How would you know if She/ He's the one

[happynlove]

Meron akong experience ng The One That Got Away. Si boyfriend nakamind set na from the start na ako na yung the one. Pero since feeling ko nagsstart palang ako sa career ko, and nageenjoy palang ako, and first boyfriend ko palang siya, hindi ako naging ganun kaserious na he's the one. kaya ayan ngayon, namimiss ko siya. Now that I'm ready hindi na kami pero thankful pa rin ako na naging separated kami kasi kung hindi nangyari yun hindi ko din marerealize na he's the one. So my conclusion is, recognizing that that person is The One both involves your readiness and your decision. It is You who will make him/her The One.
One of the things I learned while out of the relationship is that you must be on the same page.
Hopefully mareconnect kaming dalawa. I'll let you all know pag naging kami.

[la_pinay]

^ agree. goodluck sis

[telekikay]

maraming "the one" panoorin nyo yun "the one" ni jet li, madami syang persona co-existing from parallel universe.

if you say he/she is "the one", ask yourself first if you have met everyone in this universe. have you spoke to them, spend time with them, flirt with the, make love with them? 

Choosing the elusive one is very complicated task prone to errors. remember, everyone is a candidate of being "the one", you know for yourself that you are too.  if you think you already chose the one, you automatically rejects the other person's qualities that you have no idea of.  very unfair.  big disappointment will follow.
 
Do not dwell on searching in the end, you'll find yourself obsessed with the search instead of the person.  Time is a luxury we dont have.  If you fail to seek that one person, your life's journey will get sadder by the day.

[p0isonIvy]

for me, i think its a long process of really trying to get to know each other better. its not like a love at first sight thing or like being hit by lightning.

Do not dwell on searching in the end, you'll find yourself obsessed with the search instead of the person.

^ i like this