Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 4)

[sacred cow]

^ karamihan kasi ng guys akala kapag nakuha mo na ang number, sure ball nang may mapapala sila

eh andali dali kumuha ng number ng babae, a girl can even give a guy her number without any intention of replying or even give you a fake one. ang importante is kung paano mo nakuha yung number ni girl, yung quality nung interaction at nabuild mong rapport na kaya niya binigay number niya para makapagkita kayo at a later time to date/fvck or whatever

getting a girl's number is never the goal (unless you're looking for a textmate or business contact), it should only be a tool to be used in setting up date logistics

tsaka tingnan mo rin, whether he was conscious or not, the fact that he didn't get your number pa got your hamster spinning and raised your interest level in him kasi hindi nga siya tulad ng karamihan sa guys na nilagay mo sa friendzone by immediately getting your number just after giving him a bit of your attention.

[fleur_de_liz]

yeah, right,, thanks sacred cow.. medyo na-enlighten na ko.. 

[simang]

^sis, wag masyado magisip... If he likes you, you will know. You won't have to assume anything. You won't be confused because he'll clearly show you that he does like you.

[fleur_de_liz]

tama ka sis simang. dont over analyzed and was mag-assume para di masaktan.

[louise1]

^ karamihan kasi ng guys akala kapag nakuha mo na ang number, sure ball nang may mapapala sila

eh andali dali kumuha ng number ng babae, a girl can even give a guy her number without any intention of replying or even give you a fake one. ang importante is kung paano mo nakuha yung number ni girl, yung quality nung interaction at nabuild mong rapport na kaya niya binigay number niya para makapagkita kayo at a later time to date/fvck or whatever

getting a girl's number is never the goal (unless you're looking for a textmate or business contact), it should only be a tool to be used in setting up date logistics

tsaka tingnan mo rin, whether he was conscious or not, the fact that he didn't get your number pa got your hamster spinning and raised your interest level in him kasi hindi nga siya tulad ng karamihan sa guys na nilagay mo sa friendzone by immediately getting your number just after giving him a bit of your attention.

i agree with you. meron isang guy friend na we're texting and emailing na pero wala eh. though the funny moment i had with him is when he texted me this -"u even know my full name and email ad and yet u didnt add me up on your fb account?"  grabe, nasabi ko na lang - "if i am not a friend, i really wont add you up on my personal fb. hahaha" though nainis ako sa kanya that time. sobrang kapal eh he thought i was that into him na. hahaha..

[Prinsesa Mumela]

Mas naaakit ba talaga ang mga lalake sa mga babaeng interested kesa dun sa mga interesting lang? 

[sacred cow]

^ not necessarily, kung interested nga si girl pero di naman siya trip ni guy or doesn't find her interesting..wala rin.

[sacred cow]

@louise1

ahaha...kaya nga guys shouldn't be so assuming talaga. it's always the girl's actions and not her words ang dapat paniwalaan

[fleur_de_liz]

so dapat ba ipakita ng girls na interested sila kay guy? hindi ba turn off kay guy yun, like girls are the one who's making papansin?

[sacred cow]

^ saktong pakitang interest lang/landi. wag yung try hard na papansin. it's more effective than making pakipot

[sugardrop]

^^
Show some interest but never to the point that it will freak the guy out and send him running towards the opposite direction.

[Prinsesa Mumela]

^ saktong pakitang interest lang/landi. wag yung try hard na papansin. it's more effective than making pakipot

How? Sorry medyo t**** pagdating sa ganyan  Simpleng usap? pasimpleng sulyap? ang hirap naman magpakita ng interest sa guy na type mo kasi syempre baka mareject ka ng bongga and that hurts ha?

[sacred cow]

^ kapag nakasalubong say 'hi' or smile, talk to him, make conversation

oo masakit mareject, pero tandaan rejection is better than regret. mas ok na yun kesa naman sa makita mo siya with another girl who could've been you just because mas marunong makipagflirt si girl, diba?

[Prinsesa Mumela]

^
Sabagay, may point ka dyan sacred cow  makapagpractice na nga ng mga tamang landi moves! sana lang umubra haha 

Considered bang off limits si girl pag ex sya ng kabarkada mo? Nagkakapatawaran ba kayong mga lalake pag may tumalo sa inyo? (e.g. rocky na yung relationship, biglang eksena si friend kay gf bilang shoulder to cry on then later on nabaling na yung attention and admiration ni gf kay friend and ikaw, si bf, wala man lang kaalam alam sa mga nangyayari.)

[sacred cow]

^ siyempre foul yun, sa dami dami nang babae kelangan ex pa talaga ng kaibigan mo...sobrang disrespectful naman nun. some guys are ok with it, pero usually kung close talaga NO NO yun..unless willing si guy ipagpalit yung samahan niya with his friend for the girl. It also says a lot about the guy's character, ewan ko na lang sa babae if she wants to be with an "ahas"

[Prinsesa Mumela]

^
Ouch bro. Past is past haha

[Girltalker2]

How? Sorry medyo t**** pagdating sa ganyan  Simpleng usap? pasimpleng sulyap? ang hirap naman magpakita ng interest sa guy na type mo kasi syempre baka mareject ka ng bongga and that hurts ha?

Yup ganun lang yun. Smile, eye contact.  Dress well.    Kapag andyan sya, sadyain mo kunwari dadaan ka sa part nya to get something coffee or what.  Then make a conversation. Ganun lang.

so dapat ba ipakita ng girls na interested sila kay guy? hindi ba turn off kay guy yun, like girls are the one who's making papansin?

On the contrary, hindi naman yung lagi kang nakatingin ko naka text sa kanya.  Kapag kinausap ka, go lang.  Kapag hindi, mag HI ka lang.  Kahit nasayo na ang cel# nya, huwag ka text ng text.  Kapag nagtext sya, huwag ka agad sasagot.  Mag antay ka ng konti mga isang oras kahit atat na atat ka na sumagot haha    

may mga guys ba talaga na hindi agad kinukuha yung # ng girl? yung gym mate ko kasi he already asked my name, he asked me if im single and yung ibang info ko like where do i work, what's my work, where i graduated in college, anong course ko, ano madalas kong ginagawa pag off ko, etc.. pero sa dami dami na ng nalaman nya sa'kin never naman nya hiningi # ko or even FB accoutn ko.
if that's the case ba does it mean na he doesn't like me or he's not interested with me? kasi diba usual guys once na nabigyan na sila kausapin yung girl na type nila then definitely they will ask na agad for the girl's #?

Sis, sure ka hindi sya bakla?  kasi marami akong guys na nakikita sa gym na bakla eh hehe 
Puedeng baka may asawa narin at nakikipaglandian lang sayo.    Maraming ganyan.
Contrary to what others have suggested, I wouldn't ask for his number. Hahanap nalang ako ng ibang crush na mas desedido akong makilala.
Just keep your options open at kung hindi nya hingin number mo, meron pa naman ibang guys.

[fleur_de_liz]

@Girltalker2, yeah right.. i will try my best to be close to him..  medyo nahihiya kasi talaga ko sa kanya pag pinapansin nya ko.

[argento]

How? Sorry medyo t**** pagdating sa ganyan  Simpleng usap? pasimpleng sulyap? ang hirap naman magpakita ng interest sa guy na type mo kasi syempre baka mareject ka ng bongga and that hurts ha?

takot din pala kayong mareject. eh sa min pangkaraniwan na yan.

[fleur_de_liz]

takot din pala kayong mareject. eh sa min pangkaraniwan na yan.

oo naman..sino ba gusto ma-reject.. mas masakit nga sa'min yun kasi too emotional ang mga girl. eh ang mga boys pag na-reject na then shift to next target na yang mga yan while girls naman nagbubuhos talaga ng sobrang emotion sa isang guy kaya pag nareject na, end of the world na yun.. lolz