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kahit humubad pa si other woman sa harap niya, kung matino siya, tatanggi siya.
Sa mga kakilala kong nasira ang pamilya dahil sa may kabit si lalake, si asawang babae ang laging nagsusuffer samantalang mga lalake happy go lucky pa din. Merong bagong partner at abswelto pa sa sustento sa anak nila. Ewan ko lang. Pero palagay ko hindi nila talaga ma-feel nila ang consequences ng actions nila. Kaya happy happy pa din samantalang ang pamilyang iniwan nya may mga problemang hinaharap.
^AGREEAko din, I wanna see what lessons can be picked up from mistresses. IMO, everyone, regardless of position in life -- has a lesson to share.The hurdle to sharing appears to be the boastful stance of mistresses/3rd parties -- parang ok lang maka isa sa pagsira ng buhay ng iba. So, that gets the fences up. Well, there's a lesson therein too for wives. 1 thing I gathered too was that a Husband/BF has a certain image of strength or superiority -- so in his times of self doubt/decline/failure -- he finds solace in someone who will take him, no questions, no expectations, no judgment, no fears. So, wives should handle their husbands' vulnerability with empathy. Do not add to his stress, to his self doubt, waning confidence etc. As a man's career/business progresses -- he needs to level up his image, his lifestyle, his skills & capabilities. The higher up the man is, the more proficient and presentable & sociable his woman must be. The higher up he goes, the more he needs a Total Performing Wife/ Partner. So, wives should keep up & level-up too. Not just physically, but also intellectually. For as a man moves up, his crowd becomes better -- wealthier and brainier. Kelangan the wife feels comfy with the crowd they leveled up to. Men are such ego-centric creatures generally. They want to be "appreciated" Pag taken for granted, or he feels the wife is better than him -- ayan na. He may look for someone who acts as if everything he says is brilliant, who never contradicts/challenges him. Someone who is very grateful with the few thousands or gifts he gives her -- tuwang tuwa as his wife when he gave her a new car. So, wives should not win battles to lose the war. (And, lol, sa umpisa lang ok sa mistress to be happy with konti, later on -- level up to or even surpass the wife's demands yan. Lol. I bet my 2 ears). ..... (& some husbands, di nila ma gets that "appreciation" is in our taking care of their children, their home, their hard-earned money. Hay buhay )
Ang ganda sana ng idea young_maiden, dismembered. But we don't live in the perfect world. I guess dismembered is right, it all boils down to our choices. Kaya nga tayo binigyan ng freewill, para makapili at maging responsible sa mga decisions natin. Kaya as much as we want to put the blame on the philandering man, hindi natin pwedeng idiscount na the other woman has something to do with it too. Lalo na kung well aware naman ang babae na sidechick sya. Unless siguro the guy deceived the gal para makascore.
Nakakalungkot no? My uncle was like that. Parang proud na proud pa na nagkaanak pa sya sa kabit nya kahit maedad na. Apat yung anak na iniwan nya sa legal wife and lahat sila had to stop school and work early kasi hindi na sila sinustentuhan ng tatay nila. Hanggang sa namatay sya wala syang contact sa mga pinsan ko. When he died, yung mga cousins ko pa ang umuwi ng probinsya para tumulong sa pagpapalibing. Nakakalungkot, nakakaasar. Yung mga serial philanderers talaga, I don't they realize yung gravity ng ginagawa nila.
at sana kung sino man susunod na presidente..sana gawing seryoso and iimplement na yung child support, gaya ng ibang bansa na walang kawala talaga mga lalake. kaya lang naman madami talaga malakas na loob na mga lalakeng magkaroon ng mistress at iwan pamilya is because walang hahabol sa kanila..
Philandering guys - lagyan ng mark? Lol! Baka yung martyr pa na Wife ang unang magdefend!
Question: kung kunwari pumasok ang mistress sa buhay ni hubby nung time na matagal na silang hiwalay ng misis, paano yun? Dapat pa din ba magalit kay mistress? Deserve pa rin ba ni mistress na makarinig ng harsh words or salita like kakarmahin din siya or magbagong-buhay na dahil nakakasira siya ng pamilya at kung ano pangsalita na nabanggit sa thread. Given na sira na ang family ng guy bago pa siya pumasok and responsible father naman si guy. Anong take ninyo sa ganun situation?
