba i pa lbc na lang dto sa Manila? Sa Baguio pa kasi ako bininyagan. *sigh*

[aicute12]

yes. meron sila records nun. ako kasi sa may san roque ako sa blumentrit nabinyagan, tumawag ako pero kelangan ako pumunta dun. ayaw nila na thru phone eh. call mo yung church sis baka mapagbigyan ka nila.

[j.adore]

They do have records pero you need to at least provide some information like the date or month&year.

Yung sa akin ganun kasi di ko talaga maalala pero alam ko saan yung church. So pag punta dun, yan yung information na hiningi.

[iriskers]

^nire-release ang ML after 10 working days at hindi kailangan ng ML bago ka i-allow mag canonical. that's what i know ha. madalas habol na lang ang ML submission eh

Thanks for the reply sis. Kasi we need to get pa Legal capacity of marriage sa US embassy, US citizen kasi si H2B. Requirements daw yung Legal Capacity before ka kumuha ng ML. Eh iniisip ko baka hindi na kmi umabot sa schedule ng Canonical namin.

[danda]

tama sis queenV try mo muna tawagan, baka 'online' na sila like sa church na pinagbinyagan ko, binigay ko lang name ko then naconfirm niya na doon nga ako. pumunta na lang daw ako para makuha ang copy.