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junepets

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Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« on: August 06, 2013, 11:35:48 am »
guyz new thread na tayo...

post away sisters.. and bros..

link to previous thread:

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,273730.600.html

entwife

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #1 on: August 06, 2013, 02:04:37 pm »
how would you "unfriend" an acquaintance (almost friend) para hindi matuloy sa friendzone?

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #2 on: August 06, 2013, 03:07:43 pm »
^the only difference between "rejected'' and ''friendzone'' is that yung nasa friendzone, continues to be in the contact with the person who rejected him/her.
you can't be in the friendzone when you're no longer friends

tough_guy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #3 on: August 07, 2013, 12:07:35 pm »
paano pag na pre emptive supalpal ka?

jtansanco

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #4 on: August 07, 2013, 12:56:59 pm »
Ayos ah. 3rd thread na! :D

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #5 on: August 07, 2013, 01:04:31 pm »
paano pag na pre emptive supalpal ka?

find another target bro, move on and go no contact sakanya. If you'd still be contact with her, you'll kill all your chances
with her and get pushed further down the friendzone. while not being in contact with her work on yourself and go out with other girls,
if she learns about it, it might pique her interest kung meron man kahit konti...if not at least may new chick ka na, and you should not really care
since you should've already move on

minatay91

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #6 on: August 08, 2013, 01:06:44 pm »
sacred cow:

sorry pasensya na. tomboy means lesbian in where I live. :) but tomboy sa english dictionary means boyish so I see where you're coming from :)

LOL sa fat women = walking teddy bear.


insulto 'ata sa teddy bear kase teddy bear is cute haha :P thanks sa input. ayoko na sumasama sa kanila period haha

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question:

I don't know if you guys are receptive enough to the "look"? Usually kase, iba daw ang nasa "eyes" ng girl like if I'm looking at a guy I like. (comment ng friends ko is may hearts daw sa mata ko LOL) Can you tell if a girl likes you by the way her eyes just look at you and sa grin niya? :))

Sometimes it's unintentional, sometimes it isnt :)

which brings me to the next question

ano point ng guy na parang laging mag.joke about kayong dalawa? I don't know how to put it in words, but parang ganito ka.obnoxious.

guy: alam ko may gusto ka sa akin. (if tapad kayo unintentionally) bakit palagi kang lumalapit sa akin? [insert millions of pickup lines here] aba natatawa ka, kinikilig ka sa akin diba? wag pakipot! grabe ang malice sa mata mo if tumingin ka sa akin! ano kaba, may gf ako at I love her, friends lang tayo muna ha.

(btw, reaction ko palagi is if I'm not speechless,im laughing kase the way he says it is funny)

confidence bordering on cocky ba.halata naman yung pagkaplayer though. parang nagpapakilig and laging he makes the two of you an item.
I mean, I know it's a player move but what is it for? :)) diba matakot ang lalake if naka.turn off?

it actually pissed me off the first few times and I had no choice but to get used to it because he's my workmate for now. haha

I'll terminate him from my office nalang kaya haha

jtansanco

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2013, 06:03:35 pm »
^ The question is, kinikilig ka ba? Naiinis ka na? Or parang normal na sayo yun? If kinikilig ka and parang normal na sayo yun, then just go with the flow. Pero if naiinis ka na, gawa ka ng experiment. Derechuhan mo siya out of nowhere na ang kapal ng mukha niya, na hindi mo siya type, na ang hangin niya, na ang corny ng mga sinasabi niya + serious look (make sure di ka tatawa) and then leave. Tignan nalang natin ano magiging reaction niya the next time you meet. If you feel na sobra yung ginawa mo, just say: "Bleh! Joke lang. Why so serious?" or something like that.

Ichiro

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2013, 07:01:44 pm »
Can you tell if a girl likes you by the way her eyes just look at you and sa grin niya? :))

for me NO... you can never tell... maraming girls na magaling umarte...

which brings me to the next question

ano point ng guy na parang laging mag.joke about kayong dalawa? I don't know how to put it in words, but parang ganito ka.obnoxious.

guy: alam ko may gusto ka sa akin. (if tapad kayo unintentionally) bakit palagi kang lumalapit sa akin? [insert millions of pickup lines here] aba natatawa ka, kinikilig ka sa akin diba? wag pakipot! grabe ang malice sa mata mo if tumingin ka sa akin! ano kaba, may gf ako at I love her, friends lang tayo muna ha.

(btw, reaction ko palagi is if I'm not speechless,im laughing kase the way he says it is funny)

confidence bordering on cocky ba.halata naman yung pagkaplayer though. parang nagpapakilig and laging he makes the two of you an item.
I mean, I know it's a player move but what is it for? :)) diba matakot ang lalake if naka.turn off?

it actually pissed me off the first few times and I had no choice but to get used to it because he's my workmate for now. haha

I'll terminate him from my office nalang kaya haha

definitely... he is FLIRTING with you... that's it...

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2013, 10:53:57 pm »
Can you tell if a girl likes you by the way her eyes just look at you and sa grin niya? :))

Oo naman, it's obvious when a girl likes you...when you have to wonder kung umaarte lang siya, then it probably means wala.

confidence bordering on cocky ba.halata naman yung pagkaplayer though. parang nagpapakilig and laging he makes the two of you an item.
I mean, I know it's a player move but what is it for? :)) diba matakot ang lalake if naka.turn off?

it actually pissed me off the first few times and I had no choice but to get used to it because he's my workmate for now. haha

I'll terminate him from my office nalang kaya haha

ganito rin ako sa officemate kong babae, except teddy bear ang tingin ko sakanya 'coz she's chubby and really plain looking. kaya pantritrip lang talaga yun.
either ganun din siya sayo or baka naman chumi cheapshot and testing you on how you'd react. "cocky funny" when done right is effective...sometimes calibrate lang kasi baka maging "cocky *censored*" yung delivery. I think gusto mo yung
pag execute niya, pero I can also sense na hindi mo type yung guy. Siguro kung gusto mo rin siya, baka nagblulush ka na or sinasakyan mo na hirit niya.
« Last Edit: August 08, 2013, 11:05:01 pm by sacred cow »

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2013, 10:55:29 pm »
Off-topic:
Is there a thread where can I ask questions regarding women.  ;D
Nag search na ko, walang result. XD


post away...I believe pwede naman or you could start a new thread for your specific question :)
« Last Edit: August 08, 2013, 11:04:06 pm by sacred cow »

tough_guy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #11 on: August 08, 2013, 11:05:05 pm »
sacred cow, tayo naman magtanong sakanila! hahaha

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #12 on: August 08, 2013, 11:12:20 pm »
^ you don't ask your prey on how better to catch it :)

Ichiro

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #13 on: August 08, 2013, 11:17:13 pm »
Off-topic:
Is there a thread where can I ask questions regarding women.  ;D
Nag search na ko, walang result. XD


this is GIRLTALK... and in general... when you post questions, women will answer (majority) except kung ipopost mo sa category ng WE'VE GOT MALE when majority ng sasagot ay guys.

just post your question on the correct category...


minatay91

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #14 on: August 09, 2013, 12:25:12 pm »
Quote
Is there a thread where can I ask questions regarding women.  ;D
Nag search na ko, walang result. XD

I think wala but you can try starting the thread somewhere .

but tip lang though, not to be obnoxious or anything,compared to most advice I read on the net and the ones from them, usually it's only "meh, so-so" advice. parang women cant really give "GREAT" advice (except about being kikay siguro, and not all women ha. Siguro I only encounter 1 in 20 women with great logical opinions!) esp. about love/relationships---stuff about guys. Most of the time, they're just good for support! :) or empathy. Or maybe I just know shitty women. haha usually they think about the things "they want" or "applies" to them and can be really biased and irrational compared to guys. :)
AND THE BEST PART IS SOMETIMES THEY SAY WHAT THEY DONT REALLY MEAN, OR DONT REALLY MEAN WHAT THEY SAY ::) eg: "please leave me alone. please. HOW DARE YOU LEAVE ME ALONE YOU INCONSIDERATE *** "

eg go to women to talk about problems, talk to men if you want it resolved. Oh, and sometimes we like denying about liking certain things.. especially if nakahiya. (making guys sometimes so far from the truth)

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jtansanco:

not kilig at all, but unfortunately ha.. When I smile or talk, pinkish talaga cheeks ko. all the more when I laugh so I'm often mistaken for kinikilig :-X But yung true feelings ko is naka.inis na more of nahiya because 

example, if naka.glance lang ako sa kanya, anlaki ng boses niya while saying

"PWEDE bah hindi ka palaging tumingin ka sa akin at hindi ka mag.flirt? friends lang muna tayo. I love my girlfriend"

 as in naka.WTF talaga ako at  MORTIFIED . (even though it's a joke)

and yes, I retorted sa experiment mo "shit mo lang grabe ang sobrang hangin mo nakapikit mata ko dahil sa alikabok. signal 5 lang ha.grabe messy ng hair ko sa hangin mo *with matching "make-my-hair-buhaghag movements + tripping sideways* + serious maldita face

and he said, "siguro dumi ka lang na babae hindi ka nagsusuklay ng buhok talaga. hay, babae ka naman diba? eww"

lalong mas nainis ako HAHA, and na.speechless pero natawa ako at how witty his comebacks are. LOL it's like vice ganda ba, insulto at ouch pero funny? parang the more I make comebacks, the more hangin and joke-insults come out!

Ichiro:

haha IKR. sobrang halata ang flirt-tripping. ;D
naka.stress lang though. One accidental eye-to-eye contact, he would yell out "ang pogi ko diba? alam ko you really like me at na.crush ka sa akin. pero friends lang muna tayo ha, may gf pa kase ako. bakit hindi mo naintindihan yun?"

 ::) sorry ha, but this is the first time in my entire life naencounter ko lalake na grabe kapal-MOKS at cocky! hhahaa

Sacred cow:

yes you're right. And korek rin na he's not my type. He's the rugged,alpha-type, moreno athletic kind of guy.

 inis-bias aside, despite the fact na gusto ko sabihin na he's so ugly, he's actually good looking and his confidence gives him strong appeal rin. :-X Actually na impress ako at how witty his comebacks are when I insult him. pero nainis/nahiya lang ako sa "projected flirting". And instead of maka.ewww ako sa statements niya, its more of "WTFLOL" ang reactions ko because as you can see, grabe pagka.obnoxious.



Actually ha,

I tried those na. Insulting him back. (fail) Magpacute and paawa please stop that thing (fail) painnocent/denial (fail) defensive/denial (fail) Sinasakyan (SUPER-FAIL!) Ignore (fail)


"Na.didistract ka sa akin diba? sorry po. gwapo lang."

But you what did work?

I noticed the obnoxious statements come when we make eye contact. So I did not look at him all day.


SUPRISE!!!!!! change tactics siya! laging naghiram-nakaw sa stuff ko, random ramblings, unexpected friendly touches (patting on head, sitting close and sleeping on my shoulder, massage) But I refused to look at him and I never smile when he's around. And I pansin all his friends except him :)


IT WORKS LOL. I've recovered from the hiya. Although, I want to clarify the "mechanism" behind the "obnoxious" flirting strategy and the sudden change of tactics para I can handle myself better. :) 


Would you do this obnoxious way of flirting, or do you know someone who does this?

   Tripping ba lang ito, nagpagalit lang or papansin or what?
   
Will this strategy work for you or not? If yes/no, WHY?
I was just caught off guard. haha
« Last Edit: August 09, 2013, 01:28:08 pm by minatay91 »

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #15 on: August 09, 2013, 12:49:03 pm »
I think wala but you can try starting the thread somewhere .

but tip lang though, not to be obnoxious or anything,compared to most advice I read on the net and the ones from them, usually it's only "meh, so-so" advice. parang women cant really give "GREAT" advice (except about being kikay siguro, and not all women ha. Siguro I only encounter 1 in 20 women with great logical opinions!) esp. about love/relationships---stuff about guys. Most of the time, they're just good for support! :) or empathy. Or maybe I just know shitty women. haha usually they think about the things "they want" or "applies" to them and can be really biased and irrational compared to guys. :)
AND THE BEST PART IS SOMETIMES THEY SAY WHAT THEY DONT REALLY MEAN, OR DONT REALLY MEAN WHAT THEY SAY ::) eg: "please leave me alone. please. HOW DARE YOU LEAVE ME ALONE YOU INCONSIDERATE *** "

eg go to women to talk about problems, talk to men if you want it resolved. Oh, and sometimes we like denying about liking certain things.. especially if nakahiya. (making guys sometimes so far from the truth)


I wholeheartedly agree, this is why I don't ask dating advice anymore from women. Women are awesome, it's just that they don't seem to be able to give sound advice no matter how good their intentions are

http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/29/female-dating-advice/


jtansanco

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #16 on: August 09, 2013, 02:48:04 pm »
minatay - Rent a friend and tell that guy na may bf ka na while with the guy. Or, show him pictures na you're cuddling with your "bf". Or if hindi mo kaya, tell him your "secret". You like girls and you're not interested in boys. Haha.  ;)

sacred cow

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #17 on: August 09, 2013, 03:18:49 pm »
@minatay

you could do 2 things

1) Just ignore him like he doesn't exist, kapag sumobra threaten to report him to HR for harassment

2) Eto mas masama, you could befriend him and treat him like a girlfriend...as in gawin mo siyang emotional tampon,
tell him your problems about men, vent out ka sakanya and always tell him how he's such a good friend. as in i-friendzone mo talaga
ng bonggang bonga. treat him like you would treat a guy na "harmless" alam mo yung guy that all girls treat nicely but doesn't find him worth dating. gawin mo yun sakanya, there's nothing worse for a player than to be considered impotent :)
« Last Edit: August 09, 2013, 03:26:00 pm by sacred cow »

bubbles_sandy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #18 on: August 10, 2013, 06:56:46 am »
when can you say na you really love the girl? like self realization that you are in love.

tough_guy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)
« Reply #19 on: August 10, 2013, 07:59:30 am »
when can you say na you really love the girl? like self realization that you are in love.
Men don't fall in love the same way women do. We might be subtle when it comes to showing love, so ladies please appreciate the little things.

 

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