Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[entwife]

It's funny how we try understand that statement. We even have to breakdown and define each word.  parang puzzle lang. hehe

Hindi ba straightforward magsalita ang lalake? or do you guys include some sort of logic test sa mga statements niyo.

[anon]

^ eh kasi naman ang dapat tanungin ni sportygurl eh yung ka MU nya...or better yet, ask the guy to register here

[graezieylicious]

I believe actions are louder than words, very applicable sa guys.

[minatay91]

ANON, ano yung signal? Is it something sa smile? Like natatawa kahit nag.NO or naka.grin
kahit nag.no?

[anon]

graezie, turuan mo nga si minatay how to play with men

[minatay91]

^ hey! dont evade the question! I'm merely trying to look out for myself haha

[graezieylicious]

graezie, turuan mo nga si minatay how to play with men

What? Me? Don't believe Anon, I am a good girl, I'm innocent

[graezieylicious]

^ speaking of "not making a move unless you're sure of the answer",
are guys able to tell if a girl is making pakipot or ayaw niya talaga?

May intinct din ang guys. Be flirtsome din kasi girl then observe his reaction.

[minatay91]

^ I'd rather not kase I'm not looking for trouble.  0=) or rather, they prefer to do the flirting
so I let them (depende na yun sa face value. alam na. ) ansabi lang ng iba is "may instinct"
ka pero I think of myself with a very unforgiving judgemental gut instinct

[graezieylicious]

^Ganito kasi yan, be flirtsome but challenging. There should be a fusion kasi girl. Don't expect din na may reciprocate agad ang guy just have fun flirting and giving them a mental challenge at the same time. Trust me it's fun

[anon]

@graezie, minatay91 is asking how she can gently kick the balls of guys making advances on her

@ minatay91 -- just remember this: with guys, give an inch of your hand, and they'll bite off your whole arm

check this link and other PUA sites na rin: http://www.thefrisky.com/2013-04-16/8-lessons-from-pickup-artists-that-guys-should-actually-use/

[graezieylicious]

@graezie, minatay91 is asking how she can gently kick the balls of guys making advances on her

@ minatay91 -- just remember this: with guys, give an inch of your hand, and they'll bite off your whole arm

check this link and other PUA sites na rin: http://www.thefrisky.com/2013-04-16/8-lessons-from-pickup-artists-that-guys-should-actually-use/

@anon

Why let them bite your whole arm my dear if you can turn the table in favor of you???
I dont kick guy's balls, i crush their ego..gently..as possible. lol

@minatay

sometimes you just let the guy be..play with their tactics if you want
Remember: Guys do love fishing, it is their favorite sport i.e. flirting with you to get laid. They observe you if they can score before they make a move.

[minatay91]

graezy: sis, in my experience ha, ewan if timing lang sa guy or maybe I'm doing it wrong, pero as anon says, any reciprocation, naputol ko yung arm ko and everything in between ayoko kase maging sleazy or mukhang sex object sa lalake. I mean, I'm open but I have limitations rin and I'm not that accomodating

bottomline kase is ayoko magpaasa. nakadisappoint/frustrate and sometimes, the emotional outcome is nasty rin ayoko rin mawala ng respeto and I'd rather not destroy my rep.

or baka delusional lang kaming lahat


anon:

HAHAHA OMG relate ako super sa bite off sa entire arm, kaya cautious ako and tanong2 ng ibang lalake for output before anything else. parang sige fine, have an inch of my hand, diyan ka lang din, you don't deserve my complete arm, just to set your expectations.


In this game I seem to be unconsciously playing, I feel like that newbie causing random glitches in gameplay

[graezieylicious]

graezy: sis, in my experience ha, ewan if timing lang sa guy or maybe I'm doing it wrong, pero as anon says, any reciprocation, naputol ko yung arm ko and everything in between ayoko kase maging sleazy or mukhang sex object sa lalake. I mean, I'm open but I have limitations rin and I'm not that accomodating

bottomline kase is ayoko magpaasa. nakadisappoint/frustrate and sometimes, the emotional outcome is nasty rin ayoko rin mawala ng respeto and I'd rather not destroy my rep.

or baka delusional lang kaming lahat


anon:

HAHAHA OMG relate ako super sa bite off sa entire arm, kaya cautious ako and tanong2 ng ibang lalake for output before anything else. parang sige fine, have an inch of my hand, diyan ka lang din, you don't deserve my complete arm, just to set your expectations.


In this game I seem to be unconsciously playing, I feel like that newbie causing random glitches in gameplay

@minatay
You are too safe girl which sometimes equates to being boring.
Naturally, guys view girls as a hump toy or sex object, it is your way how to show them that you are not along the way by playing his game better.

Learn to explore and play the game kasi but always know your limitations. Hindi porket open ka eh mawawalan ka na ng respeto, depende lang din yun sa taong nakakasalamuha mo and how you view yourself.

[minatay91]

^^ hehe parang YOLO ang peg mo graezy. Thing is, I'd rather still want to be able to live with
myself (if I do play around) Pero yung question is, I hope that the way you see these open
and liberated people is the general viewpoint rin ng mga lalake? especially the ones I actually
imagine na I would want to be with, eg good breeding/high morals. I mean, at the end
of all, I still want to be viewed as a respectable and professional person (Is it possible
from a general standpoint?) baka dapat discreet player ako to meet all of the above.

Maybe the game isn't for me and I'm just encountering a few rotten eggs? tee hee! or sanay to
a certain type of lalake.. I don't know.

[entwife]

Maybe sometimes you just gotta stop thinking and start living your life?

This is not a matter of black and white. I can say it's more of a trial and error. One question here can result to a hundred different answers.

[minatay91]

^ stop thinking talaga sis? I mean, there's nothing wrong with asking for opinions and maybe
maka.jackpot rin ako with good advice/suggestions while living life.

[graezieylicious]

Maybe sometimes you just gotta stop thinking and start living your life?

This is not a matter of black and white. I can say it's more of a trial and error. One question here can result to a hundred different answers.

Yeah right. Learn to enjoy life and focus on yourself. Let loose once in a while. Live life to the fullest.

^^ hehe parang YOLO ang peg mo graezy. Thing is, I'd rather still want to be able to live with
myself (if I do play around) Pero yung question is, I hope that the way you see these open
and liberated people is the general viewpoint rin ng mga lalake? especially the ones I actually
imagine na I would want to be with, eg good breeding/high morals. I mean, at the end
of all, I still want to be viewed as a respectable and professional person (Is it possible
from a general standpoint?) baka dapat discreet player ako to meet all of the above.

Maybe the game isn't for me and I'm just encountering a few rotten eggs? tee hee! or sanay to
a certain type of lalake.. I don't know.

@minatay

how old are you na ba sis? wait, what do u mean that you are encountering a few rotten eggs?

[Perfume_Lover]

turn off ba sa guys yung hindi flirt ang girl na gusto niyo? or baligtad ata, turn off ba sa inyo yung babaeng flirt ang girl? Pansin ko kasi mas gusto na ng boys ngayon yung medyo marunong mag flirt, dito kasi ako talaga zero as in whew! Puwede answer niyo na lang both haha

[Naughty^GuRu]

What will you do if you found out that your girlfriend (for 10 years) had sex with an officemate?
Are you gonna forgive and forget because of your 10-year relationship?

i'll forget her and iisipin ko na she never existed. yes, agree ako na 10 years of being together is no joke, pero kung yun yung gagamitin mong reason to forgive her and makipag balikan, then you're stupid. sana inisip din nung girl yung 10 year relationship nila nung guy bago siya nakipagsex sa iba, and i am sure naisip niya yun. naisip niya yung risk na malaman ng bf niya, mag away sila, and maghiwalay. naisip niya lahat yun yet ginawa pa rin niya. which means, hindi ganun kalalim [textspeak!] love and yung relationship niyo for her para i-risk lahat lahat to have sex with a guy. that's very unfair. forgivable? maybe. but to forget? mahirap yun. dadalhin mo yun buong buhay mo.

ok question, boylet asked me to send a pic of mine,I send him a decent pic. now he still asked more pics of mine. does he have a crush on me?  kasi naman it boost my confidence! LOL  (ambisyosa lang)

hindi ba kayo FB friend ng Boylet mo? and hindi ka ba niya nakikita madalas? if ang sagot mo is YES FB friends kayo and YES nagkikita naman kayo, then ang creepy ng boylet mo 

May new employee kasi sa amin, guy sya.. then I always caught him staring at me, may mga co workers ako nag kaka crush sa kanya, pero ang alam ko he has a kid na , don"t know if he is married or not.

Anyway, yun nga madaming beses na talaga, tapos napansin din nila, umo okay un porma nya. Takot sya makipag usap sa akin, kasi medyo suplada at masungit ako eh.. hehe...

weird talaga... ano inputs nyo dito?

normal naman sa tao lalo na for guys na tumingin sa babae. yes, maybe he is checking you out pero normal lang naman yun. dapat ata ikaw yung tanungin ko, obviously binibigyan mo ng malice and meaning yung pag tingin niya sayo. do you like him? kasi kung hindi mo naman gusto yung guy hindi mo naman bibigyan ng importance yung pag tingin-tingin sayo ng guy, unless creepy and mala stalker yung dating ni guy

what if someone you like, na ka-MU mo (sort of) told you, "ayaw ko na magdate ng ibang babae dahil gusto ko magconcentrate na talaga sa studies ko. kaya settle na ako sa isang kagaya mo". ano ibig nya sabihin? kasi un sinabi nya, parang medyo nakakaoffend ang dating para sakin.

don't dig too much sa mga sinabi niya. yan na mismo yung gusto niyang sabihin. ayaw niya ng girlfriend. pero gusto ka niya. maybe there's something sayo na gusto niya. maybe hindi ka demanding, hindi ka nag eexpect ng anything, etc. ang gusto niyang sabihin is, ayaw niya ng responsibility kaya ayaw niya ng relationship. and sa tingin niya, acceptable sayo yun.

^ speaking of "not making a move unless you're sure of the answer",
are guys able to tell if a girl is making pakipot or ayaw niya talaga?

hanggat binibigyan ng chance ng girl si guy, para kay guy, nagpapakipot lang si girl.

turn off ba sa guys yung hindi flirt ang girl na gusto niyo? or baligtad ata, turn off ba sa inyo yung babaeng flirt ang girl? Pansin ko kasi mas gusto na ng boys ngayon yung medyo marunong mag flirt, dito kasi ako talaga zero as in whew! Puwede answer niyo na lang both haha

you don't need to flirt with a guy para lang ipakita sa kanya na interested ka. pag sobrang flirt kasi ng girl, nagmumukang cheap. and kung exclusive lang sa kanya yung pagiging flirt mo, then i guess acceptable yun. pero kung sa lahat eh ganun ka, turn off yun.