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gean08

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Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« on: March 06, 2014, 06:07:48 pm »
Hi mga sis. Meron akong problem tungkol sa aking fiancee. Merong kasi ciang smart and globe na simcard. pero ang ginagamit namin para makapag communicate is yung globe. meron ciang mga nakakatext sa smart. which is yung girl na sobrang teks ng teks sa kanya, lagi ciang niyayaya sa kung saan lugar, concerts. kahit alam naman niang may partner na nga si fiancee.

Ang problema lang kay fiancee ayaw niang sabhn sken kung anong pinaguusapan nila. binubura nia yung messages nia. na ang reason daw kasi ay mga sselos ako.

lagi nia lang sinasabi sa akin na magtiwala lang daw ako sa kanya. oo may tiwala ako sa kanya. pero dun sa girl na kulit ng kulit sa kanya hindi.

Here is my question. if ikaw yung nasa lagay ko. Ittrack mo ba yung cellphone number ng bf/fiancee/hubby mo? o hindi.

and if yes. Na try nio na ba to and if may bayad ba to kung sakali?

thanks mga sis. Im newbie here nga pla.  :)

X_03

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2014, 06:36:21 pm »
sis, I am not expert, pero para sa akin no need to track his messages secretly. Confront him and be honest na hindi ka comfortable na may katext siyang ibang girl at hindi mo pa alam ang pinaguusapan nila. be honest with what you feel. Kasi fiance mo na iyan eh, kung dito palang sa stage na ito hindi mo siya maconfront at hindi rin niya tigilan yung ayaw mo, paano pa pag kasal na kayo. mas marami pa kayong pagdadaanan, kaya dapat sis maayos yan at talagang dapat sa kaniya manggaling ang linaw ng kinagugulo ng isip mo.


*pero bigla ko naisip pano kung may surprise lang pala siya sayo?

simang

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2014, 07:06:59 pm »
I havent done it, and i dont suggest you do it, pag usapan nyo na lang ng maayos.

lovely_chic

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« Reply #3 on: March 06, 2014, 07:36:18 pm »
Tama si sis simang, communication is the key. If you will track your bf/fiance mas lalo mo lang pinapatunayan sa kanya na wala kang trust sa kanya.
« Last Edit: March 06, 2014, 07:38:51 pm by lovely_chic »

Prinsesa Mumela

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #4 on: March 06, 2014, 10:10:34 pm »
Walang hindi nadadaan sa maayos na usapan  :) instead of tracking him, bat hindi mo na lang siya kausapin ng masinsinan? much better that way diba? kung sinasabi nya na magtiwala ka lang sa kanya, sabihin mo rin sa kanya na wag ka kasi nyang bigyan ng dahilan para magduda para walang problema. wag mong problemahin yung girl na text ng text sa fiancee mo, yung sayo ang pagsabihan mo. kahit ano pang landi nung girl sa kanya, kung ayaw talaga nya eh wala rin yun. yun ang nagpapakaba sayo diba? na baka patulan nya yung girl na yun? baka may something na hindi mo alam? kaya nga magusap kayo hija  ;)


insanelypurpleprincess

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2014, 10:23:13 pm »
I would have to second the motion of sis simang. Tracking doesn't seem to be a good idea at all. In fact, simply going through your boyfriend/fiance/hubby('s) phone is not a good idea to start with. Tracking would fall under the same category of what not to do for me. It's best that you talk it out and express to him how it makes you feel. Now, if he doesn't do anything to make things better, then perhaps, you have to re-think where your relationship is really headed. Good luck sis!

sugardrop

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #6 on: March 07, 2014, 01:09:09 am »
Just don't. It might make matters worse instead of getting it resolved. It might bring up issues you never knew existed by doing just that. I agree with everyone else here - communicate.

alice_alice

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« Reply #7 on: March 07, 2014, 04:57:36 am »
When you use a tracker yung sa globe at smart alam ko ang ginagawa lang nun is to locate the sim, pero you won't be able to view the messages baka may different app for that. But like what the others said no need to put a tracker on you partner's sim just talk to her/him, sabi mo you trust your partner then talk na lang about it kesa yung patalikod ka pa gagawa ng paraan baka pag nalaman mas lalo maging issue yan. Alam ko gusto mo lang makasiguro pero it might make things even worse than before mahirapan na kayo bumalik sa dati if you have trust issues na. So magusap na lang kayo ng masinsinan at maayos. I hope maging okay kayo. Gluck.

Girltalker2

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #8 on: March 07, 2014, 07:24:08 am »
If you don't trust him, don't marry him. 

Sis, hindi sa tinatakot kita, pero fiancee mo palang ganyan na sya magtago sayo?  Kahit pa ibang babae ang lumalandi sa kanya, bakit nya kelangan patulan?  At bakit ka naman magseselos kung ipakita nya ang messages sayo?  Ibig sabihin nakikipaglandian din sya.  Hindi ka naman magseselos kung walang dahilan.  I am sorry to say that kung engaged palang kayo at ganyan na sya kalandi, it normally gets worse once you get married.  So if you are to get married with this guy, tapos hindi kayo magkaintindihan or hindi puede magkaron ng maayos na usapan na happy kayong dalawa, just brace yourself and be prepared for a life of chasing, investigating and stalking.   :-\

This question of yours is just a symptom kung gaano ka strong ang relationship ninyo.  Maybe you guys are not yet ready for marriage.  Baka need pa more time to mature ni lalaki.  Pag isipan mo mabuti.  Hindi biro ang pagpapakasal.  It can make or break your life.

 

« Last Edit: March 07, 2014, 07:26:39 am by Girltalker2 »

LGV

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #9 on: March 07, 2014, 08:30:02 am »
Oo nga I so agree! Unang una engaged na pala bakit kelangan pa pumatol or magreply eh alam naman palang nangfiflirt si ate. Sorry to say but you have to face the truth, malandi yung fiance mo. Sa kanya pa mismo nanggaling na binunura nya kasi baka magselos ka, bakit ka naman magseselos kung friendly messages lang ang meron doon. Dapat wala syang tinatago and he should make you feel comfortable all the time eh the fact na alam mong may nakakatext sya Im sure youre not comfortable sana manlang gawin ka nyang kampante at engaged na pala kayo so Im sure nagpeprepare na kayo for your wedding.  Less stress dapat pero mukhang wala namang pakeelam yang fiance mo at pachill chill lang na kahit mukhang nagdududa ka na dapat maalarmed manlang sya and stop diba. Well the fact na naiisip mong itrack, whether may exisiting app man or wala it means malaki duda mo, you should have the balls to confront him not to force him to stop but by just telling him na you dont trust the girl dapat sya na maginitiate tigilan yang pakikipagtext.

Eto sorry talaga bukod sa malandi yang fiance mo at mapamatol, tama si sis baka hindi pa yan ready at marami pang gustong gawin, the fact na interested pa syang makipagtext sa ibang babae kahit enaged na. Be strong at agapan mo na yan hanggat maaga dahil pag kasal na kayo mas maloloka ka kakaisip kung ganyan parin yan.

Keiyt

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #10 on: March 09, 2014, 07:54:18 pm »
I agree sa opinions nila. Why bother tracking your fiancee's messages when you can ask him yourself? Confrontations are meant to fix things, kapag siya pa nagalit then sabihin mo medyo off sayo nakikipag text pa siya sa girl na yon.

May kilala ako before nagwwork before sa telco, they can track mga numbers na tinawagan at tinext. Sila yung nagpprocess ng bills eh. Also, one manager has access to the messages but they are not supposed to read as well and they don't bother reading kasi wala naman silang care. And medyo masama yung ganon.

anirtak127

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #11 on: March 10, 2014, 09:08:40 am »
Ang problema lang kay fiancee ayaw niang sabhn sken kung anong pinaguusapan nila. binubura nia yung messages nia. na ang reason daw kasi ay mga selos ako.

Alam na pala ng fiance mo na may tendency ka magselos bat pa nya pinapatulan yung malanding babaeng yun? Ano yun validation nya sa sarili nya na kahit na attached na sya sa iba eh may nagkakagusto pa din sa kanya? The fact na alam nyang pwede yun pagmulan ng away nyo eh dapat hindi na nya inentertain yung babae.

I haven't tried yang tracking na yan. Lucky for me, wala pa naman ako nakikitang need na gawin ko yan.

Si fiance mo ba eh ma-text sayo? Fiance ko kasi is tamad magtext. Minsan kahit sakin tinatamad sya magtext. Mas gusto nya calls kaya palagi kami nagtatawagan. Wala din problema sa kanya kahit tingnan ko paulit ulit ang phone nya.
« Last Edit: March 10, 2014, 09:11:59 am by anirtak127 »

Jaguar.Paw

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #12 on: March 10, 2014, 10:18:36 am »
wag mo na i track, kausapin mo mata sa mata. mas mura yon at derechahan pa.

ang tendency kasi pag ni track mo, mapaparanoid ka lang sis.

ysa.belle

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« Reply #13 on: March 10, 2014, 10:30:58 am »
IMO, mas maganda ang kausapin mo nalang siya. If ayaw sabihin, wala ka naman magagawa di ba? Kase the more na i-track mo siya, the more na itatago niya.

miSlovESka

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #14 on: March 10, 2014, 11:11:10 am »
I agree with all our sisses here bakit mo pa itatrack when confirm mo naman na me mga katext yun fiancee  mo. You're engage which means dapat pinapractice niya na maging committed which means no texting/flirting na for him because no one would want their fiancee to be flirting with any other girls. No serious fiancee would entertain girls like that's just my 2 cents. ;)

You want to track and read their exchange messages which means you don't trust him.

justin3

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #15 on: March 10, 2014, 09:29:05 pm »
hanubayaaaan? mag-jowa pa lang may "trust" issues na?

at sadyang ayaw ipabasa sa yo ang messages ng SIN card nya ha? ;D asa ka pa!

alam mo ang tracker na yan, "general" area lang ang maibigay sa yo yan, not the specific place.
halimbawa, pag sinabi ng tracker na sa Sta Mesa ang location ng jowa mo. hindi mo matumbok kung nasa SM Centerpoint ba sya o sa Punerarya Paz o nasa Mot-Mot Avenue sya.

well, ma-test mo siguro paminsan-minsan kung sadyang sinunggaling sya kung may tracker ka.
halimbawa, alam mong nasa MOA area lang sya, tapos sinabi nyang nasa Baguio daw sya kaya hindi sya makapunta sa date nyo.

gusto mong malaman ang INCOMING at OUTGOING messages ng SIN card nya? gusto mo pati INCOMING at OUTGOING calls pa eh. but it would cost you bigtime. ;)
may kilala akong gumagawa ng "clones". mag 10yrs nya nang raket. kadalasan mga gurang na mga politicos at businessmen ang clients nya. alam mo yung mga gumagarahe ng mga batam-batang tsi-tsing? na sa sobrang praning nila, nireregalohan ng hi-end cellphone ang tsix, yon pala naka-clone. pano kasi, takot at baka masalisihan ng sekyu o janitor ng condo... o baka ma-Vhong Navarro sila... baka may mag-text sa tsix nila na magdala ng finger-pudz.  ;D
 
pero alam mo TS, mas CHEAPER di hamak kung pag usapan nyo ng masinsinan at plantsahin ang "tiwala" isyu nyo.
wag kang naive at masyadong goody-goody na hipan lang ang puno ng tenga mo eh, maniwala ka naman pag sinabi nyang nakakita na sya puting uwak. ;D ;) ;) :D
 

 

gen211

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #16 on: March 10, 2014, 09:47:58 pm »
Pag usapan nyo. Ang lagay ba eh pwede mo rin gawin yan with some other guy? Separate sim din at hindi nya pwede basahin yung conversation nyo? Tanungin mo sya... harhar

aquacharly

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Re: Tracking your boyfriend/fiancee/hubby cellphone number.
« Reply #17 on: September 01, 2014, 01:53:42 pm »
There are ways and means to keep track location-wise, of another person.
May simple, not so pricey way to do it -- aside from doing the cell location thing.  Pag post-paid kasi, it comes out in the billing, your billing --  so make sure he does not see your billing.

Retrieving deleted texts is do-able, but well --  texts can fan your imagination, or be denied.  He can turn the tables on you,  say you 're:  malicious, invading his privacy, etc ad nauseum. .

Best to tract his location & match it against his claims to you as to where he is.  If you have the fortitude to  let a chain of location lies  "pass" - as in, kunwari wala kang alam & clueless --  a pattern will emerge & sooner or later, you will have concrete evidence to discuss with your fiancĂ©.  The key to this is  waiting for the right time to confront, after a definite pattern of location lies is established.   Magaling kasi some guys to deny to death. Susko. 

This is emotionally tiring.  Sa pag read ko ng cuento mo, IMO --  your communication has reached as far as it  goes, without a crisis helping it along.    . He will stick to his current script until mabuking -- IF meron man. But your intuition says there is more to this texting texting, and you just can't let go. 

BETTER you find out his extent & capacity for cheating BEFORE you marry him.  You MAY decide to marry him, inspite of what you may discover -- BUT then, you marry him with EYES OPEN WIDE. 

Another thing, if you want to catch a guy doing monkey business -- give him enough rope to hang himself.  Luwagan mo your monitoring of his movements, and be less strict with your demands on his time.   If he is up to no good -- the time before magkabukingan gets shorter.   

But really, I have been through all that sh1t & more -- it is too high a price to feel unsure and doubtful, just to be with a man.  Had I known even half of what I would go through with my husband, before reaching this current ok state of our marriage -- I would have not just walked away, but taken the 1st flight out, even if headed to Afghanistan. 

It pays to mind the Red Flags before committing.  Just saying.

Good luck. 




hedonista

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« Reply #18 on: September 10, 2014, 01:06:32 pm »
I tracked and tracked and tracked. Smart, globe.

wala. No one is spared from infidelity. Choice ng guy yun. Very easy to deny. Mas nachallenge pa lalo magtago. And if I can get him caught.

In the end, na exhaust lang ako to the point wala na ko energy at maramdaman. I went numb and now trying to revive everything.

I dunno what to say sis. Wag ka na lang mag track sayang bill/load at energy.
Trust your instincts. Follow sis Aquacharly.

Pray.

t_r_i_s_h

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« Reply #19 on: September 12, 2014, 08:51:15 am »
I agree with everyone, don't track. Just talk to him if he doesn't wanna talk about it then most likely may kalokohan na yan talaga. kung kaya mo kunsintihin go, if not break up with him. he obviously doesn't respect you.

 

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