sana nga that's the real reason.. im just thinking lang na bakit ganun bigla nyang binawi. hay naku, i know it's too immature of me pero it really hurts me when he said that wag na lang daw muna nya ko ipakilala sa parents nya. wel,, i think this is not the right time pa nga. even sa ate nya na malapit lang yung bahay sa amin hindi nya pa ko pinapakilala kasi sabi nya not now pa daw baka daw kasi hindi maging maganda yung dating sa ate nya dahil alam nga ng ate nya nakaka break pa lang nila ng ex nya.
sis, just playing the devil's advocate. nap-praning ka ba kung bakit bigla nagbago isip nya?
you know your guy well siguro by now. pero kung ako sayo, mag usap kayo mabuti about his maturity. I am not too comfy with his outlook in life, at least with the limited stories you have shared.
how can a guy be looking around habang may GF sya? then 2 weeks lang nga, kayo na? how sure are you na he is not looking around kung kayo na?
then bigla nalang sya magsasama ng GF sa province, mag oovernight sa kanila? after having a 7-yr relationship break up, he is in bed na agad with another girl? ano yun?
sorry, medyo nakakadoubt lang ang personality ng BF mo. pero outsider lang naman ako. ikaw ang dapat mas nakakakilala sa kanya.
I was chatting with my friend about dating and all that, see all this time i am under the assumption that as long as you're a doctor, your market value is way way up there. She told me that is true, but only for men. But if you're a female doctor, the men tends to get intimidated so we're not so marketable daw. So we only have a chance daw with felllw doctors or attourneys or phd holders. Ugh, is that true? If you've only finished a four/five year course, will you guys be intimidated to get serious or to date a doctor? 
chos 
I feel so shallow and stupid asking this, parang first world problem ugh.
Sis, I think in general, men's market value as they age is higher than women. I am talking about professionals lang ha.
Tsaka hindi naman siguro PHD holders, baka masters puede rin? Or Licensed engineer? Anyone na professional should be Ok. Kaya answer ko to your question (kahit babae ako) - 4/5 year course, puede syang pumatol sa isang lady doctor.
But ang question ko is - don't you sift through them as well? Say may nagka interest sayo na driver (no offense meant), papatulan mo ba? Hindi naman di ba? Kasi hindi nga kayo magkalevel, and I am not just talking about money. I am talking about your thoughts, dreams and aspirations. Paano kayo mag uusap, ano pag uusapan ninyo kung hindi kayo maka relate sa isa't isa.
I believe hindi nagiging doctor ang isang doctor kung hindi sya matalino. So kahit papano ang pagpili mo rin ng partners ay limited. Kelangan meron din something between his ears. Hindi puro porma lang.
Secondly, napansin ko sa Pinoy guys (heto na naman ako, sorry, opinion ko lang po) are generally insecure, or may pagka inferioirty complex as compared to foreigners. So effectively, mas madali sila maintimidate. But you should not feel sorry. Because these are the types of men na hindi mo rin makakasundo kasi walang guts to reach out to you. Eventually, you wouldn't want din an insecure partner di ba? Kunwari nasa party kayo tapos ni hindi sya maka complete ng sentence at nahihiya at ikaw lang nakikimingle.
Sorry, I have a couple more comments on the posts in the recent week. Hindi kasi ina-allow ng mods na separate posts. So kelangan ko pag-isahin resulting to extra long posts. Just bear with me.
yup back off na, unfortunately may mga guys lang talagang nawawalan ng interest sa girl after having sex. I'm not saying mali yung ginawa niyo nor am I saying mali ka kasi bumigay ka kaagad, kasi hindi naman talaga. I guess ok na rin na 1 month pa lang ang lumilipas, at least hindi pa ganun katagal yung time na invest mo, the fact that he became like that just because of what happened, just shows kung anong klaseng guy sya, for me you dodged a bullet 
@ohcmon, charge it to experience nalang. Next time, siguro you can be more discerning. There is actually a checklist to determine it a guy is worthy of your attention, whether he is someone you would want to be intimate with or not. Kung hindi pumasa, I would rather postpone the intimacy until you are sure. Hindi purkit nameet ang parents mo, you can sleep with him na.
I agree with sacred cow's post na maraming lalaki sex lang ang habol. Mga *ssholes kasi. or puede din malamang natakot ang guy mo sa commitment. Or baka hindi ka nya nagustuhan sa bed at isang batayan yun for him to linger around. Pero kung sa tingin nya hanggang kama ka lang, buti narin umalis na sya.
Nagagawa ko na atang She said He said itong thread, but I guess ok lang naman siguro. So sis ohcmon, next time lapitan ka ng same guy, at nagpasweet. Siguro you know na what to do. Kahit may feelings ka sa isang guy, you really need to know the guy's ulterior motive. Sadly sa nangyari, to put it bluntly, you were just used. At hindi mo malalaman agad ang motive ng guy by prolonging the intimacy period or by just asking him to meet your family. You have to do your research, his personality, is he for keeps, is he for long term material etc etc (iresearch mo yung checklist if you should sleep with him or not)... before engaging into something very sexual.
tanong lang..
sabi ng isang guy friend ko "mahirap daw talaga sabihin sa taong minahal mo dati na wala ka ng nararamdaman.
in short why mahirap makipagbreak sa isang girl? eh if di ka naman na happy why mo pa patatagalin di ba?
why nga ba?
Ito ang hindi ko maintindihan sa mga guys, especially sa Pinoy. Ang hirap magsabi ng totoo kasi they are afraid to hurt your feelings. And yet gagawa ng kalokohan behind your back, mags-scout for other girls tapos kung naipit na sila talaga, tsaka magsasabi. Ang feeling ko dito is selfish. Kung wala na talaga silang nararamdaman, one should say - AYOKO NA. Then move on, tsaka makipagdate or landian sa ibang babae. Hindi yung hindi pa kayo nagkaron ng "breakup talk", nakikipagharutan na sa ibang babae. This makes their position VERY SAFE. Kasi kung ireject man sila ng new prospect nila, may GF pa sila na puedeng makasama or utusan. Pero kung inaccept sila ng bagong prospect, dun sila lalabas na shining armor na ipaglalaban ang NEW LOVE kuno.
so @ tamera_lorraine, to answer your question bakit mahirap makipagbreak? kasi mga duwag iyang mga ganyang klaseng lalaki. una, they cannot face and tell the truth. Gusto nila laging nasa safe side. Tapos pa lingon lingon sa ibang baba, para kung may nahanap na silang prospect na mataas ang likelihood na magiging potential GF nila, tsaka nila ib-break yung girl. Kung baka kung dumating na yung bagong inaantay nila, puede na nila itapon yung reserba.
For girls naman who get ditched in these types of situation, magpasalamat nalang kayo na you do not end up with a guy like that. Kasi most likely, pag kasal na kayo, malamang gagawin din nya iyan, but hindi na nya kayo madidispatcha nang madali kasi walang divorce. So ang mangyayari he will end up with flings or mistresses.
^ What's the point? Remember girls, the ultimate goal of a man is to put his thing between your legs. As long as you don't give that to him, he'll continue to chase you. But once he does, that means he has "conquered" you already and the chase is over and he's going for a new victim. That's how a player thinks. If you're into fubu, then enjoy. Now, if you want to have a relationship with him, don't f*ck or do adult activities for at least 6 months after being bf/gf. Let's see if he'll stay with you.
@jtansanco, you are just referring to player's ultimate goal.
If you want a relationship with a player, don't do it for 6 months. He will definitely leave. Because it is simply impossible to have a serious and TRUE relationship with a player. Kaya nga player eh, you will just be played and fooled.
^ hahaha..ditto! except on the last part, some don't leave agad after getting what they want...some keep coming back for more 
Exactly. Kaya worried ako kay @ohcmon if ever the *sshole comes back. Kasi iyang mga ganyang klaseng lalaki, kung walang ibang mahanap, ikaw ang pupuntiryahin and will make you believe that you are "in a relationship" na walang commitment. Hanggang sa forever kayong ganyan na hindi umuusad. Yun pala, he is just hanging in there kasi naghahanap pa ng ibang options or ng ibang kakagat.
