Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[carmilina]

^^ tell him to stop, hindi na tama.


Kuya Anon- Yehey! I think masyado lang ako natutuwa kay married guy, a step to avoid him, nag iba ako sched, nag kataon na iba na rin un makukuha nya na schedule.

[anon]

^ pwde rin, carmilina, iwas mode na lang

[junepets]

^,^^ i think ignoring is effective...
kumbaga usap lang re work.. if teammate kayo.. or may need kayo sa isa't isa re work..

[carmilina]

Yeah! Thank you guys! Naku huwag lang nya hahawakan! Naku! Kinakabahan kasi ako kapag nahahwakan nya eh, alam month un tipong "electricity", as in! Ugh!! Kasi ang lalake eh likas na sensual...

[jonielle]

Question. Napagtyatyagaan niyo bang makinig ng heartaches ng mga babae?

medyo late na  pero OO naman I like to hear from girls na may pinagdadaanan.



dami na bago nag popost sa thread na to ah. 

[Perfume_Lover]

feeling ko natackle na ito dito but still gusto ko pa ring itanong, bakit ba kayong mga guys baliw na baliw kayo sa mga beautiful girls kulang na lang irampa niyo sila na parang trophy nakakainsecure  kahit paano pinapaint ko tuloy yung mukha ko ng makeup ng lumevel up naman 

[junepets]

^lol.
lalo na pag kumpul kumpol sila.. tapus pare-pareho reaction..
di man lang narealize na may kasama silang mga babae...

[graezieylicious]

feeling ko natackle na ito dito but still gusto ko pa ring itanong, bakit ba kayong mga guys baliw na baliw kayo sa mga beautiful girls kulang na lang irampa niyo sila na parang trophy nakakainsecure  kahit paano pinapaint ko tuloy yung mukha ko ng makeup ng lumevel up naman 

no need to be insecure sis, you are beautiful in your own way

[x-y]

feeling ko natackle na ito dito but still gusto ko pa ring itanong, bakit ba kayong mga guys baliw na baliw kayo sa mga beautiful girls kulang na lang irampa niyo sila na parang trophy nakakainsecure  kahit paano pinapaint ko tuloy yung mukha ko ng makeup ng lumevel up naman 

Dear, wala yan sa itsura. It's how you carry yourself. Be confident.

Nakakainsecure nga minsan but then if you keep that insecurity vibe within you, eh talagang for life ka lang maiinsecure. You gotta love yourself. E ano naman if they don't notice you. One day, you will meet that person who will see you as a beautiful person even without the make-up on.

[sacred cow]

Dear, wala yan sa itsura. It's how you carry yourself. Be confident.

Nakakainsecure nga minsan but then if you keep that insecurity vibe within you, eh talagang for life ka lang maiinsecure. You gotta love yourself. E ano naman if they don't notice you. One day, you will meet that person who will see you as a beautiful person even without the make-up on.

well said! most guys din don't like girls with too much make up...so you're doing yourself a disservice kung lagi ka may make up

[sacred cow]

feeling ko natackle na ito dito but still gusto ko pa ring itanong, bakit ba kayong mga guys baliw na baliw kayo sa mga beautiful girls kulang na lang irampa niyo sila na parang trophy nakakainsecure  kahit paano pinapaint ko tuloy yung mukha ko ng makeup ng lumevel up naman 

Visually oriented talaga mga lalake, which is why we can't help it but to look at pretty girls. If you think that it's unfair that men give an unproportionate amount of attention to hot girls, then
you've just experience how it is everyday for men may joke nga na "being an ugly girl is like being a man...you're gonna have to work" which is why in your case, you've resorted to make up. men's make up
is ''learning game/having game'' or colloquially known as diskarte.

It's actually harder for men because if he wants to be competitive he has a lot of things to consider such as: improving in all areas of looks, status, fame, wealth, and psychosocial dominance (game). For women it’s primarily physical attractiveness (youth and beauty), with secondary traits (personality) falling behind. It is what it is.
Some people view learning "pick up/game" as wrong because it's deceptive ergo lying as compared to being ''natural'' but then what do you call ''make up''
that women have been using since puberty, this link gives a good comparison of the two http://www.adarkheart.com/2012/11/15/makeup-is-worse-than-game/

[snowhite_12]

is it normal for a guy mag avoid ni girl pag like niyo siya?
tapos nag sesend nag lovequotes...ang gulo, makes me think lalaki ba ito or hindi?

[x-y]

well said! most guys din don't like girls with too much make up...so you're doing yourself a disservice kung lagi ka may make up

Actually, make-up somehow boosts a girl's confidence. I do use make-up. Actually experimental yun kase hahanapin mo yun bagay na make-up sayo. Hehe

And it's not naman disservice if you always use make-up. Choice yun ng girl. Like what I said, what's important is how she carries herself and how she values herself as a human being and a woman, per se.
Kaya nga if she has this strong/likeable aura, kahit walang make-up yun, mapapansin at mapapansin siya =)

And how do you keep that likeable aura? GOOD VIBES

[graezieylicious]

^I agree. I think same tayo ng personality sis. Kanina i had less make up, but manong driver got attracted to my happy aura and good vibes

[x-y]

^I agree. I think same tayo ng personality sis. Kanina i had less make up, but manong driver got attracted to my happy aura and good vibes

Hehe. *virtual high five* lol

Maganda nga pero nakasimangot, that doesn't attract men.

[graezieylicious]

Hehe. *virtual high five* lol

Maganda nga pero nakasimangot, that doesn't attract men.

Men or most people are attracted to happy personality

[x-y]

^ true.

[sacred cow]

Actually, make-up somehow boosts a girl's confidence. I do use make-up. Actually experimental yun kase hahanapin mo yun bagay na make-up sayo. Hehe

And it's not naman disservice if you always use make-up. Choice yun ng girl. Like what I said, what's important is how she carries herself and how she values herself as a human being and a woman, per se.
Kaya nga if she has this strong/likeable aura, kahit walang make-up yun, mapapansin at mapapansin siya =)

And how do you keep that likeable aura? GOOD VIBES

Touché

narealize ko lang ang hirap palang maging babae...we guys should really cut you some slack, I really need to be more sensitive

[x-y]

^ Good =)

[minatay91]

LOL opinion ko sa makeup lang ha, both guys and girls,

as long as it's tastefully done, it's good. In defense kay sacred cow, I think he just witnessed
horribly, applied makeup. (and majority of guys too)

I don't think a girl with great makeup elicits comments from guys na, "wow I like her eyelashes,
her skin is so flawless/ano color ng lipstick,ano foundation niya/
I like her makeup, who did it?"
 it's just a general comment na,"you look
pretty"

baka sacred cow noticed morena girls using white powder, parang Crinkles ang face ni girl.
or heavily applied eyeliner, parang racoon or panda ang dating,
kaya guys demand "no makeup" even though the girls they "think" are not wearing makeup,
are ACTUALLY full-on wearing makeup
I have done natural makeup (eg the koreana, natural look) and
they think I look pretty. They thought natural beauty lang and I just had 3 days of sleep.
One time, I forgot to wear lipbalm
and all their comments are like,

"ARE U SICK?" ._.

 Basta if their general comment is like, "oh you look prettier today/
blooming today" "ganda ng aura mo today"
or "oh yesterday you were blooming, are you sick today?" "did you take a  bath
", "did you sleep well?" "you look like you're dying, what happened?"

 and usually if you just did it right, they can't really tell what you did specifically.
of course, they do notice makeup like PURPLE EYESHADOW, THICK EYELINER, RED HOT/PINK/
ORANGE lips, super pink blush on na parang chalk is all over your cheeks and kahit
how many times girls will say, "light makeup" it's not light, and it will never be because it's
extremely striking.

just my two cents. tldr; guys dont complain about makeup as long as it's nicely done.

also regarding simangot look, I noticed some guys like the challenge and find "some" of these
girls alluring and mysterious, but generally, less approachable than happy girls.