Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[jtansanco]

^^ Yeah. Cuz he's married and he's flirting with you purposely. In the end, ikaw lang masasaktan. He's just playing you! That should be your mindset when you see him.

[jan888]

^^^if the guy is married, stay away..  no ifs and buts.. no dilemma..

[sacred cow]

I've got a dilemma! Help! Well, not exactly... I have this new guy co worker na talagang crush ko, everyday talaga, palakas ng lakas yun attraction namin sa isa't isa... Gusto ko na mawala un eh, kasi ang "alam ko" he is married! Hindi ko ma resist un charm nya at ganun din sya sa akin. Yun tipong mag blu blush at tipong minsan ilang na din sya! Ugh!un mahawakan ko lang un kamay eh, Boom (Fireworks!) He is not that super greatlooking,mga tipong JM DeGuzman lang un peg! Ano ba? Help! Dapat ko ba sya iwasan?

bakit mo siya iiwasan, as far as your story goes wala pa naman siyang ginagawa

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[carmilina]

@JT- yeah  I really need to, madami na kasi nakaka notice na bagay kami , it's kinda awkward na din kasi...

@Jan- yeah I really should stay away, kaso mag pareho kami ng shift sa work, then 5 tao lang kami sa ganun oras...

@Sacred- wala pa naman, ayoko pang abangan na may mangyari pa...

[anon]

^ hirap iwasan kasi officemate. get to know him then mentally put him into the F-zone

[entwife]

Question. Napagtyatyagaan niyo bang makinig ng heartaches ng mga babae?

[anon]

^ okay lang with me. wag lang yung minsan may advise na binigay tapos next time mag-usap ulit, same mistakes made

[entwife]

Yeah. Kasi 2 of my girlfriends right now eh nagdradrama for the same issue. It's been like a month or 2. May slight changes lang sa mga kwento nila but it's the same thing. And pati ako naaapektuhan na. Like i'm happy. Pero nagraradiate na sakin yung negative energy nila. Kailangan ata ipakausap ko sila sa lalake para minsanang advise lang.

[gorgeous_me]

^^yung mga kawork mates ko na guys, gustong gusto yan, lol...mga intrigero kasi, pero nakakatuwa lang din minsan, may mga sense din kasi kapag nagcocomment, kahit feeling mo mga chismoso haha

[anon]

@ entwife -- tell them to register na muna kaya dito sa GT. galing ng mga advises ni cow and jt eh (sincere ito ha)

@gorgeous -- i guess some men learn also from the chisms!

[entwife]

Ako ba lang mgkwekwento. One of them is dating a married guy na parang before eh pinaramdam ng guy nanas mahal na sya kesa sa wife nya. Now, parang naglay low yung guy, got a little colder.

The other one 5years sila, may history yung guy na nambababae, wala pa msyado effort yung guy sa relationship nila. They broke up due to 3rd party. Now, parang the guy is trying tp win her back pero di mahiwalayan [textspeak!] current gf.

May point of argument pa ba dito? Wala na diba. Move on. And all i can hear is "mahal ko eh".

[anon]

^ they know the answers to their problems. just want empathy siguro. seriously, might help them to read similar stories here in GT, and tips on moving on.

#1 tip: don't look back 

[entwife]

Yeah. and that's my role. to listen to their never- ending dramarama. haha i love my friends kaso if it's the same thing nga naman, they gotta help themselves na rin.

[carmilina]

@anon- but he's hot eh lol! yeah pero hindi naman talaga ppatol dun, siguro na te tempt lang din sya, ayoko na may mangyari pa , ayoko ng office affair..

[sacred cow]

Question. Napagtyatyagaan niyo bang makinig ng heartaches ng mga babae?

if and only if I'm not interested dun sa babae, kung oo I don't want to be her emotional tampon...she has her girlfriends/boylets for that

[entwife]

I also think you should not openly share your negativity to a prospect. There's someone before who was trying to flirt with me but nung nagkwento ng problema, sus napaka negative.

[solepurplelife]

Hi guys, I was hesitant to ask this 'coz I think its kinda petty but I'll ask it anyway.

Well' there's this guy na palaging nagpaparinig or nagpaparamdam that he likes this girl. Like he'll say na crush nya si girl or nagagandahan sya kay girl. What happened is palagi na silang tinutukso to each other. Nag-aalala si girl kasi baka magkaroon ng meaning sa ibang nakakarinig besides hindi nya like si boy. Is it okay to ask the boy na to stop bothering her? Para kasing inappropriate kasi hindi naman nanliligaw si boy. Hindi ba sya magmumukhang assuming?

[dreamboy]

Maybe bias ako but for me i think wag naman direct. I don't want to burst someone's bubble. Just say na "meron na ako" or a simple joke na "he's not my type kaya tigilan nyo na kami".

For me kasi if yung girl direct nag sabi na ayaw nya sayo ay masyado namang feeling maganda, suplada na dapat tumanda. Lol

[anon]

^ ask a mutual friend to tell the guy to stop?

[sacred cow]

I also think you should not openly share your negativity to a prospect. There's someone before who was trying to flirt with me but nung nagkwento ng problema, sus napaka negative.

agree'd/10